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chelsea4su (f)
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tell me at your age ,your parent just tell you that ,you are not their biological child,what will you do?
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feelgood (m)
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Nothing! Just be grateful to God for giving me such wonderful people as parents who did not leave me to the mercies
of this world but offered me a family life and opportunity to live like other kids on the block.
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Eastcoast (f)
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the person willl appreciate them even more.
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Oracle (m)
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That wouldn't sound funny,
i would first ask them if itz a joke
if itz reality then i'D never know any mum and dad as loving as them
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Akinagirl (f)
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I would run up to them hug them and kiss them for putting up with me throughout my years, when I'm not even biologically theirs.
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McDoe (m)
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Nothing spoil na, provided I am comfortable and protected by them. What if my parents were dead, and it happened that I now live with persons that are not related to me? Will I kill myself, the answer is No.
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MP007 (m)
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 at my age? lord Jesus, thats why its good to tell when the person is stil little,
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Siena (m)
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It wouldn't bother me in the slightest.
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benit (f)
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Just go on with life. I will try to keep my morale high and appreciate them more
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osereka (m)
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for them to have put up with me for so long,
I will forever love them
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$$Rhino
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I will ask them the following questions:
1, would u guys mind if i have my real parents in my life
2, Y have u waited so long to tell me, although, i already know the answer, because no parents want to lose what they chrish so much, however, if they have treated me so bad, like making me be the slave for their own biological kids, then, i surely want to vent some anger
3, Tell me the story surrounding the adoptions
4, Could you help me with some of my identity, so that i could know who i am and where i came from.
After all these, i would love them still, because they gave me hope and help me to be who i am today.
If i ever found my real mother and father, na different story, because they better have a good story to have given up a virgin brother like me, else, yawa go gas oh.
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crazykid (m)
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Well there's nothing I can do. Except to be grateful to them for taking me as their own child even though I wasn't their child.
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jintujinta (m)
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It may be painful at first that one has all along been a butterfly calling himself bird. But on the other hand, one should be grateful for having people to call parents. Go to Oshodi or Mushin to see those guys under the bridge: no home, no parents, ( if there are they are not responsible).
I will just ask for the facts about my parents, and if it is confirmed that i wasnt kidnapped, my parents were not deceived into giving me off and there was no shady deal about the adoption, i will love them still.
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ifyalways (f)
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I would love and appreciate them more,for accepting me,loving me and treating me like their own.back to my shell,i would start wondering,what my biological parents looked like. . .  |
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Ndipe (m)
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Very interesting question.
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Very interesting question.
Yes it is, . . , . . . , . . . , . .  There really isn't much to do,  especially if u all grown up, I guess essentially depends on the individual to possibly go in search for his/her biological parents, On the other hand, I would be grateful to them, as they are the only parents I've come to know, and grown to love.  |
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big father (m)
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Nothing,i will still remain grateful to them for being there all these while !
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Radiant (f)
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Tough one I must say. Better not tell the child if he/she doesn't hear any rumour from the walls and comes to ask you.
I won't tell the child, anyway. But if I was told such a thing, umm. . .*having mixed feelings*
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almondjoy (f)
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I don't think it would make a difference now. We are still family and I would still be glad to have come from this particular home/family. As far as being curious about where the biological parents are. . . .will not even bother. Life goes on.  If it is ma destiny. . . I am happy about it and can't complain at all. It could be much worse. |
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lucabrasi (m)
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ill ask if either atiku,babangida or dangote are my real dad will even manage mike adenuga seeing as he s onli got 1 son  |
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iice (f)
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I'D like to meet them just to see what they are like. . .
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almondjoy (f)
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No big deal. Life goes on! Shit happens! |
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Gamine (f)
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i'D be like, Ehen, Adopted? Arent we all?Whats for dinner? Mummy!  |
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bluehorizo (m)
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I will forever be grateful to them for giving me a life. I will move on with life like nothing happened. They are the only parent i have known all my life and life goes on. Lo ba tan.
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ndchucks
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Better don't tell me, because i will start thinking about it, and also wondering if its true or not,I will start looking at my siblings some how, as in wondering and there by letting in self pity. Though i will appreciate them pending on what led to the adoption.
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Scopium
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Yeah so? What's the really biggy deally? That's me though. A lot of people said it's ok but it won't really be because some will try to find their biological parents.
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