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Nikky23
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I met a guy online and ever since we have been chatting and talking on d fone he has been asking to see me, so i arranged for a time to see. while we used to chat, he told me he was single, no girl friend, nothing and never been in a relationship, only 4 me 2 find out from a source that knows him "what a small world indeed" that he did have a girlfriend. i confronted him and he said yes he has, so y would he want to know me and most especially lie 2 me?
what will you do if it was u?
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Nikky23
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Personally No.
y are guys like dis?  , i just came out 4rm bad r/ship then dis. y did he lie 2 me when we r getting 2 know ourselves and i actually began falling 4 him, dis happens, he has a girlfriend so iam back 2 square1 again? |
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edogram. (m)
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because u girls believe in liers/
if an honest guy tell u the truth he will end up been a losser
so u girls desearve liers.
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JJYOU
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because u girls believe in liers/
if an honest guy tell u the truth he will end up been a losser
so u girls desearve liers.
ozuo. how can u justify telling lies? y are guys like dis? , i just came out 4rm bad r/ship then dis. y did he lie 2 me when we r getting 2 know ourselves and i actually began falling 4 him, dis happens, he has a girlfriend so iam back 2 square1 again? why would you believe he was telling truth in the first place? start falling for yourself first and get to place a value on yourself before you let a jerk like him near you again |
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Nikky23
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because u girls believe in liers/
if an honest guy tell u the truth he will end up been a losser
so u girls desearve liers.
is this english?? hisses. what do u mean by girls believing in liars and how would a girl know a guy is a liar immediately? |
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Nikky23
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ozuo. how can u justify telling lies?
why would you believe he was telling truth in the first place? start falling for yourself first and get to place a value on yourself before you let a jerk like him near you again
i didnt necessarily believe, its just that, when we initially started speaking online, i wasnt interested but he kept pestering me for so so long, dats what i dont get. and y. |
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JJYOU
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i didnt necessarily believe, its just that, when we initially started speaking online, i wasnt interested but he kept pestering me for so so long, dats what i dont get. and y.
ok next time dont be so gulible. he probably is nigerian. and as for hunting that is what boys do even for girls they are not necesarilly interested in. sorry u got hurt next time dont believe him ok. |
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Nikky23
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ok next time dont be so gulible. he probably is nigerian. and as for hunting that is what boys do even for girls they are not necesarilly interested in. sorry u got hurt next time dont believe him ok.
thank you. yes he is nigerian. is this a common trend with nigerian guys, just curious |
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frank3.16
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Did u like what u saw in him? because u just got out of relationship does not mean everyother person should b single. if u dont go ahead, where do u think u are goin to find a single guy?
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Nikky23
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Did u like what u saw in him? because u just got out of relationship does not mean everyother person should b single. if u dont go ahead, where do u think u are goin to find a single guy? i didn't quite get or understand the statement u made in bold and not at all am i expecting everyother person 2 b single. just y did he have to lie? dats all |
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ezinne1212 (f)
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My dear, your case is unfortunate but be glad that you found out on time. The lesson you should accept from this is simple, chatting with guys online is not a crime, but do so as friends. If someone you haven't met, and simply shared conversations with, no matter how intimate suddenly starts directing the relationship towards dating rather than friendship, then you should be wary. Not every guy you chat with is a potential boyfriend, open your mind but guard your heart, It's not for everyone.
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Akinagirl (f)
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You should be careful wanting to meet up with someone you don't know anyways.
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Tudór (m)
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Yeah,internet runs can be dangerous!
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MRbrownJAY (m)
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its a known fact that most men who have their profiles on dating sites are either married or in a relationship.
online dating is good only if you take it as what it is. you are talking to a screen, and whoever is on the receiving end can tell you whatever you need to hear in order to get you in bed/meet you or whatever.
be smart about online dating and there are a few things that you need to know:
- if possible, have a web chat before the meeting day
- never give any of your informations online until you actually meet him for real
- always meet the prospective friend/lover/bf in a crowded public place the first time you will meet (not a nightclub, party).
- get to know the person physically, in real life and check that all what he claim online is real (it takes time so dont rush into anything)
- do not expect more than just friendship online, if there is to be more than that then let it happen face to face.
- if you meet a guy online that looks to good to be true then it probably is and something is definitely fishy.
- a good looking, intelligent physically able man would not need online dating to find a date unless he was only after some side toto in his busy life
- there are lot of 419 scam via online dating/facebook/msn/yahoo so you have to be extra careful at all times.
- it is very easy to find out who a person really is and information about them from their email, full name etc. be a detective before throwing your life at someone.
- only a desperate/thriffling person will claim to love you etc before you even met and therefore you would have to be extra careful with them.
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roblance
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I met a guy online and ever since we have been chatting and talking on d fone he has been asking to see me, so i arranged for a time to see. while we used to chat, he told me he was single, no girl friend, nothing and never been in a relationship, only 4 me 2 find out from a source that knows him "what a small world indeed" that he did have a girlfriend. i confronted him and he said yes he has, so y would he want to know me and most especially lie 2 me?
what will you do if it was u?
 sie negative tinking made by nikky , just 2 bad |
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bluespice (f)
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i wont date him
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Nikky23
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My dear, your case is unfortunate but be glad that you found out on time. The lesson you should accept from this is simple, chatting with guys online is not a crime, but do so as friends. If someone you haven't met, and simply shared conversations with, no matter how intimate suddenly starts directing the relationship towards dating rather than friendship, then you should be wary. Not every guy you chat with is a potential boyfriend, open your mind but guard your heart, It's not for everyone.
yes o though it hurts as i started developing feelings 4 him. it's really time i guard my heart, no more hurt. thank u all that replied this, i have deleted him from my list, site and anywhere. he's by gone. |
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oyinda. (f)
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yes o though it hurts as i started developing feelings 4 him. it's really time i guard my heart, no more hurt.
thank u all that replied this, i have deleted him from my list, site and anywhere. he's by gone.
thank God. I was beginning to get worried 4 u . lol |
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FL Gators
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What else can you do but cut all communication with him? And if you can find his GF's contact information, let her know  |
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Nikky23
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thank God. I was beginning to get worried 4 u . lol aww 10ks 4 your concern  . he is out of existence now in my eyez |
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Nikky23
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What else can you do but cut all communication with him? And if you can find his GF's contact information, let her know i've done that already, infact immediately i confronted him. he is lucky, i didnt put my all in it if not he would have been going 2 meet an angry girlfriend, tell her everything but it's not worth my time. 10ks 4 your interest |
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Nikky23
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pele.
10ks o, pls men should take it eazy with all d aches and pains they cause 4 d female species. haba |
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FL Gators
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i've done that already, infact immediately i confronted him. he is lucky, i didnt put my all in it if not he would have been going 2 meet an angry girlfriend, tell her everything but it's not worth my time. 10ks 4 your interest
You should have done it. NO, not to spite him. But for the other girl, because he WILL do it again. And the innocent GF wouldn't even know what the idiot has been doing behind her back. Prolly planning her future with him. |
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chiogo (f)
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Nothing wrong with online dating oo but when they start 'pestering' you, run as fast as you can. buncha psychos!!!
Some of them will even get your email address from God-knows-where and seek for a so-called 'friendship'.
@poster, he wanted a fling; that is to have his cake and eat it too so long as you didn't know he had a girlfriend.
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Nikky23
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Nothing wrong with online dating oo but when they start 'pestering' you, run as fast as you can. buncha psychos!!!
Some of them will even get your email address from God-knows-where and seek for a so-called 'friendship'.
@poster, he wanted a fling; that is to have his cake and eat it too so long as you didn't know he had a girlfriend.
unfortunately i threw it to his face b4 he could try anything further  You should have done it. NO, not to spite him.
But for the other girl, because he WILL do it again.
And the innocent GF wouldn't even know what the idiot has been doing behind her back. Prolly planning her future with him.
i thought about it but i just decided it wasn't worth my time, i already had enuf. hopefully d girl finds out herself or watsoeva. |
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davidylan (m)
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10ks o, pls men should take it eazy with all d aches and pains they cause 4 d female species. haba
what about the pain you cause us? Is it because we've learnt to take it on the chin? |
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~Sissy~ (f)
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@ post no, who knows what other buncha lies he's hiding |
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walestar (m)
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y are guys like dis? , i just came out 4rm bad r/ship then dis. y did he lie 2 me when we r getting 2 know ourselves and i actually began falling 4 him, dis happens, he has a girlfriend so iam back 2 square1 again? Let me take you to square 99 in 30 minutes, if you want to know the truth about any man, take him to bear parlour. let him drink 3 to 4 bottles at least. If he is lying then you will know, infact he go begin count his girlfriends for you. I don't like relationship but sex is all I care for, nothing important for woman body except pu.ssy, I dont care if the girl is beautiful or okay but if shayo like mad, you go hammer ugly girl join. Women are so troublesome when it comes to relationship |
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190 (m)
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i smell rubbie in making
i guess shes talkin abt me
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