When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?

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gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #64 on: July 04, 2009, 07:25 PM »

That's exactly the group my Adora.K belongs lol  Cheesy

She'll soon return to say you're just being "stubborn." Funny babe Grin Grin
na2day? (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #65 on: July 04, 2009, 07:26 PM »

@ post

to me, when a woman says "NO" it means "NO". i strictly believe in the dictionary meaning of the word. so all that no means yes or try harder crap is not for me. a woman says no to me, i take a hike, her loss, period!  Grin Grin Grin
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #66 on: July 04, 2009, 07:26 PM »

you know what i think when a girl says no just let her go and if she did not mean it she will cam bak bekoz i think females pretend to much to much
Uche2nna (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #67 on: July 04, 2009, 07:30 PM »

Quote from: na2day? on July 04, 2009, 07:26 PM
@ post

to me, when a woman says "NO" it means "NO". i strictly believe in the dictionary meaning of the word. so all that no means yes or try harder crap is not for me. a woman says no to me, i take a hike, her loss, period!  Grin Grin Grin

 I take a hike faster than U can say Jack Robinson.
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #68 on: July 04, 2009, 07:31 PM »

Baby Adora, but you've just said that's the right thing to do - to keep a guy in suspense for some time. Are you changing your mind? Huh


And you've not answered my previous question, are you a Nigerian? Wink Cheesy
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #69 on: July 04, 2009, 07:33 PM »

ARE YOU RACIST ?
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #70 on: July 04, 2009, 07:37 PM »

Racist? No, not at all. Do I sound racist in my posts? I'm just trying to confirm what my instincts tell me. But don't worry if it offends you. Never thought it would. I like your name though Kiss. Can I keep calling you Baby Adora? Wink Cheesy
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #71 on: July 04, 2009, 07:39 PM »

if you wanna . am from d.r.c ( democratic republic of congo ) but live in the u.s.a now in new jersey
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #72 on: July 04, 2009, 07:44 PM »

Beautiful  Kiss

So, are you studying in the U.S. or what? Wink

Maybe we can be friends. Here is my yahoo messenger. . .

Can I have yours? Wink
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #73 on: July 04, 2009, 07:51 PM »

i send it to you by mail
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #74 on: July 04, 2009, 07:51 PM »

Got it, thanx Wink Kiss
Beaf
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #75 on: July 04, 2009, 08:13 PM »

When a woman says no especially in this obodoyibo, bera find your scooter.
But some African babes sha, they mean yes but keep saying no thinking that "African style" of touching and wrestling will work. I had a babe like that I was chasing who had this "no illness" forgetting we're in the UK.
At one point I got frustrated enough to tell I would never force her, but she kept on coming to my house (even at night) and screaming no and fighting like Hulk Hogan when nature should be taking its cause. Wetin man go do? I quietly "lost contact".
Long and short is one bright sunny day I paid her a visit after a very long absence and she told me she was ready for me, I should ditch all other babes, she's "dead serious" about it. You know what? At this point I was a couple of weeks into marriage. . .
Her stupidity had cost us both dearly. . .
kok (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #76 on: July 04, 2009, 08:35 PM »

yes o!! When does No means NO???
na2day? (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #77 on: July 05, 2009, 01:44 AM »

Quote from: Uche2nna on July 04, 2009, 07:30 PM
I take a hike faster than U can say Jack Robinson.

i am with u on that one  Wink Wink


Quote from: kok on July 04, 2009, 08:35 PM
yes o!! When does No means NO???

when she said no the 1st time. learn to use the dictionary





gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #78 on: July 05, 2009, 03:28 PM »

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Her stupidity had cost us both dearly. . .

No, it cost her dearly Wink

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when she said no the 1st time. learn to use the dictionary

Brother, many African ladies don't reckon with the dictionary when it comes to relationship stuff Wink
Emmanbaba
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #79 on: July 05, 2009, 07:15 PM »

I think ladies need to come down to moderacy with this 'hard to get of  a thing'.  imagine a girl that has always been in love with a guy and was even considering asking the guy out,  Fortunately for her, the guy asked her out, guess what the girl's answer was: A 'NO'. Very immature!
Siena (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #80 on: July 05, 2009, 09:41 PM »

Well, I'd like to presume you'd always accept a lady's no as no, even if it may appear she doesn't really mean it.
It's always worked for me - if a lady says "no", I take it as no. You can't go far wrong that way, and you'll stay out of trouble.
ADORA.K
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #81 on: July 05, 2009, 10:14 PM »

peace of advice try being friends first then ask if she will date you
na2day? (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #82 on: July 06, 2009, 12:08 AM »

Quote from: gen2genius on July 05, 2009, 03:28 PM
No, it cost her dearly Wink

that's 4 sure


Quote from: gen2genius on July 05, 2009, 03:28 PM
Brother, many African ladies don't reckon with the dictionary when it comes to relationship stuff Wink


then leave those stupid african ladies, obviously they didn't get the memo

Quote from: Emmanbaba on July 05, 2009, 07:15 PM
I think ladies need to come down to moderacy with this 'hard to get of a thing'. imagine a girl that has always been in love with a guy and was even considering asking the guy out, Fortunately for her, the guy asked her out, guess what the girl's answer was: A 'NO'. Very immature!

don't waste your energy on sum1 like that, it can be counter-productive


Quote from: Siena on July 05, 2009, 09:41 PM
Well, I'd like to presume you'd always accept a lady's no as no, even if it may appear she doesn't really mean it.
It's always worked for me - if a lady says "no", I take it as no. You can't go far wrong that way, and you'll stay out of trouble.


i concur!  Wink Wink
hunniebomb (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #83 on: July 06, 2009, 04:28 AM »

I have heard enough true stories about girls that did shakara and it came back to hunt them. my advice is that if you like the guy, don't do to much shakara. My No means No. We women should stop playing games, our no should mean no and our yes should mean yes and if it is maybe, let the guy know. shikena.
kok (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #84 on: July 06, 2009, 05:24 PM »

Ladies, instead of having to say No, when you actually mean "Please try again", why not make the return move after the guy made the first one rather than waiting for him to try again! my little advise!
Sweetdoct247 (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #85 on: July 06, 2009, 05:32 PM »

In 99.9% of cases a lady will say no when a guy asks her out it doesnt matter if she's already into the guy or not. This is understandable because of d deep seated belief that ladies that say yes too early are considered as cheap. No lady will actually say yes the first time she just might say other things like she'd like to think about it which of course doesnt me she will say yes eventually. This is where knowing comes into place. Try to get close and be her friend u dont expect any lady to say yes to a stranger, with this she actually gets to know who u are and maybe u are somebody she can trust her heart with. After this if she still tells u no my guy take a walk.
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #86 on: July 06, 2009, 05:34 PM »

Quote from: Sweetdoct247 on July 06, 2009, 05:32 PM
In 99.9% of cases a lady will say no when a guy asks her out it doesnt matter if she's already into the guy or not. This is understandable because of d deep seated belief that ladies that say yes too early are considered as cheap. No lady will actually say yes the first time she just might say other things like she'd like to think about it which of course doesnt me she will say yes eventually. This is where knowing comes into place. Try to get close and be her friend u dont expect any lady to say yes to a stranger, with this she actually gets to know who u are and maybe u are somebody she can trust her heart with. After this if she still tells u no my guy take a walk.

Simply tell him, dude i don't know you Grin
sir t (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #87 on: July 06, 2009, 05:48 PM »

@ Poster,

When the "verbal NO " is backed by action.
na2day? (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #88 on: July 06, 2009, 07:09 PM »

Quote from: iice on July 06, 2009, 05:34 PM
Simply tell him, dude i don't know you Grin

my reply to that, now is your chance to know me  Tongue Tongue Tongue
brein
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #89 on: July 06, 2009, 08:00 PM »

I dont know.
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #90 on: July 06, 2009, 08:31 PM »

Sir t, "actions" like? Huh
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #91 on: July 07, 2009, 02:21 PM »

Quote from: na2day? on July 06, 2009, 07:09 PM
my reply to that, now is your chance to know me  Tongue Tongue Tongue

If that's the best you/he can come up with.  .  .
My reply would be.  .  .not interested Grin Grin
gen2genius (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #92 on: July 07, 2009, 02:48 PM »

Yeah, as simple as. . . Wink
na2day? (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #93 on: July 07, 2009, 04:01 PM »

Quote from: iice on July 07, 2009, 02:21 PM
If that's the best you/he can come up with.  .  .
My reply would be.  .  .not interested Grin Grin


my reply, macka why?  Embarrassed Embarrassed
iice (f)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #94 on: July 07, 2009, 04:14 PM »

Quote from: na2day? on July 07, 2009, 04:01 PM
my reply, macka why?  Embarrassed Embarrassed

You're supposed to say, ok ooo bye Cheesy
na2day? (m)
Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!?
« #95 on: July 07, 2009, 04:16 PM »

Quote from: iice on July 07, 2009, 04:14 PM
You're supposed to say, ok ooo bye Cheesy

damn! i must have gotten the wrong script  Tongue Tongue
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