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whitelexi (m)
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When ur friend starts feeling isecure about u, always wanting to know where u are and what u're doing and who u've been with, what do u do to take things back the way they used to be, It feels like reassuring is not helping at all
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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intresting
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whitelexi (m)
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The major reasons are the distance and the constant feeling that there may be someone else.
@Thoniaslim: whats interesting?
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mukina2 (f)
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The major reasons are the distance and the constant feeling that there may be someone else.
that is always the case . . . . . |
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whitelexi (m)
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I wonder where 'trust' went, y can't a woman learn to trust? because some dudes will be better if u trust them, when u don't, they know they can actually go ahead and get some because u don't trust anyways
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mukina2 (f)
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trust can work both ways
why is it always the ladies what about the guys?
you trust a guy he ends up breaking your heart
men make it difficult for us to trust them, ,
if only they can stop telling long tales then we'll start trusting them , . ,
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iice (f)
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trust can work both ways
why is it always the ladies what about the guys?
you trust a guy he ends up breaking your heart
men make it difficult for us to trust them, ,
if only they can stop telling long tales then we'll start trusting them , . ,
Thank you ma sista. Well said  |
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whitelexi (m)
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not that it applies in this case as such, but some girls will not trust whether u prove u can be trusted or not
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Seun (m)
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Do you mean friend or girlfriend?
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iice (f)
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not that it applies in this case as such, but some girls will not trust whether u prove u can be trusted or not
Then maybe she was once burnt and is now twice shy, and has made up her mind to not to fully trust a man |
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whitelexi (m)
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Do you mean friend or girlfriend?
Lol @seun, I meant Girlfriend |
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mukina2 (f)
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@whitelexi
its not that we don't want to trust men its just that one rotten egg spoils the whole cartoon . .
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whitelexi (m)
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ouch |
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wormedup (m)
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women will always be women. i think they were meant to be a constant reminder of the toiling God pronounced in eden. a girl will expect you to believe whatever she tells you about herself but won't do same for you. a girl will keep snooping around ur privacy; checking dailed numbers and recieved calls, stored numbers; when u don't care about who calls her. whatever happened to reciprocation ? why would a girl carry over a heart break from a previous relationship to a new one ? is the new guy a look alike to the old one ? they even give u reasons to doubt their worthiness and they don't stop to check for damages. my girl was on vacation and wanted me to believe she was quite busy to see me; now the vacation is over and i know it's a lot harder for her to see me know but she already used up her excuses. now, nobody will fault me if i decide to conclude she was onto something fishy but, me being me, i don't care - at least until we are married. afterall, she was seeing someone before i met her - and we started dating - which simply means she's capable of dating 2 guys at the same time. who cares, all i want from her is respect. they raise crazy issues and expect u to make sense out of them. in as much as we know there's no sense in it (like my babe's case) we try our best yet. i know there are some crazy guys out there but i believe over 50% of heart breaks on girls are self inflicted. no two people on planet earth are exactly the same and no matter how small the difference is, it's a difference ! why would a girl her new man would do same with the old prick ? and she agreed to date the new guy just to find out  i really don't think so. this is getting long, digest. to be continued, |
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whitelexi (m)
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Tell me about it.
But tell me, what would u do if it is an extreme case of insecurity and there's not even a little privacy left for u? Just out of curiousity.
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naija4life (f)
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I'm presently undergoing serious emotional trauma right now by my girlfriend's latest nonchalant attitiude towards me, even though she blames it on mid-term examns  |
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whitelexi (m)
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LOl, pick yourself up and keep your head u, it might be her exams truly, and surely u can give her some time to sort that out. |
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wormedup (m)
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@Whitelexi,
make me understand what "extreme case of insecurity and there's not even a little privacy" means from ur own point of view as it might not make sense from my end.
cheers.
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harvey (m)
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girls want to know too much and one pigin adage goes thus.na the curiosity of the rat land am into hot oil.when a girl want to know too much,she ends up making the guy hide things from her.
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