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gen2genius (m)
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Why do some men INSIST on it?  Would you agree, as a lady?  |
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Ujujoan (f)
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Because they are assholes. It's not even ideal to have sex before marriage!!
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izeek (m)
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Because they are assholes. It's not even ideal to have sex before marriage!!
and the oneswho allow themselves get pregnant are what holes? |
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luxoire (f)
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Why do some men INSIST on it? because they may want to TEST she is fertile, esp is they intend on marrying d pikin na still him own, along with all the other brothers and sisters. is it ideal? NO. doesnt mean it is not done - as long as the couple agree on it, and the reasons then whatever works forthem i guess |
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izeek (m)
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@lux,
my point exactly, i dont know if its ideal, but am sure its no big deal if both consent to it.
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IFELEKE (m)
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am sure its no big deal if both consent to it.
Exactly. @Topic, I see nothing wrong in it. |
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kola oloye (m)
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@topic
It is not IDEAL
It is either lack of faith or trust that make some people insisting.
To me either reason is inconsequential.
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smooooooth
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it is not ideal, but its the koko. as a proper african man, i belive a wedding shld involve three pipu at the altar two visible & one invisible witness.  |
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Lita (f)
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of course not. how can you want to be responsible for another human being when you are not ready to share yourselves with even a spouse yet.
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gen2genius (m)
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because they may want to TEST she is fertile Which means he's marrying her because he needed a baby-making "machine"? And if she can't get pregnant immediately, then she becomes worthless and all the promises of love and commitment vanish just like that? |
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tomi_ade (m)
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no big deal! . . .as long as both parties agree to it,
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nethacker (m)
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Why do some men INSIST on it? Would you agree, as a lady?  see me see trouble ooooo. won't u test for soil fertility b4 planting seed . wat will u do if u discover that she can't actually give u babies? . No big deal at all. What if d guy happens to be an HIV patient n u discover this after honeymoon  Me ooo . I go sample well well cos she be my own ifeleke n izeek : hv i spoken well ? |
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Enquirer
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don't think it's ideal but if both parties are responsible, it's ok. i actually saw that happen to my cuz and his girl. now they are married with lovely baby girl.
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pc guru (m)
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I was told that this country's moral gradually fading i doubted it but now i believe.Pregnancy before marriage is a sin.Anyway what the heck societal hype.nigeria or Sodom
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roblance
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According to section 24 of the nigerian constitutional rule its is accepted to be pregnant b4 marriage
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ezinne1212 (f)
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Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? --- No Why do some men INSIST on it? ---------1 Would you agree, as a lady? ----------------2 1. Who knows  2. Nope. |
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roblance
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Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? --- No 1. Who knows 2. Nope. holy holy holy , |
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pc guru (m)
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So now once law allows a certain act that's against God's law it's supercedes God's command.Good night
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roblance
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go sleep jare waitng gurumaraji dey find for here
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pc guru (m)
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Funny
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roblance
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yu also go dae funny with question mark untop yur head i no like am oo
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pc guru (m)
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Using phone wuz aiming for the laughing icon.Still doesnt show on my phone.
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Akinagirl (f)
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Pc Guru, so you say pregnancy before marriage is a sin? Well what about sex before marriage, is that also a sin? Come on now.
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pc guru (m)
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I'm sorry pregnancy b4 marriage is not a sin and fornication is also not a sin.God probably understands that things ave changed now.Sorry for my stupid comments earlier on
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Akinagirl (f)
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Well I can see that was meant to be sarcastic. But I just hear people say that all the time, that pregnancy before marriage is a sin, yet they don't think there is anything wrong with sex before marriage. In my opinion, its to each his own. Whatever works for you.
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faakay (m)
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Any way na way! All the way Get pregnant before marriage gan gan ni Odu!! By the time una dey finish una wedding, maybe 5 - 6 months later, Pikin don gboriwa! Aimoye ppl wey don get pregnant b4 marriage gan! Everybody with him own! You get pregnant before or after. Same ni! No Time! |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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I don't think its ideal. . .and I won't agree to such arrangement. . .anything can happen before the marriage!
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Kelvinj (m)
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Pregnancy b4 marriage(good/bad)? 4 me it depends, ok letz see it lyk dis your bf dat has proposed 2 u getz u pregnant? Tel me your goin 2 terminate d preg. bcoz u sworn nt 2 carry preg. 2 d altar. So itz as simple as dis 'belle na marriage'. There4 in most cases no belle no marriage.
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gen2genius (m)
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Actually, the issue goes beyond the morality/immorality of the practice. The question is, is it normal for a man to insist that his fiance gets pregnant before they can be married? |
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chukz4real (m)
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I suppose the question should be rephrased and go this way:
Ladies; is it ideal to be having sex with your husband to be before marriage?
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Ben-10
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I use to think these pregnancy before marriage is as a result of lust or a mistake as they would call it.
But this present time, It's obvious dat a sane couple-to-be will agree to parent one or two shilren before going into marriage.
reasons, I don't understand.
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puskin
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Itz definitely nt ideal but dats definitely wat happens.
But hey, who gives a fcuk, anywayz, stìll okay.
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