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Hi Everyone,
We were inseparable,we just couldnt do without eachother for a second,the chemistry was just too tight and solid.It was a relationship made in heaven.
We profess love to eachother everyday,making promises and commitments.We promised to stand by eachother through thick and thin because we have been through a lot of challenges and obstacles in our little existence in life.We make eachother happy and the whole world knows these.
All of a sudden she is not happy and at peace with herself and she wants to break up with me.I was prompted to ask her why and the reason i got was just too preposterous and laughable.She said apart from emotions we dont use things in common.We dont listen to the same music,read the same books,different background and culture etc.Got to a stage that she had to go on her knees begging me to allow her go and find her happiness and fulfilment.As a real man i allowed her and we broke up.
Its been two weeks now and i am getting over it gradually but what baffles me is the fact that what happened to all the love that we shared?Where did i go wrong?Why would a girl that confirmed in the course of the relationship that she has found her dream guy suddenly change.
Please i need intelligent comments from nairalanders.
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whitelexi (m)
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Thats a massive shame  |
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iice (f)
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Solid indeed. But however did you guys without having anything besides emotions in common? 
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luxoire (f)
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Thats a massive shame indeed!! Solid indeed. But however did you guys without having anything besides emotions in common? ask him well mai dear - on what basis of commonality (not even sure that word exists) was the r/ship built on? |
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Missy B (f)
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Isn't that how it goes? It takes You time to build it
Yet with just a blast. . . . It can crash.
Good thing You allowed her take a walk. . . .You'D be surprise at how much wahala
little things like she mentioned can cause esp. the background and culture thang.Love is just not enough to keep one in a r/s.
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izeek (m)
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@op,
if u guys had nothing in common, then how did r/s get along?
i just feel she never was into the r/s, but madeout to look like she was.
her heart was somewhere else, hence her pleading to leave.
wise thing u did tho.
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jay bee (m)
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What music are we talking abt?
u = fuji music?
her = gospel music?
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izeek (m)
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What music are we talking abt?
u = fuji music?
her = gospel music?
no him-fela her - jahrule. |
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multimedia
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I think her problem was indecison, she was confused on whether to stay with me or hook up with someone else, it is obvious that for her to take that decison she has another guy somewhere, So the excuse tingy is just laughable to be,
We had some many things in common and i guess she was just too blind to discover them,
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multimedia
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Lol @ Jay bee
She loves rock and i love music generally, any kind of music
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skfa1
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Lol @ Jay bee
She loves rock and i love music generally, any kind of music
You see now how the rock music dey worry him head come dey behave like that,  Dont mind jare, thats a damnnnnnn shame  . Like one poster said, "let her go" thats means shile and grab another gurl up your street  . @ Miss B Longest time, not seen u for ages. Hope your good sha . |
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Missy B (f)
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I think her problem was indecison, she was confused on whether to stay with me or hook up with someone else, it is obvious that for her to take that decison she has another guy somewhere, So the excuse tingy is just laughable to be,
We had some many things in common and i guess she was just too blind to discover them,
Don't be so sure. If she says her reason for leaving is Incompatibility. . . . Fine. Personally, I'D say focus on the fact that she's gone, forget the reason and waka on. @ Miss B Longest time, not seen u for ages. Hope your good sha . I'm fine jare. . . .Thanks and You?  |
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Da_archer (m)
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She isn't mean't 4 u bro, they say when u love someone let them go. If they come back it Was meant to b but if not then it wasn't to b in d first place, Wot excuse!! I'd prefer she told me i don't know how to wear a condom than this! Geez!
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skfa1
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I'm fine jare. . . .Thanks and You? Yeah I'm fine too and things have been working well for me, thanks to God Almighty . |
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@ Missy B
I am trying to get her out of my system and she is really helping matters too because she has decided to relocate to Lekki so that she can be far away from me and she as also changed her church,the calls are reducing everyday.But I think those acts means feeling guilty to me.
@ Da Archer…You harsh oh, lol
@ Skfa1 I have allowed her go the moment she asked for a break
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Romeo4real (m)
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I think her problem was indecison, she was confused on whether to stay with me or hook up with someone else, it is obvious that for her to take that decison she has another guy somewhere, So the excuse tingy is just laughable to be, We had some many things in common and i guess she was just too blind to discover them, You seem to have the answer to your own question, and its not wrong - So what exactly is the point of your post? |
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soulamanne
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i suppose d gal is sum unstable creature in the head.what i believe is sum1 else started singing more love song to her.she left u for sum1 else and u did d greatest thing.she might come back afta d person has FINISHED wit her.then u can think of what to do
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crusifis
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relationships are never meant to last, just move on with life, its normal
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tpiah
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do you make a habit of singing hiphop and yelling bitch every other sentence while doing so?
maybe she thought you were referring to her.
When she couldnt take it anymore, thats why she got on her kneels and begged you to let her go find someone who shares her dislikes and likes.
Count yourself lucky- now you can find a girl who shares your tastes and can dig it with you.
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davidylan (m)
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let her go, push it to the back of your mind and get on with life.
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chiogo (f)
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LOL, it's truly laughable. But hey, such is life. Anybody who breaks up with someone they had initially been professing love for over something so petty was never meant for you anyway. Too many crazy people in this world sha.
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~Sauron~
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The babe should be arrested for treachery.
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~Sauron~
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Abeggi jare  Who dumps someone cos of his music taste? |
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~Sauron~
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Of course, the dude is GAY. I cannot stand any geezer who doesn't watch football. . . . .It's so abnormal. |
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TOPE2000! (f)
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Of course, the dude is GAY.
I cannot stand any geezer who doesn't watch football. . . . .It's so abnormal.
Oh? Maybe the girl too thot not listening to same music is abnormal? |
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bluespice (f)
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Who dumps someone cos of his music taste?
me poster, u let her go she's moved what exactly is your problem then? tope o wa sa abi |
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TOPE2000! (f)
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me poster, u let her go she's moved what exactly is your problem then? tope o wa sa abi *in my british accent* Bluespice darling, how are ya? Ni ibo ni moti sa? |
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~Sauron~
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Oh? Maybe the girl too thot not listening to same music is abnormal? Nah. . . . . .The babe is abnormal. It's not as if the OP doesn't listen to music at all. . . . .this babe had her own agenda, abeg. Maybe the OP is impotent. |
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