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wlexng
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A woman of 38 years is in love with me, I am just confused and I don't know what to do. I need you your advise guys.
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whitelexi (m)
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You say this like u r really young, how old are u?
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wlexng
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Am just 24, she's 14 years older than me.
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IFELEKE (m)
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@Poster,
You are confused because you can't handle it so tell her you are not interested.
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TheSeeker (m)
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Don't do it!
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izeek (m)
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what part did u play in all this,
or u trying to say she just saw u and fell in love?
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wlexng
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@izeek, we met on facebook, we saw and share things together, each time I ask of her boy friend she says he is unserious and stuffs like that. I told her I have a girl friend that but she stays far away from me and like that we learnt about ourselves. But there are some signs I have noticed from her, and I think she's in love with me. Most of her friends are married with kids, I tell her most time to find someone who is ready to marry that any how she should involve herself in a serious relationship but what she keeps telling me is that marriage is not a thing to rush into. Am just confused
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frank3.16
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like i usually say, she is the one who needs help and advice not u. she is the one inlove with u and not u with her. why are u worried? are u scared that u might start falling for her?
do we now need help for not falling inlove with someone? what is happening to the world for godssake
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blissieng (f)
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Frank, You no well oh! you no well at all.
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izeek (m)
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i think u r just plain scared that u might eventually let your Greed fall for her.
and dint go sounding all righteous, am sure u stringed her along too.
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TheSeeker (m)
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To be honest, are you using your head at all? A woman of 38 is falling in love with you, 14 years older than you and you're still asking what to do? In all ramifications, the relationship will be a sham and will never work. First off, you don't have as much experience as she does about relationships, she has tested all waters and what have you achieved? Nothing! She just want to use you and at the end of the day, when you may have been assuming you have secured a financial future, she kicks you out back into the Street and you turn to another urchin perturbing the peace of the society! Think stupid!
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smartsoft (m)
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hey where she dey give me her number please let me holla for a dinner tonight please drop me her number
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Tudór (m)
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Guys relax, the lady might actually be for real. Remember demi moore and ashton.  @smartsoft are you not the guy in a complicated relationsip on facebook? Your eye don they patrol now naw |
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TheSeeker (m)
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Guys relax, the lady might actually be for real. Remember demi moore and ashton. I don't believe so! Situations don't seem the same. They say when something is too good to be true, it usually is. |
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Tudór (m)
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How exactly are the situations different?
If the guy is in nigeria then a big NO, but outside the country it would be more plausible.
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Romeo4real (m)
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A woman of 38 years is in love with me But there are some signs I have noticed from her, and I think she's in love with me. These 2 statements are not the same and are incompatible with one another. I think your getting ahead or urself. Even if true, what exactly is the drama here? Its not the end of the world. |
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TheSeeker (m)
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How exactly are the situations different?
If the guy is in nigeria then a big NO, but outside the country it would be more plausible.
e If it's outside the country there's nothing absolutely wrong with it, but in Nigeria, everything is wrong with it and no matter how hard they turn their deaf ears to criticisms, the relationship is destined to doom. I reiterate, therefore, that if he's outside Nigeria, he should get in quick if he's sure she loves him --- if she doesn't love him truly, well, there are other gains for him, don't ya think? |
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JJYOU
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let tudor go for her it is not your portion
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wlexng
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weel, thanks guys but I think I will take to Tudor and Theseeker's advise.
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TheSeeker (m)
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@Poster
That's the best thing for you bro. If it's a Nigerian, let me add, have you been quick to forget that some of these sugar mummies use young guys for money rituals to boost their financial status? Money ritual isn't a mere superstition, it's for real!
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walakolobo
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wlexng
Swear your momma's head if you are not lieing
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Tudór (m)
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@JJYOU
you no go leave me make i rest? Haba!
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Owu gal (f)
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you met on facebook?? ok thats almost says it all. but there is more, which seeing as I am not god, I cant say anything now, not yet
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Tudór (m)
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Are you saying it's wrong to meet a girl on facebook?
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Kingsleyinfo (m)
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things dey happen oh. you dey find advice, hmnn, some people are so confused. my mouth quiet sha.  |
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topup
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That's only a tenth of the story. .
What are your feelings for her, has she made any moves on you, what does she want, what do you want e.t.c.
I need more info.
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MUZBO (m)
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@topup, agony aunt abi se na uncle?
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MUZBO (m)
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First off, you don't have as much experience as she does about relationships, she has tested all waters and what have you achieved? Nothing! She just want to use you and at the end of the day, when you may have been assuming you have secured a financial future, she kicks you out back into the Street
Maybe he wants to be used. There are people like that. He put up this thread so as to help him conclude whether to start hitting on her this week or next month, believe me it will happen. @poster, I feel you joor! |
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crusifis
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A MAN , MARRYS A GIRL 15 YEARS YOUNGER, NO PROBLEM, SO WAT IS WRONG WIT LOVING A GIRL 14 YEARS OLDER
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lekzey (m)
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Oh boy the woman no love you.That woman is waiting for you some where.Forget the money she has
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sweetpie23
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@poster you didn't tell the problem how I we to advice you?
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SPYRO (m)
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Wlexng,my advice may come too late but is d fact u want to hear now.
1stly,u didnt say much on your side cos lots of pple meet on facebook and d amount of interest n communication u hav contantly wit d oda party count much.i stronly bliv u hav drawmn d woman to your side by teasing her.Dony u no wen she told u her boy friend is not serious means dat she is still available and instead of u to hold your side,u ended up tell her too that u r far away from your lady.U went to d extent to exchanging address and meeting physically,wat do u expect from dat.I bliv u hav bin dating dis woman 4 sometime now but wen tins becomes clear a bit to u dats wen u voiced out.
See just ask God for guidiance cos no one can decide for you as u only know how it got started,so u shld know how to end it cos i no she knows your place while u too know her place.Dont be tempted twice.
Listening to your heart well,u will understand.
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