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Ndipe (m)
Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« on: July 01, 2009, 01:41 AM »

Imagine this: You live abroad, and are engaged to a girl. But upon visiting your widowed father in Nigeria to inform him of the good news, you realize that his fiancee is your girlfriend's mother and that they are also planning on getting married.

What do you do? Call off the relationship, or have a double wedding?
davidylan (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #1 on: July 01, 2009, 01:44 AM »

go ahead with the wedding. You're not related by blood.
ezinne1212 (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #2 on: July 01, 2009, 01:58 AM »

Call it off, it will get way to complicated.
ifyalways (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #3 on: July 01, 2009, 10:07 AM »

Personally NO.
i wud let our parents marry.
Nezan (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #4 on: July 01, 2009, 03:11 PM »

Let d old man chill and allow d son enjoy im punani, shikena!! Grin Grin
ONWARDBABA
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #5 on: July 01, 2009, 03:36 PM »

plz boo the relationmship it will speak later
u will fine something better
nolvera
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #6 on: July 01, 2009, 03:38 PM »

i wount
hilli666 (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #7 on: July 01, 2009, 04:18 PM »

Depends on how fine she is, and how I feel deeply about her. (but mostly how fine she is, lol) If she is anything like Halle Berry, Need I say more. CAN I GET AN AMEN!!
nickybayo (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #8 on: July 01, 2009, 04:24 PM »

do i love the guy very well?
if i do, then no prob
let my mother{not father now} chill and wait for someone else
nethacker (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #9 on: July 01, 2009, 04:40 PM »

Quote from: nickybayo on July 01, 2009, 04:24 PM
do i love the guy very well?
if i do, then no prob
let my mother{not father now} chill and wait for someone else
your mum is having the same feeling u r having .  Grin so y will she chill for u to go  Shocked
Skyfo-jydo
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #10 on: July 01, 2009, 04:56 PM »

See me see post jamb question! No gio back, mama must chill oh! Grin Cheesy[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
RichyBlacK (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #11 on: July 01, 2009, 05:04 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2009, 01:44 AM
go ahead with the wedding. You're not related by blood.

I concur.

My step-mom will also be my mother-in-law! Grin
LadyT (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #12 on: July 01, 2009, 05:06 PM »

Theres no blood relation it may seem a bit odd but who cares!
Dave corn
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #13 on: July 01, 2009, 05:12 PM »

I would go ahead with the wedding, since it is my first time and i really love the girl, my old man would rather step down. :-\
nethacker (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #14 on: July 01, 2009, 05:21 PM »

I will tell them she is carrying my baby already  Grin since they r still planning and theirs havent gotten to that stage,they hv no choice than to step aside for the ruling party  Grin
chykeo (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #15 on: July 01, 2009, 05:24 PM »

Things will get complicated if you all go ahead. Since old has lived his life and is in the twilight, he should chill out from marrrying the woman. I am the one that goes ahead and marry my chic.

If old boy no gree chill nko? Nollywood scrpit!

But make you and your papa no marry mama and daughter!
sylve11
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #16 on: July 01, 2009, 05:55 PM »

See popsy wen get levels Grin Grin Cool
celidion (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #17 on: July 01, 2009, 06:01 PM »

it's complicated. there has to be an agreement between the two parties but it's better for the old man to step down for his son. Grin Grin
itumama
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #18 on: July 01, 2009, 06:06 PM »

The Old man should quit the wedding and allow his son to carry on with his own fresh life.
nethacker (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #19 on: July 01, 2009, 06:11 PM »

Quote from: itumama on July 01, 2009, 06:06 PM
The Old man should quit the wedding and allow his son to carry on with his own fresh life.
una no want ma old man enjoyed  Grin Grin Shocked Shocked
Nosa-Henry (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #20 on: July 01, 2009, 07:23 PM »

I see no problem here. Just take the woman as your mother while your lady takes your father as her own dad. In fact it is a good family union where all parties will be happy.

Live your life and let your dad live his.
Siena (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #21 on: July 01, 2009, 08:24 PM »

Personally, I wouldn't date a potential step-sister, if my father did go ahead, and marry her mother.

Yes, we won't be blood relatives, but it'll get way too complicated in future, when children start coming, from "step-sister" and "step-mother."

There are lots of less complicated girls out there to settle with, without having to think hard what to call your half-siblings!

Gosh - my reply sounds complicated already.
davidif (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #22 on: July 01, 2009, 08:48 PM »

Quote
Depends on how fine she is, and how I feel deeply about her. (but mostly how fine she is, lol) If she is anything like Halle Berry, Need I say more. CAN I GET AN AMEN!!


hilli,
No!!!! you are not getting an amen on this one.   Angry Angry what kind of blasphemy is this?

@poster,
omo, he be like say shame no dey usually catch una Nigerians at times o. which kind nonsense be this sef?
manny4life (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #23 on: July 01, 2009, 09:48 PM »

Quote from: hilli666 on July 01, 2009, 04:18 PM
Depends on how fine she is, and how I feel deeply about her. (but mostly how fine she is, lol) If she is anything like Halle Berry, Need I say more. CAN I GET AN AMEN!!

I second your opinion, AMEN, LOL Grin Grin
Secretz (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #24 on: July 01, 2009, 10:38 PM »

I would give my parent an ultimatum,

Your Happyness or mine?  Tongue

kok (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #25 on: July 01, 2009, 11:27 PM »

That means Paale and son get thesame taste for them to be shopping from market, of all the market in the world. LOL, abegi, na to carry go!!!
ezeagu (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #26 on: July 01, 2009, 11:56 PM »

To people who say they will still get married, what if the parents have children?  Shocked Then it will be the persons siblings getting marries. . . . .
kok (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #27 on: July 02, 2009, 12:37 AM »

Quote from: ezeagu on July 01, 2009, 11:56 PM
To people who say they will still get married, what if the parents have children?  Shocked Then it will be the persons siblings getting marries. . . . .

The poster didnt state that, where did u get your own script from? or just trying to produce/direct part 2,  LOL
bawomolo (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #28 on: July 02, 2009, 01:21 AM »

since it's no blood relation, what's the problem.

lets keep it all in the family.
slimfine (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #29 on: July 02, 2009, 03:39 AM »

being someone's sister or brother doesn't necessarily mean that must be related by blood! so technically, you both are siblings Undecided
faakay (m)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #30 on: July 02, 2009, 03:39 AM »

no
SeanT21 (f)
Re: Would You Date A Potential Step-sibling?
« #31 on: July 02, 2009, 04:56 AM »

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