Having Babies At Late Thirties

Ladies/women seems to stay longer this days before getting marry or before having babies due to career

but one thing i would like to chip in this topic is the earlier u have your babies the better.


What advice can you give those who are too career conscious despite thefact fact their fiancee or husband are ready for family or those who are thirties and are finding it difficult to get pregnant.

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More like it. Thanks 

@katherinae
exactly,cause  there are lots of complications for an older lady,cases like fibrod.

o busta sweety there are

once u hit 35 the chances are 1 to 365 of having a child with down syndrome, see unlike men we ladies have already made all our eggs before we are born, and we loose one every month, so see how God decided to do it is, we loose the good ones before the bad ones, because he expects us to have children as early as we can, so the older we get the worse our eggs are, u konw the ones wiht incomplete chromosomes and so forth.  its kind of like cancer, have u noticed that humans are living longer, well because hte style of life is gettin gbetter, BUT more humans are being diagnosed with cancer, because the longer we live on this planet the more our cells accumulate mutations, wwhich will eventually lead to caner aka LiFraumeni Syndrome (when u have the time dear look it up).  so the older hte we get the higher our chances are of developing cancer, breast ovarian, prostate, brain tumors, CLL and so forth .

so dear yes its quite necessary to have kids earlier, plus its easier to loose the weight and looks hot after .

well jammin

most women want a husband not a baby daddy.  its very expensive to take care of a kid in the US so most women would rather wait and find a suitable suitor than, have one at 25 and not be able to raise him properly. trust me women know the risks but the y still do it BUT GYUESS WHAT, men have problems too, the older the get the more crooked their sperm is, (IN LAY MAN TERMS).  so it goes both ways, a man who plays around and gets married at 40 and delivers a child with prader willi syndrome not so good.

Every one should have their baby when they are ready to have one and not sooner.
Nothing as bad as an unwanted baby.

I have a very distorted view of women who abandon the home. I sincerely believe that a lot of what is happening in this world of ours is as a result of women abandoning the home. Why is it that women think that they should compete with men? usually after acquiring their "proffessional status", those women end up in unhappy relationships and also find out that most of the men in their social sphere are not really men at all. Over and over this has proven to be the case. what do they do? end up having relationships with guys who see them as money machines to be milked, while they dote on the cheating bastard.

It is entirely possible to have children early and still find a balance with work and having a happy home with someone you love. but the woman will have to commit to struggle with a young guy through his follies, and most women can't deal with that. Most of these women think money first, and all will follow after, but it never works like that.

If a woman find a guy she loves even when in the middle of her studies, take the plunge, don't wait, an opportunity missed is an opportunity lost.
So don't start to mope when you are now a mature woman and cannot find someone, becaused you wasted those precious years feathering your bed for later years.

Ask any woman. nothing beats the sound of laughter in a house with children. Nothing is as rewarding as nurturing a child, knowing that human being depend on you and trust you wholeheartedly. NOTHING!!! money can never compete. so why do women still believe it something to be put off till they find it convenient? i will never know nor understand.

jammin

the world is changing and so does the womans roles in life.  more and more women will leave their homes, hte same way more and mroe men will claim to become gay.  what the heck do u want them to do, wiht all the gay guys jumping out of cupboards, drawers nad wastebaskets to declare their choice in a significant other.  u don't honestly expect women who are extremely smart to sit back and babsit kids, tha tis an insult to their genes u know.  plus now more women are marrying guys who are younger than them, so like i said things will definately change.

there is a truth to what u said, the longer women wait the harder it is to find a man, because most of ht egood ones are gone by then and now they have to wait till he gets divorced.   we can't really control these things, and with all the gay men living with other men,  the women have no choice but to go out there and work and put off mother hood for a while. anyway like i said its a double sided sword,  just as long as u jammin do what right and not sleep with a millino women and have a million children, u know what i mean, marry one and be faithful to her, then u woul dhave done your part well on this planet of earth, and set a good example for other men as welll.

jerrymania

are u jamaican or nigerian

 

Having children while still at the heights of her productive years is the best way to go for any woman.
Hi Radiant. have been reading your postings. A feisty girl you are

@radiant how did you know?

u seen 40yr old virgin?

@desiree,i agree with u.nice tips