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peelovee (f)
My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« on: July 03, 2009, 02:47 PM »

after i cought him had sex with his ex, and several heart break from my guy, who is now my ex, i promise myself to be alone for some times without a lover. though he came pleading for second chance, i found no place in my heart to welcome him back, because i have experience 2 serious heart break from him.

He kept distorbing me every day and night even in my office premises, i had to tell him one on one that he should go back to his ex, as i can read it through her that she is still in love with him, he left bitterly.

Now he swear he will never let me be till i give him a second chance, I have decided that i can not give him a second chance, because i can not share my love with another girl, either will i like my love to be shared with another man.(i can't finish eating my cake and still have it)

The worst part is that he keep on embarassing every guy that comes across my way, telling them that i am his fiance, HE even tell me one on one that he must marry me by force.

I am confess, should i report him to our layers, or arrest him, or leave the country because of him, or  Huh   Huh   Huh do what.


Please i need advise (s) urgently.
izeek (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #1 on: July 03, 2009, 02:55 PM »

u again?
your English horrible.
peelovee (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #2 on: July 03, 2009, 02:58 PM »

Quote from: izeek on July 03, 2009, 02:55 PM
u again?
your English horrible.


izeek, this is why i need una advice (s)
Romeo4real (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #3 on: July 03, 2009, 03:04 PM »

The  truth is that your not very serious about this, as is evident in your post.

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He kept distorbing me every day and night even in my office premises, i had to I told him one on one that he should go back to his ex, as i can read it through her that she is still in love with him, he left bitterly.
So you dont want him back b'cos his ex still loves him? Or b'cos he cheated on u? Which one is it?

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I have decided that i can not give him a second chance, because i can not share my love with another girl, either will i like my love to be shared with another man.(i can't finish eating my cake and still have it)
Again, u dont want him back b'cos u cant share your love with another girl? Or b'cos he cheated? PLS make it clear!

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The worst part is that he keep on embarassing every guy that comes across my way, telling them that i am his fiance, HE even tell me one on one that he must marry me by force.
Really? How on earth can he do this. How does he know all the guys that "come across your way"? How does he tell them? Face to face? Over the phone? By letter/ email? How is this possible?
 
I really get irritated by these type of posts. The truth is, a part of u enjoys the drama, so you let it go on. Pls dont waste our time asking for advice u are not ready to take.

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JJYOU
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #4 on: July 03, 2009, 03:12 PM »

Quote from: peelovee on July 03, 2009, 02:47 PM
after i cought him had sex with his ex, and several heart break from my guy, who is now my ex, i promise myself to be alone for some times without a lover. though he came pleading for second chance, i found no place in my heart to welcome him back, because i have experience 2 serious heart break from him.

He kept distorbing me every day and night even in my office premises, i had to tell him one on one that he should go back to his ex, as i can read it through her that she is still in love with him, he left bitterly.

Now he swear he will never let me be till i give him a second chance, I have decided that i can not give him a second chance, because i can not share my love with another girl, either will i like my love to be shared with another man.(i can't finish eating my cake and still have it)
 
The worst part is that he keep on embarassing every guy that comes across my way, telling them that i am his fiance, HE even tell me one on one that he must marry me by force.

I am confess, should i report him to our layers, or arrest him, or leave the country because of him, or  Huh   Huh   Huh do what.


Please i need advise (s) urgently.
another foolish boy.  u no get papa or brother?  tell police to help you sort him out.  yeye boy he didnt know u were alive when his worm dey patrol street.

that is blackmail if you fall for it now he will get away with worse.  that is how some boys are sadly
peelovee (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #5 on: July 03, 2009, 03:23 PM »

Quote from: Romeo4real on July 03, 2009, 03:04 PM
The  truth is that your not very serious about this, as is evident in your post.
So you dont want him back b'cos his ex still loves him? Or b'cos he cheated on u? Which one is it?
Again, u dont want him back b'cos u cant share your love with another girl? Or b'cos he cheated? PLS make it clear!
Really? How on earth can he do this. How does he know all the guys that "come across your way"? How does he tell them? Face to face? Over the phone? By letter/ email? How is this possible?
 
I really get irritated by these type of posts. The truth is, a part of u enjoys the drama, so you let it go on. Pls dont waste our time asking for advice u are not ready to take.

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What i mean is that it has been over between us. but now he comes back distorbing me to give him a second chance why his ex,is deperate to have him back, i dont have strenght to fight my fellow girl because of a guy, besides he broke my heart twice.

Now he keep on distorbing me, that he want me back, embarasshing my colleque, friends, that are male, even my co-workers and church members that are guys. I wonder what he want from me.

Really? How on earth can he do this. How does he know all the guys that "come across your way"? How does he tell them? Face to face? Over the phone? By letter/ email? How is this possible?

I wonder, no he refuses to go to his church and he has urgently become a member of my church for some weeks now.

I just need advise (s)
what should i do. (before God and man, i don't love him any more)
Romeo4real (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #6 on: July 03, 2009, 03:37 PM »

Well, It is clear he doesn't take your protestations seriously.
The best thing to do is totally ignore him. As long as your still talking in any way, shape or form, he will continue to do these things. If you consistently ignore him, his actions will begin to look foolish, even to himself, and he will quietly slink away.
iice (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #7 on: July 03, 2009, 03:39 PM »

I was thinking something along the lines of physical threats Undecided

Leave country ogini wetin? Na him get the country? Undecided

Ignore him jare, if he persists, get a male relative to put some sense into him.
Secretz (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #8 on: July 03, 2009, 03:43 PM »

Quote from: iice on July 03, 2009, 03:39 PM
I was thinking something along the lines of physical threats Undecided

Leave country ogini wetin? Na him get the country? Undecided

Ignore him jare, if he persists, get a male relative to put some sense into him.

Thank you jare!  Grin
Uche2nna (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #9 on: July 03, 2009, 03:46 PM »

Quote from: iice on July 03, 2009, 03:39 PM
I was thinking something along the lines of physical threats Undecided

Leave country ogini wetin? Na him get the country? Undecided

Ignore him jare, if he persists, get a male relative to put some sense into him
.


What if the ex is built like Sylvester Stallone ?  Grin
iice (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #10 on: July 03, 2009, 03:50 PM »

Quote from: Uche2nna on July 03, 2009, 03:46 PM
What if the ex is built like Sylvester Stallone ?  Grin

Uncle Uche Grin

Then get an amount (people) that will equal Stallone Tongue
Uche2nna (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #11 on: July 03, 2009, 04:00 PM »



 LOL @ iice

Ol' girl, how bodi
iice (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #12 on: July 03, 2009, 04:04 PM »

Bodi dey inside cloth ooo Tongue

You've been scare.  Ran into Josboy4life in one thread recently.  I have no hope of seeing Zuzu Sad

How you dey?
edogram. (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #13 on: July 03, 2009, 04:16 PM »

I m sure the guy is as rude as cutest, don’t u have brothers u have to report him to your relative, if any of your relative get to him and warned him, he will not near u again, or better report him to he’s mother or relation, if this don’t help. Police is the only alternative. Becos what I can see here is that this guy can roles your life.

peelovee (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #14 on: July 03, 2009, 05:36 PM »

I do appreciate all your advise(s)

mama-g
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #15 on: July 31, 2009, 01:33 AM »

Then report him to the police, Case Closed. Sad
roblance
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #16 on: July 31, 2009, 06:03 AM »

Quote from: peelovee on July 03, 2009, 02:47 PM
after i cought him had sex with his ex, and several heart break from my guy, who is now my ex, i promise myself to be alone for some times without a lover. though he came pleading for second chance, i found no place in my heart to welcome him back, because i have experience 2 serious heart break from him.

He kept distorbing me every day and night even in my office premises, i had to tell him one on one that he should go back to his ex, as i can read it through her that she is still in love with him, he left bitterly.

Now he swear he will never let me be till i give him a second chance, I have decided that i can not give him a second chance, because i can not share my love with another girl, either will i like my love to be shared with another man.(i can't finish eating my cake and still have it)
 
The worst part is that he keep on embarassing every guy that comes across my way, telling them that i am his fiance, HE even tell me one on one that he must marry me by force.

I am confess, should i report him to our layers, or arrest him, or leave the country because of him, or  Huh   Huh   Huh do what.


Please i need advise (s) urgently.




better give him a chance b4 he cuts off yur head lol
NeoBlack (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #17 on: July 31, 2009, 07:37 AM »

Na wa ooo,   You better start your own,  or go to church or mosque ask there leader to pray for your head,  because why you? lol and meanwhile its because he didn't need you anymore or you don't give him your female orifice i think,

Well be cool
MrWaters (m)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #18 on: July 31, 2009, 08:34 AM »

Another formulated story with contradictory sentence =o
sweetcoint (f)
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #19 on: July 31, 2009, 09:23 AM »

my dear you have to leave that guy since his girlfriend is in love with him, she can do anything to hurt you, move ahead with you life, or you look for a male friend and claim that he is your boyfriend for him to think that u've gotten someone else
hollandis
Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me
« #20 on: July 31, 2009, 09:24 AM »

Quote from: peelovee on July 03, 2009, 02:47 PM
after i cought him had sex with his ex, and several heart break from my guy, who is now my ex, i promise myself to be alone for some times without a lover. though he came pleading for second chance, i found no place in my heart to welcome him back, because i have experience 2 serious heart break from him.

He kept distorbing me every day and night even in my office premises, i had to tell him one on one that he should go back to his ex, as i can read it through her that she is still in love with him, he left bitterly.

Now he swear he will never let me be till i give him a second chance, I have decided that i can not give him a second chance, because i can not share my love with another girl, either will i like my love to be shared with another man.(i can't finish eating my cake and still have it)
 
The worst part is that he keep on embarassing every guy that comes across my way, telling them that i am his fiance, HE even tell me one on one that he must marry me by force.

I am confess, should i report him to our layers, or arrest him, or leave the country because of him, or  Huh   Huh   Huh do what.


Please i need advise (s) urgently.

My advise(s)  what is the "s" for by the way? for you is
1. Go to school,your english is poor Angry
2.Stop embarassing the forum with your grammatical inexplicable expressions Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
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