To Date a Black American

She is already said sorry , so wats the Martin Luther King Sermon all about

why do you ask?

i'D prefer not to answer. . . just like i don't reveal whether i'm male or female, hetero or homothough I have revealed I was a christian. . but that was a special case. .

I tend to post in topics to challenge traditional views that many people hold which I feel is wrong.  I think if people could pigeonhole me into a certain box, they'D find it easier to explain away my points as - oh thats just because he/she is such and such or from such a place.  I'D rather my views be considered as purely intellectual, logical, scientific without any possibility of bias.

That is how I strive to respond to posts, and that is how I want my responses to be interpreted.

I guess I've been a little . . .well not a little. . harsh lately . . . I'll try to tone it down. . . I've got a break coming up so that should help 

actually, in this thread, a lot.  I'm starting to feel bad now. .

I want to publicly apologize to WesleyanA for the way I've responded to her in this thread.  I've clearly overreacted here.

hey Goodguy i'm born African but raised here n i still got strong African roots. well wit' all these, my father is never going to let me marry an African american. i'm not Nigerian either n he said i'm never going to marry a Nigerian too. (no offense people it's nothin' personal)

funny guy! my father plays a lot in my life he asked me to be a nun but i didn't want to so he said if i want to get married it shuld not be to an Akata (african american) of to a nigerian.

i don't understand how your parents decide who you can marry and you can't marry.

...oh yeah.

why?

Pardon me, i'm a tad confused.

" so i snot only girl" - what does this mean?

I really don't think I can get married to an american, black or white.

I can date black American and married them any time any day. by mom or dad doesn't have any problem with me go with black American

Nobody is against me dating/marrying an american. It's just a personal decision which has no solid reason and has nothing to do with my Christian background. It's just more or less like me deciding not to marry a mad woman. (I ain't saying americans are mad people).

i mean she is not the only one, because i'm in the same position my parent won't allow me to date a black america. i didn't say i won't date one. i'm not ready yet. but when i'm ready i'll date who ever i want to. right now i'm concentrating on my studies.