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jjc4yankee

Need Some Serious Advice Here: Please:

« on: August 03, 2009, 01:57 AM »

Hello Nairalanders,

I'm having problems with women, I have a serious relationship however we're having problems @ this time, Let me start by this, I'm Young, I'm rich, I live in a good house, I drive a very luxurious car and I always have females friends coz I'm NOT a slacker, I don't dull, Especially LAGOS babes, they're all over me.

I love this girl so much and would do anything to keep her, I'm a secondary school graduate and I just graduated last year. I'm not yet in my 20's, however I inherited my late father's properties and money since I'm the ONLY son amongst several girls. I don't let the money get to my head, i'm very friendly and lively, thats why most girls really like me and its to the extent that my best friend is a girl, HER FRIEND. I understand she doesn't completely trust me, but i've proven it to her that I really love her.

The major problem I have is trust, i don't trust her, she doesn't trust me, Everytime we quarrell, she either goes back to her ex-boyfriend who she has had a relationship for years and his family and hers are quite familiar, However, she made it clear to me that she doesn't love him but would rather be secured, She keeps complaining about my education saying this and that, im gonna be in uni this year by oct but still she doubts coz i keep telling her the same, presently, im managing what i have to make sure it doesn't depreciate as i am very business minded so far so good, i've managed well, I have other girls that are FRIENDS but about 3 of them, ive had sex with them BUT no strings attached so there is no commitment, What do i do? SHOULD I LEAVE HER AND LOOK FOR A BETTER UNDERSTANDING GIRL who'll love me and understand me? OR DO I KEEP BEING STANGNANT WITH THIS GIRL I REALLY LOVE??? I'm very confused and would appreciate advises, When we make love, its always like the first time as we've had lots and lots as i'm quite sure its well over 200 times, what do i do? [/size]