Please Help - I Love Her But She's In A Relationship

No insults,  So don't take this as one! What on earth r u doin being 'in love' with someone in a stable rel,  That fact alone should av been enough to tell u to back off. At times like dis i wonder where stuff like integrity av gone to. A guy like u wld most probably 'fall in love' wit a married woman. My guy, wat do u do?,  Its simple,  Back off! Let ha concentrate all ha time and strength on who she's wit now but if things don't  work out fine. Abeg stop puttin any undue pressure on d poor girl! At least, put urself in d shoes of d current boyfriend! Integrity my friend, is worth a lot more dan desires, moni and many other things ,  Naija will be a beta country if we all lived like dat. No insults, right?! Just my own expression of truth!

Hello,
  t was nice bkos u said no insult bos gus in here sometimes dont give striaght answers instead they nagg alot.Well my advice for you is to understand and let her continue her relationship.Dont think much about her anymore nd dont lways cntacther as b4.Reduce your feelings by thinking that she is your sister man.Is easy to reduce this feelings.ok

is she gat someone else then let her be.

Hey "Busta"

Thanks for your concern really do appreciate it
I actually needed help from a lady
But there something u should know about this
Please contact me if u can. I seriously need help
Email: flowman47@yahoo.com
Tel: 2348026992470

The Name Is Jude

hey, there are over 10000000000000 girls out there that are NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP!!! why did it have to be the one in a relationship that you picked??? make better choices, man!

 just move on and let her be.

Hmmm

okay, this is my chip.

first of all, is this feeling mutual between the two of u ? u already answered so we are left with the girl's end.

now if this girl feels the same way about you like u feel about her, believe me, there's no way she's going to marry the other guy - unless u mess up somewhere/somehow.
you should be concerned about her happiness. if she's in another relationship and harboring serious feelings for you, then there's something wrong.
the only thing i really think you should do is marry her.
if she really loves u, she'd marry you.
u don't expect her to leave her current relationship and come hang out with u for another one or two years while u decide if u can go through with it or not. that'd be like leaving a Shell job for bar- tending !

@all my brothers and sisters in here,
if "Relationship" means a babe and a dude seeing each other, then i think many of us broke relationships to get a babe.
why??
1. how many of us got a virgin babe or a first - time guy ?
2. how did his/her previous relationship end ?
3. can you vouch for what he/she told you over question 2 above ?
4. r u sure he/she ain't seeing someone else ?

i'm just trying to be reasonable cos these things happen; many of u will agree with me.

think about it.

cheers.

close your mouth 

@topic


Thank God for your life. This girl in question really love u but not in that romantic aspect. If not she would have been toying with your heart until u run psychological. She had made it clear to u that her romantic affair is with his guy and not u.

What u dont know is that there is a girl out there looking for u, she's beautiful, sexy, pretty and your i deal lady. She is looking for u. Cool down cos u re about to meet her. Let this girl in question go so u ca meet your angel.

My advice is that girl are like weather, if shes your she wil come looking for u, if not wait for your own angel.

U re welcome. what re friends for?

Dang! You fell in fall out as well

donno wot 2 say

@Flowman

Move on, don't wait for her. candid advise for you, if she cam back to you, you'll be nothing but second best, otherwise why is she not with you now? Move on

Thanks guys u've all been great

Oh! my God she's here . . . . . . . .