Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage?

Ideal??? No! But for the generation of ladies in town now, _{who knows what they might have done in the past} Man needs to confirm before commitment o!

With the kind of attrocities women commit nowadays, it might be the way out. Prove that u r still a woman with your womb intact, and then we can talk of other things

biblically, it's not ideal but we all know that one can't take chances these days.

my answer affects both folks (guys and babes i mean. As guys are trying to check out the fertility of ladies, ladies are also entitled to do thesame thing.

personally, i support pre-marital sex (i mean pre-marital pregnancy) so as to confirm the fertility of the lady in question.

Most homes are broken today due to the inability of the couples to produce babies. So, some people takes this pre-marital thing as a "CHECK". and i dont blame them.

Frankly, i will advise everyone to stick to their beliefs but, if we are to follow the word of the bible to the letter, then pre-marital sex is forbidden.

there's a saying anyway: "different strokes for different folks"

Is God not being mocked when people embark on all the countless abortions they execute?
Is God not being mocked when people sell their bodies for money? If not, then what sort of mockery are u refering to?

It all boils down to what the both partners agree to. Also, it's all about if their religion allows it -- some religions detest it seriously while a negligible few think it's ideal as long as they show the strong intent of marriage.

In Nigeria as an instance, some tribes always want to know a woman is able to get pregnant before marriage and that can only be proven my getting her pregnant so there won't be an alarm when they are finally married -- I have yet to see a tribe in Nigeria that kicks against it anyway.

Legally, it is allowed.

But the consequences might be slightly gravy, what if for some reasons they don't end up getting married, what happens? I have seen marriage plans collapse less than a week before the wedding date so you don't know what goes for what these days.

There's no contesting the fact that there are a few women out there who have problems conceiving let alone having a child and a guy just might not know what he's getting into, in fact, some ladies don't know until they are married and figure out they can't have a child then they both start running all over visiting hospitals and private surgeons and gynecologists.

Marriage in my opinion should not be hinged on having kids alone but surely having kids is an important if not the most integral part of marriage next to the main factor, love.  

For me, it depends on the girl really but on average, I would want her to be pregnant after we're married unless of course a doubtful situation pops out.

you guys should free me joh

Carefully re-read my replies on the subject matter to get my drift.

My posts are attached again:

I am for pre marital sex so i see nothing wrong in pre marital pregnancy, now my issue with you is not your stand for or against the above but these:

Personally , I don't tag pre-marital pregnancy to fertility. . .got my drift?