How Do Husband & Wife Cope During Trials,and Downs In Marriage

because in marriage bad times occurs  sometimes ,how do husband react to this situation, i mean how do they cope with the stress, and how do wife manage in return,and tell us what happen next after breakthrough   cheers,

There will be trials.but its takes endurance and the marriage as to be built on Jesus Christ as the foundation.so there can be the fear of God.because where there is the fear of God understanding comes.in marriage as a Manchester United have to learn to listen more than talk more.because when u listen u digest then u say what u want to say,but if u are quick to react,then problems will always arise.tolorance also.as a Manchester United are not surppose to react to everything ur wife says.and wifes learn to tame ur tongue because the bible says he who tames his tongue keeps his life.show love even when she is wrong.men we have to learn to bend and stop that men thing as the head of the house treating our wifes as slaves.they are the weaker vessel so the bible says.Husbands and wife cope with ups and downs in marriages trusting in God.and calling on the great teacher the Holy Spirit to come teach them how to make it work.because we should learn to trust in the lord leaning not on our own understanding.Amen.

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@Chelsea4su.

Thats crazy.why must a man be aggressive towards his loving wife?the wife should try to study his behavior to know whats causing or prompting the aggression.u know if he used to be loving and caring and suddenly become a bully.i think there is a problem in their communication link.Thats why as a man not everything a woman does u have to react to.women will still be women with their mouth and always bluffing.its unwise for man to transfer his stress on his wife.no.i think is wrong and women too should study their husband to the extent they should be able to notice every little change.because some women are not wifes,their is check out the latest fashion.latest hair style and become an occasion lady.neglecting the feelings and communication bridge between her and her husband

You have to talk to each other before you get too annoyed. If you wait until you are really upset or have been angry about something for weeks it is very hard to resolve the problem. If you talk about problems when they are still small then life is a lot easier.

Well, i aint married (yet), but i'll definately like to know about d experience from someone who is 

What is required is Patience,endurance and understanding. You should both should be strong to tackle the situation. If there is understanding i bet you will have a happy end.