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lilian (f)
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Please i need your help. even though i have not seen the husband. Am still searching any intrested should inform me.
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larger_20 (m)
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I don't know ..good luck  As for the kids.....make sure they go to church on sundays....also make sure your husband goes to church with u....
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Renike (f)
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wow..am loving that..planing ahead... well, got one advice for ya... just be d best wife and mother u can be.. when the time comes, u would definitely know what it approriate and how to handle things.
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prettyH (f)
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lilian hi, Not married my self but i guess women are good at multitasking so don't think that'll be a problem when u get married. but u would have to get married first and have kids to know how to handle the home.
My opinion
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Scorpio (f)
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why are you worried now since you say you haven't gotten a husband yet? 
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mamba (m)
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hi lilian, it's real nice of you planning ahead before settling down, some might not know the benefits, but i know from experience that people who plan ahead are always more successful in whatever they do. i'll advise you go to a library or search net for books/materials on keeping a happy home.. the key to this is respect, understanding & sexual satisfaction for the man, and care & love for the kids
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Swish (m)
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First get married then be faithful to God. (of course faithful even before marriage)
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pretysmile (f)
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You knw what?You need to fear the lord before anything because d bible says d fear of the lord is the beginnin of wisdom.I believe through him, all things r possible.So not too worry,it is well.God will surely lead u n i believe your parents will also tell u what to do as a young wife.
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icingbaby (f)
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just be a good helper for your husband, and care for your family lovingly. that all i know.
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ed (m)
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Letter to the Corinthians:
Husbands love your wives and wives respect your husbands.
I noticed the difference " love " for the wife and " respect " for the husband. Very important difference, very important teaching.
A woman needs love, a man needs respect, primarily. Neither can 'blossom' without.
So respect your husband and you will live with a happy man. Note: respecting a man is not necessarily easy for a woman; this has to do with their different 'make-up'. Loving a woman doesn't seem to be that easy for a man either. The clue for men is: whatsoever you would that men should do to you, do you even so to them. So, do for your wife what you would like her to do for you and you will live with a happy wife.
The other key to marital happiness: forgiveness.
All this is included in being faithful to the Lord and fearing the Lord as pretysmile and Swish have stated. Without all this it is going to be a difficult task.
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immanuella (f)
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This has got to be the funniest topic!!! You want people u don't know to give u advice on how to run your home? Thats scary!!
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omogenaija (f)
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girl taking care comes natural when u are ready to to get married and have kids. if u have doubts or u arent sure take your time . i wish u the best. my only advice is for u to pray. adura lo le se 
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