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gen2genius (m)
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I understand your point, ibk. Actually, no one is blaming them for following the rules; the problem is knowing the difference between when they're trying not to be cheap (as you said) and when they're ABSOLUTELY uninterested. Any hints? 
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ibkaye
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Bleh, every individual is different, as much they generally tend to play the same game, the ways in which they go about it may differ, that's why you just have to figure it out for yourself, the hard way, risk a few dirty looks, embarassments and a whole lot shouting just to get the girl, that's if she's worth it anyway, then you'll find out your answer, whether she's serious or just playing hard. Too bad guys, sucks huh  But then again, I hear some guys enjoy the 'chase'.
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gen2genius (m)
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Too bad guys, sucks huh Way too bad lol, cos you might end up getting NOTHING after all the "risks." This love game sha
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touchmeder
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ive always made my point clear and i think a guy should give himself a timelimit when dealing with a naija chick. if she keeps saying no for months undending please let her be, i know a friend that keeps asking this chick out she keeps saying no but wants to hang out with him as per normal friend, the guy works himself up for nothing ''maybe she will say yes this weekend'' nothing ever comes out of it. He leaves her for a while, weeks later she calls to say hi, they meet up and the old circle continues. Thats plain nonsense to me
My policy is simple you like the bros let the ball roll, you cant make up your mind easily or youre thinking dont let it drag on for too long. i think its immature girls that play those games sha.
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ibkaye
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ive always made my point clear and i think a guy should give himself a timelimit when dealing with a naija chick. if she keeps saying no for months undending please let her be, i know a friend that keeps asking this chick out she keeps saying no but wants to hang out with him as per normal friend, the guy works himself up for nothing ''maybe she will say yes this weekend'' nothing ever comes out of it. He leaves her for a while, weeks later she calls to say hi, they meet up and the old circle continues. Thats plain nonsense to me
My policy is simple you like the bros let the ball roll, you cant make up your mind easily or youre thinking dont let it drag on for too long. i think its immature girls that play those games sha.
Poor guy  ROFLMAO
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iice (f)
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when i say NO i mean a clear and resounding NO
dont have time for idiots and cetainly NOT STALKERS
Does it annoy you, when they lump you in with the general? 
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Secretz (f)
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 no mind them! because na so all naija babes dey, surely dis one too want me to stalk her I like reading your posts, they are soo refreshing.  As for me? No means NO!! simple! Shakara? I'm sorry, but no time to waste abeg. !  If I say 'maybe' to something, it simply means that i'm not sure and I need to think about it, nothing more, nothing less. 
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izeek (m)
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we all know some ppl say no to make it look like they dint fall cheaply, but then we all know that its plain foolish and basically childish to go on saying no when its a yes u want. just end the whole issue by saying yes and let everyone be gone.
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luxoire (f)
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I like reading your posts, they are soo refreshing.  As for me? No means NO!! simple! Shakara? I'm sorry, but no time to waste abeg. !  If I say 'maybe' to something, it simply means that i'm not sure and I need to think about it, nothing more, nothing less.   tahnk you mai dear -no forming - you have interesting and funy views too - me likes 
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izeek (m)
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atleast i no get micheal nose or face. lol
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iice (f)
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we all know some ppl say no to make it look like they dint fall cheaply, but then we all know that its plain foolish and basically childish to go on saying no when its a yes u want. just end the whole issue by saying yes and let everyone be gone.
Regardless, people will always have negative views, it's up to one, to fall or stand.
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izeek (m)
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@iice, well how many of this girls think in this line? i wish all guys run outa patience like me.
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iice (f)
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LOL i think it's not that common. Hahaha, like my brothers. . .i used to say, sometimes i wish my brothers meet women like these, dem go just scatter the pesin finish
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gen2genius (m)
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(By the way)
iice, are you same iice of the defunct "nairarepublic" forum?
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iice (f)
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I don't know lol. Unless i know what the site looks like, i'm not sure. I used to be in like 2 other forums which i don't remember, anyway i got bored really need to have my name patented rofl 
Can you describe it?
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iice (f)
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Ahhhhh i remember, i think lol. Wonder where he disappeared to sef 
Na it was us Feels like ages ago 
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gen2genius (m)
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That's refreshing lol. . .thought the recession was taking its toll on my medula oblongata. Yeah it's a long time, and it's interesting to know you've been in the "forum business" for that long  . You should be a "Grand Master," not just a "moderator."  I don't know what happened to IK really, nor do I know if his intentions were altruistic or dubious. All I know is that shortly after the funds started coming in, the site suddenly went into oblivion. I should have joined NL since then, but as they say, "Once bitten. . ." 
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iice (f)
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LMAO 
Hahaha, i'm ok where i am I've been in the internet game longer  Thanks for reminding me though You are here now, so it's all good 
ok enough, we already went off topic too much 
So did you learn anything from No and No? lol 
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gen2genius (m)
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I think I did. But actually, I've never had any reason to approach a lady for a relationship. It's never my style. It either happens the other way round or things just happen naturally 
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iice (f)
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Good for you i guess lol.
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ADORA.K
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you guys are nuts , from my point of view as a lady i think . you man never cam to the person right . for starters you always rude . 2nd you dont stick one place you chase the chick today tommorow you chasing another one all i know is if you really like sam1 you wil keep on trying until you die .
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gen2genius (m)
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if you really like sam1 you wil keep on trying until you die . Yeah, cos all they live for is to chase women 
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ADORA.K
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you geting the rong pic . I AM SAYING WHEN YOU WANT SAMTHING YOU TRY AND TRY BUT NEVA GIVE UP BUT IF YOU DID NOT WANT THAT THING SO BADLY YOU WILL KWIT . [img][/img]
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gen2genius (m)
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So, a man has to keep trying and trying before you'll agree to date him? If you keep doing that dear, you might end up marrying yourself. Not every man has the time to waste on juvenile hide-and-seek games 
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ADORA.K
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you all just being sturbern 
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gen2genius (m)
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Hmm. . .and the woman that keeps saying "no" when she means "yes" is being what?  By the way, it seems you're not a Nigerian. Am I right? 
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Uche2nna (m)
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I dont think I would need a dictionary to translate a woman's No. A no is a no however U look at it. But some gals can tease U to God-knows- where. Those groupies I cant stand 
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