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icingbaby (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #64 on: November 22, 2005, 01:06 AM »

first of all a gay girl will not come to me and tell me how to be straight, be cause I'm the straightest girl you can ever talk about, and if i choose to give him tips that he can use. that ain't your business.
Renike (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #65 on: November 22, 2005, 01:06 AM »

nobody is making him depressed
just 'because we have different views on things does not mean we are not accepting..
icingbaby (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #66 on: November 22, 2005, 01:10 AM »

thank you
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #67 on: November 22, 2005, 01:13 AM »


okay, so Ms. Renike, i hear you - "homosexuality is a choice" but can you tell me at what point in time "age" people/kids decide change their sexual orientation and explain why/how it happens?

don't even try to tell me some evil spirits tell them to because that's baseless.
let's be logical here.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #68 on: November 22, 2005, 01:19 AM »

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first of all a gay girl will not come to me and tell me how to be straight, be cause I'm the straightest girl you can ever talk about,


oh . .  but you want to be the magician to give the "gayest guy you can ever talk about" tips of how not to be gay?



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and if i choose to give him tips that he can use. that ain't your business.

just as he didn't ask you for poison tips.


icingbaby (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #69 on: November 22, 2005, 01:24 AM »

 who told you is the gayest guy, if he can tell his family he is gay is not the gayest guy. Angry
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #70 on: November 22, 2005, 01:30 AM »

Quote from: icingbaby on November 22, 2005, 01:24 AM
who told you is the gayest guy, if he can tell his family he is gay is not the gayest guy. Angry

he didn't tell his family yet.
read the title. it says "should i tell my family that i'm gay?"

and who told you you're the straightest girl. (i only said "gayest" because you implied that you were the "straightest")
since when did straighness or gayness come in the superlative form?


timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #71 on: November 22, 2005, 09:01 AM »

@WesleyanA  from the way you sound I'm beginning to feel u're on the same side as 'chuck'. Ii just can't imagine someone defending another on an issues like this, maybe its 'because u aint in nigeria probably thats why you see it differently. I'm not trying to make an wave in the post I'm just disgusted at the fact that a guy trips for another guy, yuck!!..

From what i know about nature (not bringing God in to The matter) there's a female to a male of every specie that has separate sexual organs.. a man is supposed to smooch a woman not a man.. i don't know if seun would allow this, but i hope he does..
the only thingy (from my readings) a man get from being gay is that it makes you enjoy your come, because the a$$ is supposed to be kind of tight which you can also get from having anal sex from a lady.. gays claim the get sexually satisfied better with their partners. thats all, so a gay lord mother f#@ker only like the other a$$hole gay because he feel she'll he'll know au to make him climax better..

See WesleyanA  Jesus is coming soon and the devil is picking up stuffs like this to make it hard on all homo's..

I just can see anythingy in it except sex, homosexuality is just built around sex nofing else and you call that normal... gosh!! I'll rather wank my brains out that get my best man to be my bride groom (hiss)
theORAKU (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #72 on: November 22, 2005, 05:54 PM »

I hope this story is just a joke. I pray soo.

Mr Chuck, let the ghel go and please don't tell your peps if u still love them.
Telling any naija family that the first son is gay is sumthng i wont want to imagine. One way or the other they will get 2 know later.
You cud discharge the girl wtout even telling her, cook up sumthng and just LET THE GIRL GOO!!

Thanx.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #73 on: November 23, 2005, 01:21 AM »

timmy,
first of all, i think his name/username's Tdave not Chuck. (it's kind of confusing i know.)

second of all, i know you don't support homosexuality but can we show or give some respect to other humans like us who are?

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the only thingy (from my readings) a man get from being gay is that it makes you enjoy your come, because the a$$ is supposed to be kind of tight which you can also get from having anal sex from a lady.. gays claim the get sexually satisfied better with their partners. thats all, so a gay lord mother f#@ker only like the other a$$hole gay because he feel she'll he'll know au to make him climax better..

well, don't assume stuff about people until you actually know about them because from this your post, i see you know very little about homosexualism. so you just can't start to draw your own hypothesis on it.

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See WesleyanA  Jesus is coming soon and the devil is picking up stuffs like this to make it hard on all homo's..

 you're saying that YOU are going to heaven while Tdave is not?

pearldrops (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #74 on: November 23, 2005, 11:33 AM »


yunk no body's giving a perfect response and advice
hey t.dave holla at me privately l think that'll do the magic
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #75 on: November 23, 2005, 11:52 AM »

@WesleyanA  i know his name is Tdave, chuck is the guy in R.kelly's "trapped in the closet" (remember? the fag Grin). so technically if chuck=gay
                  and tdave=gay
              so there for tdave=chuck
hahahaha aint i funny.. see you guys just make me laugh thats all, well the fact is this.. if u feel u have the right to choose to be gay, well i also have the right to choose to be anti-gay shay?  Tongue

i know you don't support homosexuality but can we show or give some respect to other humans like us who are?
WHAT!! you mean u'r gay too!!!?HuhShocked. damn!! no wonder... okay now i get it.. well u kind a right at sayingi don't know anyfing about u gays guys, AND I DON'T WHAT TO KNOW Angry .. well for the heaven thingy, i keep mute on that..  Grin
pearldrops (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #76 on: November 23, 2005, 12:52 PM »

WesleyanA   are u bi?  if you're hit on me privately
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #77 on: November 23, 2005, 04:09 PM »

HEY!! EVERY BODY RUN FOR COVER GAY INVATION ON NAIRALND..

Too many gay footprints on this thread, wonder who's confessing to be a gay next


* gay-wp3-800.jpg (53.53 KB, 350x263 )
Scorpio (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #78 on: November 23, 2005, 05:25 PM »

oh lawd!
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #79 on: November 23, 2005, 10:09 PM »

Quote from: timmy on November 23, 2005, 11:52 AM
@WesleyanA i know his name is Tdave, chuck is the guy in R.kelly's "trapped in the closet" (remember? the fag Grin). so technically if chuck=gay
 and tdave=gay
 so there for tdave=chuck
hahahaha aint i funny.. see you guys just make me laugh thats all, well the fact is this.. if u feel u have the right to choose to be gay, well i also have the right to choose to be anti-gay shay? Tongue

i know you don't support homosexuality but can we show or give some respect to other humans like us who are?
WHAT!! you mean u'r gay too!!!?Huh? Shocked. damn!! no wonder... okay now i get it.. well u kind a right at sayingi don't know anyfing about u gays guys, AND I DON'T WHAT TO KNOW Angry .. well for the heaven thingy, i keep mute on that.. Grin

gooble,

you have decided to state directly that you're anti-gay. i have questions for you:
so, have you come across one yet?
do you have a phobia for them (like when someone tells you he's gay, you scream and run)
do you discriminate against them (like name-calling, having prejudice against them e.t.c)
do you just hate them

you sound like a pathetic ignoramus in your post but i wouldn't call you one just yet until i'm sure that you are one.


i believe that it is important to show respect to every individual regardless of race,gender, age, culture, sexual orientation, disability or backgroud.

i wouldn't want to count myself among those who decide to play bully on a minority group of people out of boredom.



pearldrops (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #80 on: November 23, 2005, 11:42 PM »


they(gays) are all human so we should treat em as one
not discriminate
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #81 on: November 25, 2005, 02:30 PM »

who should i go for first, pearldrops or wesleyanA?  Undecided okay pearl first..

well gays are humans who have refusd to live like humans.. part of what a living creature human is the ability to reproduce i.e ave sexual intercause with an "opposite" sex to make baby humans.. tell me cana gay do that ? Tongue


@ wesleyana:  my lovely wesleyana, im getting so fond of you now, but hey!! i aint your type (im a man!! Grin)

ques: have you come across one yet?. yes -alot
ques: do you have a phobia for them. no i don't (as regards phobia)
do you discriminate against them: more times but not always
do you just hate them: mmmm, not really like that, but their imagination and claims is what annoys me.. they claim its inside them, yuck


most gays say the feeling is from when they were young, bla bla bla.. men thats a damn lie.. it just evil spirit they need deliverance  Grin
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #82 on: November 25, 2005, 07:48 PM »

Quote from: timmy on November 25, 2005, 02:30 PM
wesleyana: my lovely wesleyana, im getting so fond of you now, but hey!! i aint your type (im a man!! Grin)


first of all, i ain't your lovely WesleyanA, second of all, you sound more like a little bully kid than a man


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do you discriminate against them (homosexuals): more times but not always

It's just what i wanted to find out from you.

damygurl (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #83 on: November 26, 2005, 06:21 AM »

wats da difference between sumone who discrrimintes againist people because they r gay and sumone who discriminates because da other personis blk or white?
@timmy u ain't got no right watsoeva to judge peeps and if u iz a christian i know sumwhere in da bible it says we shouldn't judge people!!
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #84 on: November 26, 2005, 06:28 AM »

timmy gooble is just a stupid excuse for an ignoramus. Someone who plays bully on his fellow human being just because of his sexual orientation. He wouldn't dare do that if he were here in the US because he knows he's a scary cat who woudn't have supporters strong headed bigots like he does in  Nigeria.
Until you learn how to be tolerant of others or minority groups of people, you're just a little stupid excuse for an ignoramus to me.. .

racists, discriminators and bigots are the worst form of irritation to me and i can't stand them!!!!  Angry  Angry  Angry . . . .arrogant fools!.

timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #85 on: November 26, 2005, 08:19 AM »

Ill'd give u guys my reply when i get to my pc, right now i'm mobile
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #86 on: November 26, 2005, 01:53 PM »

waoo!! so cool to see no post before mine.. 
Quote from: wesleyanA  on November 26, 2005, 08:19 AM
gooble, pathetic ignoramus, bully, strong headed bigots, scary cat

all this just 'because you need me to understand its cool to be gay  Grin, i can help but laugh at your @#^%#($dity.   

why get so furious wesley, and damygirl who says im judging am just calling them what they are (faggots).. gays suck, stink and are full of crap.. i don't care about what any  of ya feel about this... if you choose to be gay and you proud to be it, because you think its good or its a part of you, then go to the world, design a blog with your true picture an post it on nairaland and for the world to see that your being your self.. why is tdave confussed about telling people who think he's got real balls, he's gay.. come on why do you have to change the flow of nature and do anal sex when it was made for excreation, why do you spread so much std's with in your self and innocent victims(spouces) why do you have to fight and cause to get acknowleged, why do you hate people(loke me) who tell you fact about au wrong you are, why is homosexuallity built only around sexual desires, why are more of their activites hidden. too many why's. why why

nferyn (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #87 on: November 26, 2005, 02:32 PM »

@ timmy
The ignorant rants you post here, only show that you have no freaking clue what you're talking about.

How many gays do you know?
All those things you ascribe to gays, how did you get that knowledge?
How do you know that gays are unnatural? How do you define unnatural and how do you kow that gays are uniquely unnatural?
How do you know that gays suck, stink and are full of crap as you so bluntly put it. Did that knowledge come from personal experience? Have you read studies about it? How do you know this?
How do you know that all gays have anal sex?
How do you know that no straight couples engage in this unnatural act
How do you know that homosexuality is only built around sexual desire?

If you can give me just one credible source for your knowledge, I will retract my statement and gladly admit that you are not an ignorant hater
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #88 on: November 26, 2005, 07:55 PM »

gosh!! im in trouble, another gay hater's hater  Grin.. all you lost generation of humanity..now i get ta feel of whats happening around europe and america.. You guys are crazy.. do what ever u want, like and feel.. its your f*@ken business, as long as none of ya comes along my way..

By the way, okay okay i give up.. i take my word back  Tongue
but at least can i get educated on how you guys live your woirld  Huh
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #89 on: November 26, 2005, 07:57 PM »

Quote from: timmy on November 26, 2005, 07:55 PM

By the way, okay okay i give up.. but at least can i get educated on how you guys live your woirld Huh

No, you'll get educated on how to give up being a bigot and be acceptive of others even though you don't share their views.
you don't have to be a muslim to respect a muslim.

nferyn (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #90 on: November 26, 2005, 09:52 PM »

Quote from: timmy on November 26, 2005, 07:55 PM
gosh!! im in trouble, any gay hater's hater Grin.. all you lost generation of humanity..now i get ta feel of whats happening around europe and america.. You guys are crazy.. do what ever u want, like and feel.. its your f*@ken business, as long as none of ya comes along my way..

By the way, okay okay i give up.. but at least can i get educated on how you guys live your woirld Huh

No, timmy, I'm not asking you to give up your beliefs, only to prove that they are based on something called evidence or knowledge. If you cannot do that, one can only conclude that you are an ignorant biggot.

The ball is in your camp. Just give something more than cheap generalizations and made up views on gays and maybe, just maybe your views could be accepted as having any value.
Throwing the towel in the ring after the first punches landed, while still proclaiming to be the best is cowardice. No more, no less.
damygurl (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #91 on: November 27, 2005, 07:55 AM »

Quote from: timmy on November 26, 2005, 01:53 PM
why is tdave confussed about telling people who think he's got real balls, he's gay.. come on why do you have to change the flow of nature and do anal sex when it was made for excreation
first of all i'm straight and proud to be!!!!
now tdave is confused because of peeps like u who discrimnate against peeps like him. you're like so ignorant. wake up and see da smoke gays ain't da only onez who have anal sex boi u gotta broaden your view and plz don't tell me u only know of da missionary style!!

why do you spread so much std's with in your self and innocent victims(spouces) why do you have to fight and cause to get acknowleged, why do you hate people(loke me) who tell you fact about au wrong you are, why is homosexuallity built only around sexual desires, why are more of their activites hidden. too many why's. why why

whoa u sure do have a lot of whyz but me been straight  u gon have to ask da gay peeps but i know some gay peeps soi   can answer some of your ys and i got brains so da answers r not hard to figure out. straight peeps have Aids too dummy!! they gotta fight because their r dour peeps like u who discriminate!! and how u know they hate straight peeps more like straight peeps who r narrow minded hatin them!  how u know it's built around sexual desires they r just normal peeps who also fall in love!!! i have seen some gay peeps who are married and they got a baby!! well maybe where you're but where i am they r like so open and don't give a frick about what u think!!!

Quote from: timmy on November 26, 2005, 07:55 PM
gosh!! im in trouble, any gay hater's hater Grin.. all you lost generation of humanity..now i get ta feel of whats happening around europe and america.. You guys are crazy.. do what ever u want, like and feel.. its your f*@ken business, as long as none of ya comes along my way..

By the way, okay okay i give up.. but at least can i get educated on how you guys live your woirld Huh
lost generation boi r u in need of some seriouz wake up call or what!! Europe and America? u 4got Asia, Australia, N&S America and Africa.!!!
crazy? u know u should try considering da fact that maybe u iz da crazy one because only crazy peeps call da  sane crazy!!
what u gon do if a gay person cums ya way? shoot them?now that is funny!!
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #92 on: November 27, 2005, 03:09 PM »

well today is sunday, and im in a good mood.. i don't want to vex any gehi.. or gehi lover.. so you all should wait for my turn of the larshing soon {hiss}
damygurl (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #93 on: November 27, 2005, 11:11 PM »

Quote from: timmy on November 27, 2005, 03:09 PM
well today is sunday, and im in a good mood.. i don't want to vex any gehi.. or gehi lover.. so you all should wait for my turn of the larshing soon {hiss}
that is to say u ain't got notin to say!!
pearldrops (f)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #94 on: November 28, 2005, 06:12 PM »


am lost here where the exit Embarrassed
timmy (m)
Re: Should I tell my Family that I am GAY?
« #95 on: November 28, 2005, 06:28 PM »

NOW im ANGRY !!! Angry Angry REALLY ANGRY.. SEE WHAT ALL YA F@#KING GAY AS CAUSED, i tell people i like a guy, next thingy, they think im gay.. aint that rubbish..
you guys be ready for my blast 2mrow right now gat go home
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