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gen2genius (m)
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That's exactly the group my Adora.K belongs lol  She'll soon return to say you're just being "stubborn." Funny babe 
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na2day? (m)
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@ post to me, when a woman says "NO" it means "NO". i strictly believe in the dictionary meaning of the word. so all that no means yes or try harder crap is not for me. a woman says no to me, i take a hike, her loss, period! 
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ADORA.K
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you know what i think when a girl says no just let her go and if she did not mean it she will cam bak bekoz i think females pretend to much to much
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Uche2nna (m)
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@ post to me, when a woman says "NO" it means "NO". i strictly believe in the dictionary meaning of the word. so all that no means yes or try harder crap is not for me. a woman says no to me, i take a hike, her loss, period!  I take a hike faster than U can say Jack Robinson.
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gen2genius (m)
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Baby Adora, but you've just said that's the right thing to do - to keep a guy in suspense for some time. Are you changing your mind?  And you've not answered my previous question, are you a Nigerian? 
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gen2genius (m)
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Racist? No, not at all. Do I sound racist in my posts? I'm just trying to confirm what my instincts tell me. But don't worry if it offends you. Never thought it would. I like your name though  . Can I keep calling you Baby Adora?
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ADORA.K
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if you wanna . am from d.r.c ( democratic republic of congo ) but live in the u.s.a now in new jersey
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gen2genius (m)
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Beautiful  So, are you studying in the U.S. or what? Maybe we can be friends. Here is my yahoo messenger. . . Can I have yours? 
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ADORA.K
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i send it to you by mail
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gen2genius (m)
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Got it, thanx 
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Beaf
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When a woman says no especially in this obodoyibo, bera find your scooter. But some African babes sha, they mean yes but keep saying no thinking that "African style" of touching and wrestling will work. I had a babe like that I was chasing who had this "no illness" forgetting we're in the UK. At one point I got frustrated enough to tell I would never force her, but she kept on coming to my house (even at night) and screaming no and fighting like Hulk Hogan when nature should be taking its cause. Wetin man go do? I quietly "lost contact". Long and short is one bright sunny day I paid her a visit after a very long absence and she told me she was ready for me, I should ditch all other babes, she's "dead serious" about it. You know what? At this point I was a couple of weeks into marriage. . . Her stupidity had cost us both dearly. . .
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kok (m)
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yes o!! When does No means NO???
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na2day? (m)
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I take a hike faster than U can say Jack Robinson.
i am with u on that one  yes o!! When does No means NO???
when she said no the 1st time. learn to use the dictionary
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gen2genius (m)
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Her stupidity had cost us both dearly. . . No, it cost her dearly  when she said no the 1st time. learn to use the dictionary
Brother, many African ladies don't reckon with the dictionary when it comes to relationship stuff 
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Emmanbaba
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I think ladies need to come down to moderacy with this 'hard to get of a thing'. imagine a girl that has always been in love with a guy and was even considering asking the guy out, Fortunately for her, the guy asked her out, guess what the girl's answer was: A 'NO'. Very immature!
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Siena (m)
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Well, I'd like to presume you'd always accept a lady's no as no, even if it may appear she doesn't really mean it. It's always worked for me - if a lady says "no", I take it as no. You can't go far wrong that way, and you'll stay out of trouble.
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ADORA.K
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peace of advice try being friends first then ask if she will date you
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na2day? (m)
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No, it cost her dearly  that's 4 sure Brother, many African ladies don't reckon with the dictionary when it comes to relationship stuff  then leave those stupid african ladies, obviously they didn't get the memo I think ladies need to come down to moderacy with this 'hard to get of a thing'. imagine a girl that has always been in love with a guy and was even considering asking the guy out, Fortunately for her, the guy asked her out, guess what the girl's answer was: A 'NO'. Very immature!
don't waste your energy on sum1 like that, it can be counter-productive Well, I'd like to presume you'd always accept a lady's no as no, even if it may appear she doesn't really mean it. It's always worked for me - if a lady says "no", I take it as no. You can't go far wrong that way, and you'll stay out of trouble.
i concur! 
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hunniebomb (f)
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I have heard enough true stories about girls that did shakara and it came back to hunt them. my advice is that if you like the guy, don't do to much shakara. My No means No. We women should stop playing games, our no should mean no and our yes should mean yes and if it is maybe, let the guy know. shikena.
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kok (m)
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Ladies, instead of having to say No, when you actually mean "Please try again", why not make the return move after the guy made the first one rather than waiting for him to try again! my little advise!
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Sweetdoct247 (m)
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In 99.9% of cases a lady will say no when a guy asks her out it doesnt matter if she's already into the guy or not. This is understandable because of d deep seated belief that ladies that say yes too early are considered as cheap. No lady will actually say yes the first time she just might say other things like she'd like to think about it which of course doesnt me she will say yes eventually. This is where knowing comes into place. Try to get close and be her friend u dont expect any lady to say yes to a stranger, with this she actually gets to know who u are and maybe u are somebody she can trust her heart with. After this if she still tells u no my guy take a walk.
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iice (f)
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In 99.9% of cases a lady will say no when a guy asks her out it doesnt matter if she's already into the guy or not. This is understandable because of d deep seated belief that ladies that say yes too early are considered as cheap. No lady will actually say yes the first time she just might say other things like she'd like to think about it which of course doesnt me she will say yes eventually. This is where knowing comes into place. Try to get close and be her friend u dont expect any lady to say yes to a stranger, with this she actually gets to know who u are and maybe u are somebody she can trust her heart with. After this if she still tells u no my guy take a walk.
Simply tell him, dude i don't know you 
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sir t (m)
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@ Poster,
When the "verbal NO " is backed by action.
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gen2genius (m)
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Sir t, "actions" like? 
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iice (f)
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If that's the best you/he can come up with. . . My reply would be. . .not interested 
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gen2genius (m)
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Yeah, as simple as. . . 
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