Long Distance Relationships Good Or Bad

have you not been in love with  a guy without seeing each other, distance is not an obstacle compare to luv,  cheers

 

@ Ibile Ife

Dere is on doubt dat i truly luv my guy, as a matter of fact he came 2 see me just 2 weeks ago.

d problem however, is d moment he gets back 2 lag, he rarely calls, not 2 talk of send anything.

But i knw he luvs me too. he is just not caring cause all dese little things dat matters, means nothing

2 him. I am truly happy 4 u and i knw u will continue caring 4 her cause its now a part of u.

Tanx and good luck.  lol

u r just funny 

Me i love distance relationship.Distance is nvr a problem to me and i dont think it will be as long as the love for her is there.

@ Ibile Ife, i dey envy you.
     This Long Distance relationship is not an easy thing. I am into one and it is not funny, you spend money on Airtime esp if your partner is not in Nigeria. You can't see him when you desire. in fact a lot of things are involve, the point is that some ppl did not enter into it intially, it just happened, the other had to go far and you either try to make it work based on the level of love b/w the two of you and also prayer is involve too or you forget the person.

It is not easy oooooo, talking from experience.   

@ Vuitton, i have not . You will be surprise @ the number of guys that want UGLY BETTY, upon her ugliness. What they want is not the ugliness, but, They don't look at my face when am talking to them instead they focus from my neck( Am better from there) 

@ Vuitton,are you satisfied. i will paste my pictures soon

@poster

the truth my dear is ,distance relationships as its name implies gives room for distance worries,skepticism heart ache devoid of romance. So, advice yourself.

@Vuitton, let me keep you is suspense. I don't want to unveil my self. I don't want NL to have night mares after viewing my picture.

Once more guys, tanx 4 your timely contribution. U all re DARLINGS

it sure can work, where ther's a will, ther's a way,

love they say conquers all. love is a feeling that goes deep and is discovered when you least expect it. love is what people feel miserable for and wish they could live another life. love is what people do to keep their mind off things. love is a feeling of security and belongingness, so how can you ask if love, of whichever distance, can work. it really does not matter if you fall in love with someone that miles away from you because most times it comes unconsciously and you have no other choice than to deal with and live with the best you can.the journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step, it is that first step you take towards love that determines how it will all end up; marriage or heartbreak. loving someone that is far away from you is just the same as loving someone that is next door, there are times that your next door lover is the Casanova and you couldn't even detect when it is done right under your nose. a typical example is a friend of mine that was in a relationship with a girl and they live on the same street, he got to her house one day and saw her in bed with another guy that is suppose to be his cousin. can you beat that?
A long distance relationship has it's own disadvantages we all know but this disadvantages comes up and becomes a problem when you deal with it wrongly and in the wrong steps. all relationships have shortcomings be it long distance or short, the only thing is the commitment, the trust, the communication, the honesty and above all an unchanging love that is from the heart. most people will say long-distance love is just a facade for both parties to be unfaithful, some may say it ends up with both partners hating each other more but i quite disagree with all these assertions. with a long distance relationship you see the true beauty of love and the sanctity of being in a honest relationship. you look forward to seeing your partner, you dream of the good times you share, you lay on your bed and fantasize and you feel miserable and have a long distance call in the middle of the night, you have phone sex if you feel honey. you try to make things perfect for your partner when you eventually see him/her. you try and make things work through both efforts and you make things as beautiful as having him/her near. a long distance relationship opens the eyes of those involved to the pains and gains of commitment and devotion. all long distance love should be given a chance to grow and not condemned.

I dont encourage long distance relationship, unless you like travelling everyweek as I do to visit my wife.

its hell believe me!!!!
i kno wetin i dey suffer for now

@vuitton u be very correct guy,to real . i de feel u oo as par this long distance matter

It depends on your kind of person
For me i enjoyed it for almost 4 years

but i like it the most, at least seeing her 4 - 5 times in a year
though i have to spend money on credit calling her at least 3 times a day.
to make her feel my presence all the while, and it increases the level of our love.
though she cheated, but all the same we loved each other, and always hungry to share our love,
it will keep you moving. i find it interesting, since u can hold and control urself.

Its the same nation but not the same state, so whats the big deal.
after the break-up am looking for another inter-state relationship. 

I will say that it all depends on love and what you really want from the relationship.I will not involve myself in a long distance relationship just for bf/gf thing,it must be something more concrete.
My present relationship started as a long distance one and we both worked hard to keep it becos of the love.I could remember travelling with night bus on a Friday and a night bus on a Sunday so I can get to work on Monday morning,it was not easy!
She is currently doing her NYSC and I have gone severally and she has come severally.Its a two way thing and the love must be their.It must be a person you cherish and can die for.
So my dear,if he is worth it,do it but if not, do not waste your time because the heart break could be very painfull!