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scondy (f)
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no hard feelings about this.but i`ve always wondered and i came to the conclusion that guys don't know what they want.they are just babies but the irony of it all is that they don't know and would never accept. what do u think.when i get replies i`ll elaborate on the issue.
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Seun (m)
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Hello scondy,
Please elaborate on the issue. We're waiting on you!
Seun.
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baalisso (m)
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Am a bit surprised @ your conclusion that guys will not accept your acertion.Why not?
NOw to the discurse.A number of guy no what they want and in most cases they go for it wholeheartedly.I wondn't say you gave this topic of dicurse out of experience but "whatever"
I for for person know fullywell what i need i found it,grab it and am still on it for the past 5 years.
thank you
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nddy (m)
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this is no issue for discussion
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Efik_ibo (f)
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Well as a woman i actually believe that "most" men DONT know what they want. They want their woman to be a model outside, a wife in the house and a whore in the bedroom. NEWSFLASH!!!! not everyone can achieve that!!! u married her/or are with her for who she is and NOT who u want to make her into  . They claim they don't like ladies that front, but once u show them how u feel watch them run a mile talking about your getting heavy and clingy and how he's not ready... like make up your frigging mind already. They want to get married to a "virgin" yet they the same one out there popping other people's future wife's cherry. They want a woman who is submissive, but then they in the same breath they don't like "weak" women. They want a woman who has mastered the art of Kamasutra 101, but once she starts showing u her skills, u hear him talk about ... oh she's a whore, but then if u don't... u get the usual... naija girls are frigid and prudes. And they say they know wot they want?? Well my name is Halle Berry then 
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snowsdream (f)
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some guys probably know what they want and some obviously don't. Like the kind of guys Efik_ibo, thoughs kind of guy don't really know what they want putting in mind that all guy are not the same. There are really some that have ambitions and know what they want in life and will not rest until they get it, some that are straight-headed.
i really think some guys know and some do not know what they really want.
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Efik_ibo (f)
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@ snowsdream i guess u missed the part where i wrote "most" guys So i don't understand the repetition in your post
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IAH (f)
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They want to get married to a "virgin" yet they the same one out there popping other people's future wife's cherry. They want a woman who is submissive, but then they in the same breath they don't like "weak" women. They want a woman who has mastered the art of Kamasutra 101, but once she starts showing u her skills, u hear him talk about ... oh she's a whore, but then if u don't... u get the usual... Nigeria girls are frigid and prudes.[/b] And they say they know wot they want?? Well my name is Halle Berry then I just have to clap! You rock, girl. |
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baalisso (m)
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Thanks for your contribution. I would like to conduct a start on how many guy married to a virgin.Note this,90 out of 100 girls got deflowered at between age 12 and 19.the issue of lost of virginity is a natural phenominon.Therefore, I would like everybody to remember the philosophy of human differences.
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baalisso (m)
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correction; I would like efik_ibo and not myself to conduct the stat i talked about.
thanks
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Efik_ibo (f)
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@ baalisso... no where in my post did i say they r married to virgins. I said they WANT 2, don't mean they've achieved it
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scondy (f)
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well,i must admit that efik ibo really feels my gist.
most guys feel they know what they want and go for it but the real gist is that they actually don't know.an average guy if asked to describe his ideal woman would rant on and on,but when it actually comes to confrontin such issues they are handicapped.the thing is, the ideal woman a guy wants in his thoughts actually bores him in real life cases.why?because guys haven`t realised one law to romance and love,which is...............THERE IS NO DESCRIPTION TO WHO You WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH.......it is something that flows and whatever that makes that person her/him is what you're fallin for not what u want or think he/she should be.
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baalisso (m)
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>scondy<........If there is no discription of "who" to fall in love with, i believe there is discription for "who" to MARRY
THANKS.
It's me
ayourhinde
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chrisd (m)
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Some of them do know
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macalurs (m)
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well,i must admit that efik ibo really feels my gist.
most guys feel they know what they want and go for it but the real gist is that they actually don't know.an average guy if asked to describe his ideal woman would rant on and on,but when it actually comes to confrontin such issues they are handicapped.the thing is, the ideal woman a guy wants in his thoughts actually bores him in real life cases.why?because guys haven`t realised one law to romance and love,which is, THERE IS NO DESCRIPTION TO WHO You WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH, it is something that flows and whatever that makes that person her/him is what you're fallin for not what u want or think he/she should be.
In real life, things happen differently than they are planned. Before I say any more, one question for you: How exactly does your point that men have no description of who they want to fall in love with have anything to do with the fact that they are men? What makes your statement true? |
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ima1 (f)
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No because they still think with their head up their a s s
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macalurs (m)
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Yeah it probably holds true for all the guys you meet. . . those stupid guys. you're very unlucky. |
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macalurs (m)
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maybe I am stupid. . . the odds are I'm not.
It's funny you're still bent on you assertion that ALL guys think sex whenever they look at you. You make a pathetic mind-reader.
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jaybaby (f)
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Huh dnt srt with me-----This is what i read ,hear,see waz your stress Boi? Did You see me say it happens 2 me Even if thatz what happens when they see me---waz your PROB?
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macalurs (m)
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Chill girl.
i was only saying that for you to make a generalization that All guys think sex when they see a girl, you must be goin through some really tough times with em.
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jaybaby (f)
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ohhhhhh you're now goin dwn d way of CHILL GURL  Ok 99% |
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macalurs (m)
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I don't think there's anything wrong with me not wanting you to misunderstand me.  |
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macalurs (m)
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'njoy your dumb self i'm off 2 my bed Good night wise one Back to topic. |
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scondy (f)
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well, girls are more true to what they want no matter what people say, but guys always want to conform to some societal norms.
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Pain
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No. You See,,,, Guys Really Want Girls. But Girls Are Difficult To Know. I Mean,,,,,,Understand. Therefore Guys Never Get To Know What They Really Want [Girls]I Hope That Answers Your Question?  |
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jp philips (m)
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of course they do;
just that the complexity of the women folks makes
him insecure,
mind u evry lady has got issues
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francessby (f)
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you are a confused guy
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Persona82 (m)
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Oh yes they do. . . The activities you as females see is the sifting exercise.
When they see it. The world can stop for all they care (Infact, the world WILL stop).
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