Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex-lover As Friend?

Its neva been advisable, an EX is an EX, case closed, no friendship, no wateva,   

Hello,plz lets say the fact in here.One fact is that is not good keeping out from your ex and another fact is that is not good having them as Friends.I once had an ex,we called on phone after break,_{no one told each other it was over.} it depends on the way u broke up.i used to call her but at a time she said i should should bkos i guess she hates me then bkos the break up was still very fresh.And i had to stop.Believe me after many months of no calls no contact no seeing,the next we saw each other was in a cyber cafe,and gosh come and see the looks on our eyes and the come back of memories.Friendship,r.ships can die but the question is what can u do to memory to fade away.U will always remember the feelings u once had,all the good times,romance,sex and bad times,_{ecept u tells me that when u people where going on that there where no feelings there.}Believe me feelings can only be kept cold but cant die.My Principles on this issue is that,_{FEELINGS NEVER DIE}.Immediately u remember the memories things becomes new and is dangerous to your present r/ship, Lets face the fact non of your new partner will allow u to have contact with your ex,we all are jealous boys or girls.I cant have my ex having contacts with her ex.No matter how pure thire friendship may seem to,i might be skeptical about her intentions.So bro plz keep off and let your friendship with your ex be brief and let it be only nature that brings u together.
Cheers man.

lmao. . . . Nice one bro 

Well, here is my opionion,  or part of it The Breakup Ideology

Whether U Can keep your ex as friend is both personal and relative.

From personal experience, if you haven´t corrupted yourselves, both of you would be free, bold and confident around each other. She would even be a testimony to your chastity with your wife.

I took my wife to my ex´s introduction and wedding ceremonies and her parents´ and siblings´ comportment around me reassured my wife it had been a platonic relationship. She thus trust me more.

So, like I said, it´s a both personal and relative issue.

they cant become  enemies simply because u have broken up with them
but then,they dont have to come so close
because old feelings could always up u no wat i mean
well,all d best

it depends on the both of you, some people might be vulnerable after a seperation while some others can handle being around their ex, so if u know u can, no big deal but if you can't just let sleeping dogs lie.

cos yes, y not

hnm, it depends,u can still be friends but atimes you remember your past times which makes you miss him/her,but you can still be friends,if it were to be my girl friend that broke up with me,i will call her to make her realize wot she did all the time till i get over the shock,but u can still be friendz!!!!!!!!!!!!

hnm,its not easy to maintain friendship with your EX cus it makes you remember your past times,but its a good thing to still be friends cus no friend it wasted,

It depends on what went between the two of you. If you have an Ex that being alone together with them used to ultimately end up in sxe, then hanging around them is a no-no. Because those feelings will always come up again, causing tension in yiour present relationship and a lot of distrust.

 

I have been saying it
I am still saying it
And i will continue to hammer on it:

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS 'LETS JUST BE FRIENDS' IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT USED TO BE INTIMATE. FLAMES WILL AWAKEN AGAIN. DONT BE FOOLED.

I'll keep in telephonic contact but would not want to meet them, just in case all those old memories come streaming back.

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Not advisable to, but if there is no Bf in sight then maybe for the winter months never know when you'll need a winter warmer ----**just friends** yeah riteeee