Despite All U Do She Just Doesnt Seem To Care

I sincerely luv her, asked her out & of course she said no(actually put "really" in front of d "no") & told me she doesnt want 2 talk abt it. Ever since then she has been so unpredictable, most times she behaves & talk 2 me normally, bt at times it's like she hates seeing my face, might even walk past without saying hello at times. Funny enough we talk normally on phone but I try as much as possible to stay away from d topic cos she's always evasive about it saying things like "wht are u talking abt?" as if d topic has never come up before. God the tension I feel whenever she's around, I cant even look into her eyes sometimes and if I do I dont see any change of expression it doesnt matter if I'm smilling I might as well be looking into my lecturer's eyes, or do u think something is wrong with my confidence? I tried to get close to her to be her friend cos we really dont talk much but u know she has this way of keeping u at a distance, one word answers and all that 've never really been able to go beyond asking how she's doing. It doesnt matter what I say she keeps her face formal when she's talking to me and I wonder how a female can be so impersonal or even if she has any feeling at all she's pretty good at masking it. The truth however is that I love this girl sincerely with the whole of my heart and would do anything within moral limits to convince her of this but then I dont know what else to do I really need advice on this, cant seem to be able to think of any other thing this days & dont really see myself falling in love with someone else.

seconded

that's true. I see no sense in forcing urself/someone into a relationship.

Bro, go out there and do GUYS proud, there are nicer babes out there waiting for the right guy to come around. Just take your time and u will find true love

best of luck

Nick one of her finest friends and be happy! You will enjoy the anger in her demeanor as much as she has been enjoying fiddling with your mind.

wots a judge doin in the market place
ure summoned 2 d court immediately

Try and be her friend, forget all the Love talk, let her trust you and with time she will start to miss you whenever you are not there. If it dosen't work, try somebody that will value you. We are too many.

@Poster

Are you still here? I don't believe it!

Go and date of her most beautiful friends, if she has none, shift base to her class, there's got to be one classy and beautiful girl there. If you're not in school, go to her street and date someone close to their house. Ensure that the house is located just so she can see you anytime you pull over at the property. She will hate you more when she discovers this, then take advantage of that emotional anger and gain confidence over here, laugh it off, look deep into her eyes when you talk to her, she'll be the one to put her face away in shyness and let her know you were just frolicking and that you never meant to hurt her (if she looks hurt) and tell her you'd like for you to have a date if she doesn't mind so you can explain a few things to her that you need her advice on. It's that simple boy!

Hear Hear!!

@poster,  i guess u are in deep shit. you probably wont have feelings for anyone else till you get her out of your system.
My advice,  just ask the next available lady out (love or no love).
na loneliness dey kill you.
better yet, get a hubby or smoke weed.
goodluck!

Thank u guys for all your advice I must confess I never thought of some of them before. Some I can & will take and some I dont think I av d mind to consider as I would have to be heartless to be able to carry them out but I appreciate d concern all d same. So I guess I shld give it a rest for a while, forget d love talk, try to enjoy her company as a friend & gain her trust and if all does not walk I shld take a walk. But I must confess that aint going to be easy but what choice do I av if she says no all d same? I just hope to be able to love someone else.
To The Seeker
Thanks so much for d wonderful advice but I dont think I have d mind to do that. To me it infact negates d love that I profess for her besides women are not play things that can be manipulated  anyhow but I appreciate d advice all d same.

To Ujujoan
Thanks for d advice but u could av presented it in a more nicer way. I wonder why you are taking things so personal, your own answer is even more hurting than what d lady is doing to me. I understand d fact that it's possible for a lady to really not be interested but then there are reasons for everything and it's only nice if she lets me knw why she cannot date me & this even makes it easy for my heart to let go. All d same thanks for d advice.

To Djfiki
You re right cos I've not had any feeling for any other lady not before this girl and not after her. I've got a few friends and I like them a lot but not the way I like this girl. Infact she's d only person that has really appealed to the romantic side of me and hence d first and the only girl I've asked out so far. It's really going to be a lot of hard work to get her out of my system if at d end of it all she still says no. You are probably right maybe I'm lonely but thanks weed is not the answer and I've got a lot of hobbies.

To ThiefOfHearts
I dont know what your own definition of love is but it's probably bizarre. If at this age of mine u are telling me I dont know what love is then u are probably one of those that expect to see stardust to be sure if they are truely in love. I didnt say she barely talks to me, we talk from time to time and also on phone it's only that she's evasive when this subject arises and I once again say I love her with the whole of my heart and I know it

On d whole thank you all for your replies.

Sorry if I sounded harsh, but I guess that’s what you need to get it into your head that she’s not into you. Maybe she has reasons, but I’ll advice you to let it go. Don’t go opening ‘Pandora’s Box’. I’ve had reasons not to want to date a guy ranging from bad breath, to body odor, to bad speech, and even ugly looks. Of course I won’t tell them that cos I won’t want to hurt their feelings. I’m not saying you are like that, I’m just saying if she’s not telling you why, she’s probably trying to spare your feelings. So let it go. Sorry!!

Develop tough skin and self confidence you will see her coming back singing like a bird

Guy, let it go. i've been there and i know how it feels but u have to

be a man and move on. it's a sad fact that she being perfect for u

doesnt mean your perfect for her. move on with your life.