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ndumart
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #64 on: November 29, 2007, 03:40 PM »

I can do a lot but won't wash her undies. I would rather buy her new ones.(She will go to the market herself,  imagine me pricing ladies undies)
ndubest (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #65 on: November 29, 2007, 04:21 PM »

, what you can do and what you cannot do
it depends on your value system and your partner should know that early enough in the relationship to avoid it causing a problem later
for me
I cannot go and buy food when i take a lady out in fast food joint
I will provide the money and other needed means to get there,
but standing on the queue in MR BIGGS??
no way
Zandra1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #66 on: November 29, 2007, 10:36 PM »

After reading some of the replies here I bless God the more for the kind of man I have  Kiss Kiss Kiss. I never knew some men find it hard to buy undies for their women or to wash them etc. Well, to each his own. My man does more than what some of y'all guys say u wouldn't do for ur girls and we still respect and love each other a lot. He doesnt even let me do the laundry and we've been together for almost 2 years. Anywhoo, thats a story for another day.

People, if u really want to enjoy a healthy, nurturing and sweet r/ship u have to let go of certain issues/ego.
ifyalways (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #67 on: November 30, 2007, 12:35 AM »

arent i lucky? Grin Grin ;damn am so lucky.
my guy washes my undies without me asking.
he opens and holds doors for me. car inclusive
he buys my undies for me.
takes me out and do place the order.
feeds me .
ooooooooooooooooooooooh its so endless. Kiss Kiss Kiss

as for those ones wey dey come claim here,i can't do it ,i can't do it ,na them be the original mugus.them dey wash  plates down below inclusive,na them dey wash pants pass.hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
davidylan (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #68 on: November 30, 2007, 12:38 AM »

there is a big difference here that a lot of people are glossing over.

It is one thing for a guy to bend down and use his hands to scrub his woman's undies . . . it is another thing to dump them in a washing machine. Both of them are not doing the same thing.  Grin

If most naija guys had washing machines and dryers, they'D also claim to wash their girlfriend's undies too.
ifyalways (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #69 on: November 30, 2007, 12:43 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on November 30, 2007, 12:38 AM
there is a big difference here that a lot of people are glossing over.

It is one thing for a guy to bend down and use his hands to scrub his woman's undies . . . it is another thing to dump them in a washing machine. Both of them are not doing the same thing. Grin

If most naija guys had washing machines and dryers, they'D also claim to wash their girlfriend's undies too.
yeah .i quite agree with you though i don't think its a crime for a guy that uses washing machine for his undies to use same for mine.some guys here are simply insisting that they can't JUST touch the undies BUT they would galdly eat from what comes from the undies.what an irony  Undecided
Zandra1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #70 on: November 30, 2007, 01:32 AM »

My fiance has washed my undies with hands a couple of times before. He does my laundry with my undies included but with washing machine though. He

does a great deal for me. I know some guys on here will be shocked that a Nigerian guy does such things for a lady but he does those and many more.

Gotta cherish a guy like that forever Kiss Kiss Kiss so once again I thank u Lord Kiss Kiss Kiss.
davidylan (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #71 on: November 30, 2007, 01:37 AM »

Zandra, God really granted you a miracle. Hold it tite.

Quote from: ifyalways on November 30, 2007, 12:43 AM
yeah .i quite agree with you though i don't think its a crime for a guy that uses washing machine for his undies to use same for mine.some guys here are simply insisting that they can't JUST touch the undies BUT they would galdly eat from what comes from the undies.what an irony Undecided

most of the guys who say this are just making noise, they don't really mean it. So if they get married they can't help their wives fetch her clean undies?  Shocked
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #72 on: November 30, 2007, 01:41 AM »

how many siblings does your boyfriend have, Zandra?  Tongue
Zandra1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #73 on: November 30, 2007, 01:44 AM »

@ david, He gave me an angel in human form but am also an angel in human form so we mesh well together Grin Grin.  I feel bad when I see some girls bemoan their predicaments about the guys in their lives.
Zandra1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #74 on: November 30, 2007, 01:47 AM »

@ de-reloaded, He has 6 and he's among the youngest. Y do u ask Grin Grin Grin?
davidylan (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #75 on: November 30, 2007, 02:00 AM »

Quote from: Zandra1 on November 30, 2007, 01:44 AM
@ david, He gave me an angel in human form but am also an angel in human form so we mesh well together Grin Grin. I feel bad when I see some girls bemoan their predicaments about the guys in their lives.

just call us to eat rice when that day arrives.  Cool
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #76 on: November 30, 2007, 02:09 AM »

amala!
Zandra1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #77 on: November 30, 2007, 02:17 AM »

Hahahahaha Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy. No Problemo y'all. Am going to mail the food to u guys.
swiftycool (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #78 on: November 30, 2007, 10:43 AM »

Quote from: Zandra1 on November 30, 2007, 02:17 AM
Hahahahaha Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy. No Problemo y'all. Am going to mail the food to u guys.

Please text me meat, i prefer breaded chicken, extra crispy  Grin
my number is , don't worry, ill send it

Quote from: ifyalways on November 30, 2007, 12:35 AM
arent i lucky? Grin Grin ;damn am so lucky.
my guy washes my undies without me asking.
he opens and holds doors for me. car inclusive
he buys my undies for me.
takes me out and do place the order.
feeds me .
ooooooooooooooooooooooh its so endless. Kiss Kiss Kiss

as for those ones wey dey come claim here,i can't do it ,i can't do it ,na them be the original mugus.them dey wash plates down below inclusive,na them dey wash pants pass.hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Ive washed undies, cooked, slaved and all shit for girls in my past, and i just ended up being the undervalued Bobo nice and love shacked guy you can always come back to after you finish fuckin up outside. and guess what i ended up a boring wussie nice guy.

Now that i demand king treatment and don't care, i seem to have gotten my love and respect back from many more chicks.
For real its like most girls prefer a Bad ass, over bearing, uncarig guy to a wussie, in the end. and u all  know it
So for me Never again!
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #79 on: November 30, 2007, 03:00 PM »

so because one ho did you wrong, that means all women like assholes?

Grow up then come back later.
swiftycool (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #80 on: December 20, 2007, 10:45 AM »

Quote from: D-reloaded on November 30, 2007, 03:00 PM
so because one ho did you wrong, that means all women like assholes?


Sorry bout how u might take this but Yeah, most of em are!
AND MIND U, IT WAS NOT JUST ONE HO!

Quote from: D-reloaded on November 30, 2007, 03:00 PM
Grow up then come back later.

i guess thats why most ya keep going for your dads mates, last time i checked i was old enough, possibly not for cargoes like u though  Tongue
Adesuwa_1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #81 on: July 22, 2008, 08:01 PM »

What is the difference? if u can lick or suck ur wife,babe why can't u wash her undies? Guys be realistic!!!!!!!!!!
HCH3COO
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #82 on: July 22, 2008, 08:08 PM »

Quote from: Adesuwa_1 on July 22, 2008, 08:01 PM
What is the difference? if u can lick or suck your wife,babe why can't u wash her undies? Guys be realistic!!!!!!!!!!

necroposting
rancetech (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #83 on: July 23, 2008, 06:31 PM »

I can do anything for my girl cause I love her and she loves me too. That's just it, if you love her enough, then there is nothing in the world you wouldn't do for her and that of course if she loves u too.
FUCK-NL (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #84 on: July 23, 2008, 06:36 PM »

Quote from: Adesuwa_1 on July 22, 2008, 08:01 PM
What is the difference? if u can lick or suck your wife,babe why can't u wash her undies? Guys be realistic!!!!!!!!!!

does ur boyfriend or husband wash ur undies?! Grin
steaming (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #85 on: July 24, 2008, 10:10 AM »

My Boyfriend is the sweetest ever.

Though he has never washed my undies because there are some habituals i have to do before i wash them and personally, i prefer washing them myself, He helps me wash and iron my clothes because i don't like washing or ironing. I oonly love ironing when the dress is still new.

I really can't start mentioning all that he does but he is really very patient and does some stuff that blow my mind. Most times, denying himself of some things just to be sure i am happy.

Unlike what most people said, these things have made me respect him even more. Sometimes, i don't mention it to people because there's possibility of misunderstanding.

Above all, my Boyfriend is just too much.  I am just so so blessed.

Adesuwa_1 (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #86 on: July 24, 2008, 11:00 AM »

mess-NL,  YES MY BOYFRIEND DOES WHEN THE NEED ARISES, THERE IS NO HARM IN IT. ITS ANOTHER WAY OF EXPRESSING UR LOVE TO HER AS WELL.
kalmebad (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #87 on: July 24, 2008, 11:33 AM »

We marry for Love, we live by Love and we  hope that Love keep us together forever
Some men here are just exhbiting their african mentality , anyway the reason why there is no Love, and if there is, it only exist in the heart of few.

Doing anytin for ur wife not girlfriend here as we speak off is no big deal where love reign
But when she sees it as your obiligation is where it wont go down well
But doing things once in a while, watever be it, for me is only mark of love

I can do all things for him through  God who strengtens me
lonelypal (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #88 on: July 24, 2008, 11:52 AM »

Quote from: kalmebad on July 24, 2008, 11:33 AM
We marry for Love, we live by Love and we hope that Love keep us together forever
Some men here are just exhbiting their african mentality , anyway the reason why there is no Love, and if there is, it only exist in the heart of few.Doing anytin for your wife not girlfriend here as we speak off is no big deal where love reign
But when she sees it as your obiligation is where it wont go down well
But doing things once in a while, watever be it, for me is only mark of love

I can do all things for him through God who strengtens me

Thats what makes us African, besides whites do not ridicule themelves either to do a lady's job in the house all in the name of love, this they do only when the need arise Cheesy

tulk2mi
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #89 on: July 30, 2008, 11:40 AM »

The problem with most guys in the house is that they share roles, it has been drummed in their heads that if they do things that r considered to be exclusively left 4 d woman that it makes them less of a man. but is that true? because i know some men who hv done some of these things 4 their wives n u can't kul them wussies. 4 real

Somebody even said that even if u had to wash undies 4 ur wife that it will b inside d house. True that but what if it is outside? NOBODY SETS STANDARDS for you. if u can't do it fine but don't carry that luggage to me, that na d way i dey live my life with my wife nuthing concern u.

But if u think say i no b man because of that den tell me d things wey man dey do wey i no fit do.

OH I HEAR U. na u dey provide 4 d family, u dey go work n all that bullshit? i ask again ur wife no get job? or she no dey contribute financially? that na woman work? then why u dey complain when she take u do money bag.

But one thing with women b say when u begin do these things 4 them, them go begin take am 4 granted that is y most men don't want to do these things.

BIENG A MAN is not about bossing ur wife in d house, its about responsiblity, respect, protection, love, sharing, caring infact i don tire continue from here Grin Cheesy Smiley
shylladear (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #90 on: July 30, 2008, 11:47 AM »

@poster

since you can't do that for your girl then i trust she can't do likewise for you  Angry
just like busta said
Chat2MeBac (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #91 on: July 30, 2008, 11:53 AM »

@topic
Idiocy at its highest degress.First off, what is so detestable about washing your wife's/girl's undies?  You pull them off to shag her, yet you wont wash them. Is this a cultural thing, not to?  Me think its silly.  Most y'all me don't think before dipping your labias into diseased holes, but you will come here and cry foul about washing her undies. Think for a second, where you would rather the germ( it any) end up? Your intestines or your hands???

I ONLY date real men, And while I do not at all expect them to wash any of my personal effects, because I WON'T be doing theirs either, I am sure if I am sick or something they will do my undies and bras if I ask them too. NOT because they are whimps or silly, but because he is an epitome Of a MAN,
stereo2 (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #92 on: July 31, 2008, 11:08 AM »

The truth is opening door for a girl, pulling chairs for her and all that doesn't make you less of who you are in front of a girl.As for me, i can't imagine myself washing her undies,being her moneybag, its all bullshit. i think the other one is sucking her pussy like some idiots do. I will propbably do that only when we 've married
texazzpete (m)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #93 on: August 05, 2008, 05:44 PM »

lol
ula (f)
Re: Things I Can't Do For My Girl
« #94 on: August 06, 2008, 10:41 AM »

what you feel for your girl determines what youll do for her. bros, it all has to do with what you feel. it has no boundaries or barriers, so when your head still decides, you are not feeling her
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