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Vuitton (m)
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Good luck all :)
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peter o.d
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Their is no big problem abt this.constant communication and having trust in one's partner is what can make it work out.i'm presently in a such relationship.
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Pataki
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Personally for me, I see it as good.
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Enockia (m)
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it is very good
as a matter of fact
i think it should be addopted
as a way of fighting pre-marital sex
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Druss (m)
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hopefully we can stand through this , just about to enter one ,
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Enockia (m)
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good luck o carry go
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imrandbest (m)
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khaira one thing I know that breaks relationship you've keeping for long most often is the old enemy called "distance". but never mind of what might have happened, see it as a TV movie and a seasonal thing. It comes and goes. do not blame anybody, but here is the question I personally have to ask you. Have you ever found out if you are compatible or not? If not try to find that out, Pray and visualize it that you are having him back in your life, with God Almighty all things are possible. Yes! Try it out, if it doesn't work just mail me. imran0508@yahoo.com |
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Hairat007 (f)
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khaira one thing I know that breaks relationship you've keeping for long most often is the old enemy called "distance". but never mind of what might have happened, see it as a TV movie and a seasonal thing. It comes and goes. do not blame anybody, but here is the question I personally have to ask you. Have you ever found out if you are compatible or not? If not try to find that out, Pray and visualize it that you are having him back in your life, with God Almighty all things are possible. Yes! Try it out, if it doesn't work just mail me. imran0508@yahoo.comTanx so much i am so greatful 4 wat u hv written. 2 answer your question, YES we re compatible. its just dat he is always a very busy person and it has made him so uncaring. But every other tin is fine. it wld hv been easier if we were in d same city lol.  |
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Hairat007 (f)
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 :-x 
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Vuitton (m)
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^^^^^^^ Why the stark change in demeanor Hairat007 
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Hairat007 (f)
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^^^^^^^ Why the stark change in demeanor Hairat007 Guy i dnt understand "change in demeanor" wat were u expectin? dat despite d wonderful advice i got from my beloved nairalanders, i shld wake up one day and tel dem all, dat i cld not hold onto d relationship and i am letting go? pls make me understand Mr Vuitton |
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Yumi (f)
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Whilst I love the dream that love can overcome anything we have to be realistic. You have to try and see each other very couple of months for it to really work out. Longer than that and it becomes a bit unrealistic as we are all human and prone to weakness. I would say that on occasion you may go for longer like four months however that should be a one off situation. Otherwise let each other go and don't bother as you are only going to be lied to and cheated on especially if he is not a good guy. I also think if you want to really do it you should plan to be together physically as soon as possible. Within a couple of years you should tie the knot and move in together otherwise you end up in a abnormal situation and it becomes the norm when it shouldn't.
You have to be really committed and really love the person. If its difficult to visit if finances are too tight to visit often, it may be in your interests to get a part time job on weekends maybe and help pay towards a ticket and trip so that you use your time constructively and in a way that builds your relationship even when you are separated.
The reality is most men and women are not strong enough to handle this situation in the long term. Unless maybe they live with their parents or are restricted in some way shape or form that helps stabilise them and they perhaps have a good support system and companionship from family members or something that all know about you. A lot of people cheat then pretend they love their partners and that everything is normal. Instead of cheating they should be planning to spend more time together planning ways of spoiling their lover etc. putting the energy into the right places. Anyway I hope it works out and you have a good guy, if he is good it can work out.
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FierceDiva
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I am presently in the United States and my man is in Nigeria. its difficult to have a long distance relationship, yes, but it is not impossible. we communicate by phone and email. we love ourselves enough to wait till we see each other. the only factor that can withstand a long distance relationship is love. its good if the man or woman is worth it, if they are not, what are you waiting for?
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Vuitton (m)
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Love makes the difference  |
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Hairat007 (f)
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AFTER TWO MONTHS, D STORY HAS CHANGED. TANX 2 U GUYS. I AM GLAD I POPPED UP DIS TOPIC WEN I DID, LITTLE DID I KNOW your RESPONSES WLD HELP ME IN FORGETTING DIS HEARTLESS CREATURE I FELL IN LOVE WITH. WE'VE GONE OUR SEPARATE WAYS AND I DID NOT GRIEVE OVER HIM COS HE IS ACTUALLY NOT WORTH IT. NOW I HAVE JOINED D CLUB OF THOSE WHO TINKS LOVE IS JUST A MERE FANTASY. IT'S NOT WORTH D PAIN lol  |
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chika98
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The transition to not believing in love was very quick. Are you sure you were in love to begin with?
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shakara4u (m)
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For thoz of u that are stiil not convinced,jst stuck it in your head 90% of distant relationships dnt wrk,so jst save your slf the strees!!!!
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FL Gators
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The transition to not believing in love was very quick. Are you sure you were in love to begin with?
Thank you. Infatuation, I think |
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No2Atheism (m)
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Thank you.
Infatuation, I think
Heya the little baby girl is growing up fast . . .  Pele . . . teenage years can be bitch at times . . . you then tend to ask yourself why and how the heck was I infatutated in the first place. |
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FL Gators
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Yes, teenager years were bitches but I didnt know what love is back then  |
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