When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?

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gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #32 on: July 02, 2009, 05:34 PM »

I understand your point, ibk. Actually, no one is blaming them for following the rules; the problem is knowing the difference between when they're trying not to be cheap (as you said) and when they're ABSOLUTELY uninterested. Any hints? Wink
ibkaye
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #33 on: July 02, 2009, 05:37 PM »

Bleh, every individual is different, as much they generally tend to play the same game, the ways in which they go about it may differ, that's why you just have to figure it out for yourself, the hard way, risk a few dirty looks, embarassments and a whole lot shouting just to get the girl, that's if she's worth it anyway, then you'll find out your answer, whether she's serious or just playing hard.

Too bad guys, sucks huh Grin

But then again, I hear some guys enjoy the 'chase'.
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #34 on: July 02, 2009, 05:43 PM »

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Too bad guys, sucks huh

Way too bad lol, cos you might end up getting NOTHING after all the "risks." This love game sha Undecided

 
touchmeder
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #35 on: July 02, 2009, 05:43 PM »

ive always made my point clear and i think a guy should give himself a timelimit when dealing with a naija chick. if she keeps saying no for months undending please let her be, i know a friend that keeps asking this chick out she keeps saying no but wants to hang out with him as per normal friend, the guy works himself up for nothing ''maybe she will say yes this weekend'' nothing ever comes out of it. He leaves her for a while, weeks later she calls to say hi, they meet up and the old circle continues. Thats plain nonsense to me

My policy is simple you like the bros let the ball roll, you cant make up your mind easily or youre thinking dont let it drag on for too long. i think its immature girls that play those games sha.
ibkaye
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #36 on: July 02, 2009, 05:45 PM »

Quote from: touchmeder on July 02, 2009, 05:43 PM
ive always made my point clear and i think a guy should give himself a timelimit when dealing with a naija chick. if she keeps saying no for months undending please let her be, i know a friend that keeps asking this chick out she keeps saying no but wants to hang out with him as per normal friend, the guy works himself up for nothing ''maybe she will say yes this weekend'' nothing ever comes out of it. He leaves her for a while, weeks later she calls to say hi, they meet up and the old circle continues. Thats plain nonsense to me

My policy is simple you like the bros let the ball roll, you cant make up your mind easily or youre thinking dont let it drag on for too long. i think its immature girls that play those games sha.
Poor guy Grin

ROFLMAO
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #37 on: July 03, 2009, 04:16 AM »

Quote from: luxoire on July 02, 2009, 01:10 PM
when i say NO i mean a clear and resounding NO

dont have time for idiots and cetainly NOT STALKERS

Does it annoy you, when they lump you in with the general? Grin
luxoire (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #38 on: July 03, 2009, 11:22 AM »

Quote from: iice on July 03, 2009, 04:16 AM
Does it annoy you, when they lump you in with the general? Grin
Grin Grin no mind them! because na so all naija babes dey, surely dis one too want me to stalk her
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #39 on: July 03, 2009, 11:27 AM »

Quote from: luxoire on July 03, 2009, 11:22 AM
Grin Grin no mind them! because na so all naija babes dey, surely dis one too want me to stalk her

Grin Grin abi ooo Grin Grin
Secretz (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #40 on: July 03, 2009, 12:47 PM »

Quote from: luxoire on July 03, 2009, 11:22 AM
Grin Grin no mind them! because na so all naija babes dey, surely dis one too want me to stalk her

I like reading your posts, they are soo refreshing.   Grin

As for me? No means NO!! simple! Shakara? I'm sorry, but no time to waste abeg. !  Cool

If I say 'maybe' to something, it simply means that i'm not sure and I need to think about it, nothing more, nothing less.  Grin
izeek (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #41 on: July 03, 2009, 12:58 PM »

we all know some ppl say no to make it look like they dint fall cheaply,
but then we all know that its plain foolish and basically childish to go on saying no when its a yes u want.
just end the whole issue by saying yes and let everyone be gone.
luxoire (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #42 on: July 03, 2009, 01:01 PM »

Quote from: Secretz on July 03, 2009, 12:47 PM
I like reading your posts, they are soo refreshing. Grin

As for me? No means NO!! simple! Shakara? I'm sorry, but no time to waste abeg. ! Cool

If I say 'maybe' to something, it simply means that i'm not sure and I need to think about it, nothing more, nothing less. Grin
Grin tahnk you mai dear -no forming - you have interesting and funy views too - me likes  Grin
izeek (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #43 on: July 03, 2009, 01:10 PM »

Quote from: luxoire on July 03, 2009, 01:01 PM
Grin tahnk you mai dear -no forming - you have interesting and funy views too - me likes Grin

me no likey. Cool Cool Cool Cool
luxoire (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #44 on: July 03, 2009, 01:12 PM »

Quote from: izeek on July 03, 2009, 01:10 PM
me no likey. Cool Cool Cool Cool

lol - who ask you? with your Stevie Wonder eye glass!! Tongue Cheesy Cheesy Grin
izeek (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #45 on: July 03, 2009, 01:18 PM »

atleast i no get micheal nose or face. lol
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #46 on: July 03, 2009, 01:19 PM »

Quote from: izeek on July 03, 2009, 12:58 PM
we all know some ppl say no to make it look like they dint fall cheaply,
but then we all know that its plain foolish and basically childish to go on saying no when its a yes u want.
just end the whole issue by saying yes and let everyone be gone.

Regardless, people will always have negative views, it's up to one, to fall or stand.
izeek (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #47 on: July 03, 2009, 01:39 PM »

@iice,
well how many of this girls think in this line?
i wish all guys run outa patience like me.
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #48 on: July 03, 2009, 01:54 PM »

LOL i think it's not that common.
Hahaha, like my brothers.  .  .i used to say, sometimes i wish my brothers meet women like these, dem go just scatter the pesin finish Grin
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #49 on: July 03, 2009, 04:39 PM »

(By the way)

iice, are you same iice of the defunct "nairarepublic" forum?
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #50 on: July 03, 2009, 04:46 PM »

I don't know lol.  Unless i know what the site looks like, i'm not sure.  I used to be in like 2 other forums which i don't remember, anyway i got bored really need to have my name patented rofl Grin

Can you describe it?
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #51 on: July 03, 2009, 05:05 PM »

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I don't know lol.  Unless i know what the site looks like, i'm not sure.  I used to be in like 2 other forums which i don't remember, anyway i got bored really need to have my name patented rofl

Can you describe it?


 Grin Grin Grin


Well, it's exactly like this but was owned by one Igbo guy, I.K. At a time, he was requesting for funds to maintain the site and people contributed. Since then,  Huh I remember seeing your ID and mukina's on the site. Or maybe I was hallucinating (Anything can happen with this "meltdown" thing Wink Grin Grin )
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #52 on: July 03, 2009, 05:13 PM »

Ahhhhh i remember, i think lol. Wonder where he disappeared to sef Undecided

Na it was us Grin Feels like ages ago Undecided
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #53 on: July 03, 2009, 05:32 PM »

That's refreshing lol. . .thought the recession was taking its toll on my medula oblongata.

Yeah it's a long time, and it's interesting to know you've been in the "forum business" for that long Shocked . You should be a "Grand Master," not just a "moderator."  Wink Cheesy

I don't know what happened to IK really, nor do I know if his intentions were altruistic or dubious. All I know is that shortly after the funds started coming in, the site suddenly went into oblivion. I should have joined NL since then, but as they say, "Once bitten. . ." Wink
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #54 on: July 03, 2009, 05:42 PM »

LMAO Grin Grin

Hahaha, i'm ok where i am Tongue I've been in the internet game longer Tongue
Thanks for reminding me though Wink You are here now, so it's all good Smiley

ok enough, we already went off topic too much Smiley


So did you learn anything from No and No? lol Grin
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #55 on: July 03, 2009, 05:52 PM »

I think I did. But actually, I've never had any reason to approach a lady for a relationship. It's never my style. It either happens the other way round or things just happen naturally Wink
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #56 on: July 03, 2009, 05:53 PM »

Good for you i guess lol.
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #57 on: July 03, 2009, 06:14 PM »

you guys are nuts , from my point of view as a lady i think . you man never cam to the person right . for starters you always rude . 2nd you dont stick one place you chase the chick today tommorow you chasing another one all i know is if you really like sam1 you wil keep on trying until you die .
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #58 on: July 03, 2009, 06:22 PM »

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if you really like sam1 you wil keep on trying until you die .

Yeah, cos all they live for is to chase women  Undecided
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #59 on: July 04, 2009, 04:01 PM »

you geting the rong pic .  I AM SAYING WHEN YOU WANT SAMTHING YOU TRY AND TRY BUT NEVA GIVE UP BUT IF YOU DID NOT WANT THAT THING SO BADLY YOU WILL KWIT . [img][/img]
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #60 on: July 04, 2009, 05:43 PM »

So, a man has to keep trying and trying before you'll agree to date him? If you keep doing that dear, you might end up marrying yourself. Not every man has the time to waste on juvenile hide-and-seek games Wink
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #61 on: July 04, 2009, 07:07 PM »

you all just being sturbern Undecided
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #62 on: July 04, 2009, 07:13 PM »

Hmm. . .and the woman that keeps saying "no" when she means "yes" is being what?  Huh


By the way, it seems you're not a Nigerian. Am I right? Wink
Uche2nna (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #63 on: July 04, 2009, 07:20 PM »




I dont think I would need a dictionary to translate a woman's No.

A no is a no however U look at it.

But some gals can tease U to God-knows- where. Those groupies I cant stand  Angry
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