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nelson1 (m)
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Hello out there,
Pls help me to dissolve this question it was ask by a
friend of mine who live at london, for me to help her
out but I need more knowledge to compare it and finalized
it before giving her my own advice coz I know that I have
at Nairaland who are proffessionals in LOVE and friendship stuff
and aslo those with Doctoriate degree in this thing called LOVE
AND ROMANCE, RELATIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP so help by giving me your
own option,
thanks and it goes like this,
I'm in love with and very attracted to this guy, who I can't have right now, for the past year and a half. Since this has happened, I think about sex a lot more but when I masturbate, sometimes there is an orgasm but no resolution. I feel as keyed up and frustrated as ever. The effect is one of deep loneliness and desperation. There is no way to tell beforehand whether the session will end in this way or not, though it's worse when I want him the most. It makes me afraid to even try because it's such a letdown. In some 17 years of masturbation, I've never had this happen before, but now it occurs as often as 80% of the time. I feel like I'm losing my mind. By the way, intercourse with someone else had about the same effect too (if I can come at all), so I quit that. (age 30)
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candylips (m)
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ok so are you in love with the guy an you can have him or is he with someone else
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nelson1 (m)
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thx for that am in love
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bamidele (m)
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love is tough especially with a man
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Busta (f)
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don't get it, U are a guy and in love with a guy?   U are sex starved and need to cum? guy u need to read thru your post and make some corrections cos i don't get it at all, except that u love a guy, u're desperate and lonely and the fact that u need to cum?? |
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choco4life (m)
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Are u gay?
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kimba (m)
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I'm in love with and very attracted to this guy, who I can't have right now, for the past year and a half. Since this has happened, I think about sex a lot more but when I masturbate, sometimes there is an orgasm but no resolution. I feel as keyed up and frustrated as ever. The effect is one of deep loneliness and desperation. There is no way to tell beforehand whether the session will end in this way or not, though it's worse when I want him the most. It makes me afraid to even try because it's such a letdown. In some 17 years of masturbation, I've never had this happen before, but now it occurs as often as 80% of the time. I feel like I'm losing my mind. By the way, intercourse with someone else had about the same effect too (if I can come at all), so I quit that. (age 30)
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In some 17 years of masturbation, I've never had this happen before O boy you try o. 17-years of masturbation. You should look for a wife. If you had been courting a girl for the past 17years, by now she would have said YES. |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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@nelson1 are you a guy or lady? |
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L.O.V.E (f)
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Noo seriously!! R u gay?, u better say wats up now!!
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bamidele (m)
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love heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee are u sure or is it your hormones raging raging on
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harvey (m)
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this is gay shit and i know this udiot bamidele will like such cos he is gay trying to woo a nairaland member who is not gay.
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CrazyMan (m)
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A guy in love with a guy. What's this world turning into  |
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candylips (m)
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the guyor girl don run sef
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Mystique (f)
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Hmmm. Something aint right here,  |
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smartsoft (m)
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you guyz are just saying rubbish, can't u see what he said a friend of, as in the friend is a lady ! |
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Kashif (m)
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I like the confusion brewing here  |
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candylips (m)
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Where is the guy na. make him come clarify him self abeg else this thread is dead meat
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whitelexi (m)
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The guy just needs some leads for his female friend whose problem he has just explained to the house. My problem with this story however, is what the problem is, i.e, is it that she cant cum when she wants as a result of 17yrs of masturbation? or is it that she is now getting old and cannot seem to hit it off with someone else? Pls be more specific so we know where to start from |
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