Guys ! We You Marry Her?

@poster - I'm sorry, but what does this statement mean? how will she "easily" take the kids off the picture? No woman should be "easily" wiiling to erase her kids off the "picture" for another man. Does not sound rite.

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A mistake?  what happened after the first mistake? She made another one?  I think you are not willing to accept the obvious. From what i've read so far, it is clear you are being played like an accordion. you need to wake up b4 you make this mistake which you will most certainly regret.

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What does this have to do with her Pastor, or Sis? And why r u speaking with them on what is strictly a personal matter? My guess is that she asked/encouraged you to, because she set it all up.

Now, this really takes the biscuit. She quickly gathered money, planned her travel, arranged a place to stay, in a foreign land - all because you cheated on her! Haba! c'mon now, this does not sound plausible.

Keep dreaming and keep wasting. Honestly, she knew you were a perfect fool before she served you with these conspicuous lies.

if na living outside the country dey worry am, make hin go Togo or Ghana, na the same thing 



i couldn't have said it better 

really? plz read your postings and see if u are making any common sense. i guess it is true, common sense isn't really common after all

Quote from: seunnowell on June 30, 2009, 06:31 PM

really? plz read your postings and see if u are making any common sense. i guess it is true, common sense isn't really common after all

Yes is true, common sense isn't really common because you lack it from onset  and for contributing to this post.  

olodo times 20  u wan go abroad by force, mugu united 

You asked for opinions, and you've gotten peoples opinions and now you're trading offensive remarks. You haven't bothered to explain why you are interested in this, so it's natural for people to assume you've got nothing good going on for you and you're simply grateful that an opportunity for a better/different life has presented itself. Under normal circumstances, if a man has built a life for himself and a woman from his past rocks up with baggage, would he drop it all to follow her? The answer is No sane individual would do that, whats your reason? Stop sugar coating the issue!

He's so adamant at going to Dublin! Opportunist!!

Hahahaha A classless moron pulling jabbing stunts while your ordeal projects you more in an opportunist's light. You're a practical joke. By the way I heard you had a brain transplant and the brain rejected you, but honestly, have you been this foolish or are you just upgrading?

Yes we learned to respect ourselves and maintain our pride by not falling too each for a foreign fortune coupled with endless baggage that will make you nothing but less a man of integrity and high morale. Your dad wanted a male child, do you have an idea of how disappointed he was when you were borne? Ask him! 

@Jules123 - Dont take the harsh replies it too hard. I'm sure its nothing personal.
Most people here are just expressing their opinions on the matter to you the same way they would to a good friend - harsh, blunt, uncoated and devoid of any tact, sensitivity or diplomacy. especially as it seems your position on the issue is already defined and aligned toward  a certain direction.

Pple just dey talk luv as if say na moimoi wey u fit buy for market. If truly she loves him, why didn't she forgive him in the first place? My brother, run for your dear life., danger is looming!!!!!!!!

He's a darn fool!

Most men, singles that is, are trying their best NOT to deal with someone's baggage. Unless he was previously married and has his own baggage, that's a different story. But then again, if he has no kids from previous marriage/relationship he still prefer single lady.

she's cooking up revenge for what you did to her 8years ago!be careful cos he intentions my not be all true.about removing the kids from the picture,no woman in her right mind will do such thing for a man(especially one who was caught cheating) so take a cue and be careful.life abroad isn't that easy.am in the usa right now and i was married to this wonderful man(or so i thought).he treated me like crap and when i could take it no longer i left and it's been many years now and i don't regret leaving him,i just regret being with him.she's probably just coming back for you because she has no one left to have her

The truth is that, our women abroad knows that our men value and respect our women and we stay in marriage and not as abusive as the western world guys. She has tasted them and came back to her senses like the prodigal son. Guys, we are special and that is why our women still come back home to make their choice or go back to their first love. I would say, consider her and am very sure that she is not here to use you. See her as your prodigal son who is back to you. Love her and forget the fact that she has 2 kids. U cant tell me that you dont have someone you love right now even before she came back to you, you have to be honest with her and not use her to go to Ireland and later come back to pick your lover here. Guess what, your lover too will dosame to you. Its better you just understand that  Oju kan ni ada ni.