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nelson1 (m)
My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« on: November 19, 2006, 12:56 AM »

Hello out there,
Pls help me to dissolve this question it was ask by a
friend of mine who live at london, for me to help her
out but I need more knowledge to compare it and finalized
it before giving her my own advice coz I know that I have
at Nairaland who are  proffessionals in LOVE and friendship stuff
and aslo those with Doctoriate degree in this thing called LOVE
AND ROMANCE, RELATIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP so help by giving me your
own option,
thanks and it goes like this,




I'm 17 and my boyfriend asked me when we got together if I thought I was ready for sex. I said no, because I wasn't then. The more I think about it, the more I think he's the one that I want to experience this with. My problem is, how do I know for sure? And if I truly think that I am ready, how do I let him know? I'm not one to make the first move when it comes to these things, and he respects me enough to know that I'm not ready so he won't go that far. But now I am ready and I want him to go that far. HELP!!

from a friend of my
Nogzi
candylips (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #1 on: November 19, 2006, 01:27 AM »

just do it . if you really want to do it with him. If he messes up at the end of the day . well sorry its part of life .

rb (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #2 on: November 19, 2006, 01:29 AM »

Since you felt it's time to go that far kindly hook up with the guy and let him know what'z up i mean tell him the KoKo i bet that will be the best thing wey go happen to the guy this year.

LOL
Busta (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #3 on: November 19, 2006, 01:45 AM »

let him know that u're ready.


moreover, all this your posts is really making me to wonder if-------
nelson1 (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #4 on: November 19, 2006, 02:04 AM »

Hello out there this
question is not through
but it is just a promble my friends
have then will their as me,
I will direct it to friends at nairaland cos their
are great friends.

So all this question is from my friends not
me sometime I use to write their name
at the end of the question
choco4life (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #5 on: November 19, 2006, 02:47 AM »

sex?HuhHuhHuhHuhHuhHuhHuhHuhHuh??
why dont u wait?
the consequences may be more damming.
not trying to scare u though
orekelewaa
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #6 on: November 19, 2006, 10:28 PM »

omo i'd advise u to wait. I know it ain't easy but pls do u're lucky he's askin and has not just slyly seduced u and done it when u were too weak to say no.WAIT!U'll be glad u did.
ima1 (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #7 on: November 19, 2006, 11:26 PM »

@nelson

how many people dey use your account, one person say you be 30 and this one say you are 17. which one you be, and are you gay or straight
dongaga
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #8 on: June 25, 2009, 01:02 PM »

go for it,why wait ;D ;D ;Dits too pleasurable.make him a happy man b4 he gets it outside
IFELEKE (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #9 on: June 25, 2009, 01:46 PM »

Quote from: nelson1 on November 19, 2006, 12:56 AM

I'm 17 and my boyfriend asked me when we got together if I thought I was ready for sex. I said no, because I wasn't then. The more I think about it, the more I think he's the one that I want to experience this with. My problem is, how do I know for sure? And if I truly think that I am ready, how do I let him know? I'm not one to make the first move when it comes to these things, and he respects me enough to know that I'm not ready so he won't go that far. But now I am ready and I want him to go that far. HELP!!

from a friend of my
Nogzi
Under the law, your friend is underaged and shouldn't even be thinking of that for now but things have changed and there is no denying that fact so, tell your teenage friend to think of the consequences before succumbing to peer pressure.
sistawoman
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #10 on: June 25, 2009, 02:01 PM »

Ask your friend if she wants to bear a child now.

One should always remember that the only fool proof way of protecting yourself from unwanted prego is to not have sex at all.

It is not all it is cracked up to be and she should be more focued on her studies and less on sex.
The boy is not presureing her and she should not be worried about it.

I have always told my children that before they lay down with someone be absolutely clear that they are ready to be tied to this person for life, because if you happen to get with belly they will be part of your life forever.
Addtionally they will be the mother or father of your child, be very sure that you want thier genes and family history as part of your childs DNA
frank3.16
Re: My Boyfriend Asked Me When We Got Together If I Thought I Was Ready For Sex.
« #11 on: June 25, 2009, 02:20 PM »

who is this poster?
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