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playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #64 on: November 19, 2005, 09:58 AM »

Quote from: icingbaby on November 16, 2005, 10:56 PM
@seun thank I feel you. Smiley
@playboy delete that rubbish that you just wrote, because you are not making any sense Angry

Now now now what do we have here.Hmmmm.I may not be making sense to u but Alaska,kenflavor or unleash_it certainly doesnt think so!.Why are u trying to surpress the obvious facts.Accept it and go get yourself a bad boy because I know u want one,every girl does or desire it in secret.
What sense have u made so far in your posts?...nothing,u only read other peoples comments and pass judgement.Com'on put down something intelligent and let others read and comment on it instead of being the self appointed official critic of this forum and sitting on the fence.
playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #65 on: November 19, 2005, 10:28 AM »

Quote from: Seun on November 16, 2005, 06:03 PM
Why do you have to lump all the good qualities in a man together with bad qualities in a man and call it "bad boy". What if I am wicked smart but not a player? What if I'm caring but not a cassanova? What if I'm rich but not a show-off? What if I'm strong enough to be a social icon but not inclined to push my girl around for the sake of showing how strong I am?

Must we all turn bad in order to compensate for your desire to suffer in the name of love? Huh

Everybody has a bad side and a good side,in some people the bad side dominates,in some the good side dominates while in some others,a balance is struck somewhere.The present day bad boy as most girls would see it, is tha guy who is a able to strike that balance and they love it(including icingbaby),period!.
Seun,please note this;
1.I never said a bad boy is a player or cassanova,read my post very well and be picky.I said 'the girl believes........'

2.I never said a bad boy pushes his girl around,read my post meticulously.I talked about control and taking charge of a relationship like a man is suppose to do.Believe it or not,a sisi boyfriend is bound to lose out at the end of the day and that is a fact!.

3.I never said a bad boy shows off.Again read my post and be punctilious.I said 'if the guy has cash to throw around'......... and with my level of informal English,I know that means he has good spending money.

Lets all keep our eye on details before we make critical remarks!
Peace to u all

playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #66 on: November 19, 2005, 10:32 AM »

Alaska,Kenflavor and unleash_it.....u are the man!.Alaska my bro sail on peacefully.
kenflavor (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #67 on: November 19, 2005, 02:58 PM »

Playboy, I am at your back man, ride on. You are really yearning and u are making facts and reality.
Abinibi yato si ability  Kiss KissGrin
playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #68 on: November 19, 2005, 03:07 PM »

Quote from: kenflavor on November 19, 2005, 02:58 PM
Playboy, I am at your back man, ride on. You are really yearning and u are making facts and reality.
Abinibi yato si ability Kiss KissGrin

Thanks Bro
icingbaby (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #69 on: November 24, 2005, 01:36 AM »

If other girls love bad boy, I don't.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #70 on: November 24, 2005, 01:38 AM »

goodguys are my type  Smiley

i don't like bad guys either
icingbaby (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #71 on: November 24, 2005, 01:46 AM »

Thank you girl.  Playboy thinks all girl are the same.
legry (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #72 on: November 25, 2005, 09:00 AM »

My question is this please please please ladies what is your defination of a bad boy i really really need to know this cause i think this you are a bad boy issuse can be a bit over bearing sometimes so please can i have a defination of what a bad boy is and yes ive been called a bad boy once or twice and i just did not get it.
icingbaby (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #73 on: November 26, 2005, 04:51 AM »

bad boy to me is some stupid guy, who alway do stupid stuff like getting into fights, love to treat women like they some sh*t,  don't have self-respect for their self or any one, alway getting into trouble with police and beat their women up.  That what bad boys is to me, but some people my view it differently. Smiley
legry (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #74 on: November 26, 2005, 11:41 AM »

 Grin Grin that menas im not a bad boy , thats means im a good guy ugh!
playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #75 on: November 26, 2005, 01:54 PM »

@Icingbaby:The way u put down your posts goes a long way to expose your level of intelligence.You never seem to post anything intelligent but only abusive language.This is a forum where people are allowed to air their views and get criticized constructively and not destrucively.Everybody is free to air personal opinions but not free to throw insults at others because of their opinion.If u think your choice of language is invidious to me ,you're mistaken,it only tells me your kind of character and your way of life.
I m sure u've not taking time out to read the RULES of this forum.When a topic is posted, u are allowed to conribute intelligently and not contibute ONLY foul language.Please read the post of other females on this forum,then,u can see how different u are,take a cue from them.They criticize constructively,more cultured  and don't use abusive or foul language.I m sure they will all be highly disapointed in u.Seun's flaks were constructive and I took time out to explain my points and he did not use any foul language afterwards.
You owe all the females on this forum a public apology because you're a disgrace and embarrassment to them.
michelin89 (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #76 on: November 26, 2005, 03:40 PM »

c'mon playboy! don't be so harsh. i think all she meant was that to her point of view bad boys are abusive and violent. but i don not agree. when we're talking about bad we don't mean evil....or that's what i think. bad boys are adventurous and they know when to break the rules to make things exciting. i think the topic here is more about "exciting & adventurous" guys Vs "boring & fearful" ones
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #77 on: November 26, 2005, 07:55 PM »

Quote from: playboy on November 26, 2005, 01:54 PM

You owe all the females on this forum a public apology because you're a disgrace and embarrassment to them.



 you meant  to say "she owes all the "bad boys" on this forum an apology?   Wink  Tongue

well, icingbaby's too good for that.  Cool

her definition for badboy is what i think a badboy is too! someone who gets in trouble a lot and can't construct a full sentence on a regular basis without one or more swear words in it. that's just stupid!.

snazzydawn (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #78 on: November 26, 2005, 08:54 PM »

Methinks girls like bad boyz because their game is tight.For me,well,I like emmm....well ask me!!!
goodguy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #79 on: November 27, 2005, 03:40 PM »

Icingbaby's definition of "badboy" is also similar to who I see as a badboy too. In addition, a nigerian guy that smokes, has had sex (unmarried) and drinks a lot, is a badboy to me. Cool

It's my opinion. Wink
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #80 on: November 28, 2005, 12:39 AM »

let me add to the definition, a guy who's not serious w/ his studies and maybe a drop-out.  . "pimin' " on the streets.
playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #81 on: November 28, 2005, 11:46 AM »

Quote from: michelin89 on November 26, 2005, 03:40 PM
c'mon playboy! don't be so harsh. i think all she meant was that to her point of view bad boys are abusive and violent. but i don not agree. when we're talking about bad we don't mean evil.or that's what i think. bad boys are adventurous and they know when to break the rules to make things exciting. i think the topic here is more about "exciting & adventurous" guys Vs "boring & fearful" ones

I never intended o be harsh but u should have seen some posts she made before my reply.I had her reported to the moderator and I guess he yanked them off.She used all sorts of foul and indecent language to describe my person just because I made my opinion known about a topic.We are not suppose to make personal attacks,if no one agrees with the other's opinion about any topic then let it go,afterall its just a forum,whatever we say here or agree is not going to the National Assembly for endorsement and passed into law!,it is just a discussion for crying out loud.
Well,I sincerely regret it had to come to this.Icingbaby,let bygones be bygones and forget this ever happened,okay.Have a lovely day
kenflavor (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #82 on: November 28, 2005, 12:19 PM »

much more like you my brother. You don't worry yourself about anyone feels or say, what u should bear in mind is that some people will agree with you and some will not. Meanwhile, what matters most is that everyone in the forum that must have studied not read this topic will definitely agree to some or all of youur points. So, brother carry go and remain yourself.
amz
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #83 on: December 08, 2005, 11:25 AM »

i'm not a bad girl maself but i am usually attracted 2 boys that take pride in their appearance e.g. 1z that wear  hodiez,trackez, trainaz n capz n it don't necessarily have 2 b braids it can b any style long as it lookz hot!

n loadza boiz dress like this but not all of them r bad/rudeboiz or woteva u wana call them dey get judged by der dress-code

c'mon girls u gotta admit if u thnk sme 1 iz dressed good u feel attarcted 2 them! Smiley
alheri (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #84 on: December 08, 2005, 12:14 PM »

I LOVE BAD BOYS Grin my husband is a bad boy Grin
playboy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #85 on: December 08, 2005, 01:09 PM »

Its nice to see ladies falling in line with my opinion.Way to go girls!!!
mikebuddy (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #86 on: December 08, 2005, 02:08 PM »

Well i think that should be mentmainly for girls so i got notin t say!.
adeoba (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #87 on: December 08, 2005, 07:14 PM »

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WesleyanA (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #88 on: December 09, 2005, 12:28 AM »

Quote from: amz on December 08, 2005, 11:25 AM
i'm not a bad girl maself but i am usually attracted 2 (bad) boys that take pride in their appearance e.g. 1z that wear hodiez,trackez, trainaz n capz n it don't necessarily have 2 b braids it can b any style long as it lookz hot!

n loadza boiz dress like this but not all of them r bad/rudeboiz or woteva u wana call them dey get judged by der dress-code

c'mon girls u gotta admit if u thnk sme 1 iz dressed good u feel attarcted 2 them! Smiley


my point exactly!
dress code don't determine if you're good or bad!

i personally don't like bad/ rude guys myself but i don't get how anyguy w/ braids is automatically "bad". (not that i like guys w/ braids or anything)

phorlabee (m)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #89 on: December 11, 2005, 04:01 AM »

 I think girls @ d end of the day don't really like "BAD" guys but the just want it WILD, ADVENTUROUS & EXCITING! The word bad here I think does not really follow its literally meaning.
Byeya!
sweetnini (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #90 on: December 11, 2005, 04:49 AM »

i love bad boys because they are bad Smiley
K2DaC (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #91 on: December 11, 2005, 04:50 AM »

i don't want a guy who always think every little thin is a sin

at the same time i don't want a guy who is bad as in his ass is ending up in jail , because im not dealing with that.

so just someone on my status! not tooo pathetic n not a bad ass
sweetnini (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #92 on: December 11, 2005, 04:55 AM »

Quote from: K2DaC on December 11, 2005, 04:50 AM
i don't want a guy who always think every little thin is a sin

at the same time i don't want a guy who is bad as in his ass is ending up in jail , because im not dealing with that.

so just someone on my status! not tooo pathetic n not a bad ass

i agree ooo but let there be more of bad than good
K2DaC (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #93 on: December 11, 2005, 05:02 AM »

yeah Lol i need someone spontaneous(sp?) once ina while

we can get drunk n maybe  Cool ..... yeah yeah

haha Tongue
sweetnini (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #94 on: December 11, 2005, 05:36 AM »

and maybe what?lol

i like the getting drunk part
K2DaC (f)
Re: Why Do We (Girls) Always Go For the Bad Boys?
« #95 on: December 11, 2005, 05:51 AM »

 Cheesy nothing.

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