Protection During Lovemaking

Hi guys,

Just  thought I'D put this across and find out your opinion on this. Why is it that guys resent having to wear protection during lovemaking?  I mean, for goodness sake, with all the STDs (not to talk of HIV!) crawling out there why would anybody in their right mind not want to protect themselves?

Would you believe some men and women say they don't enjoy it unless it's flesh to flesh? Some say they are in a serious relationship with one person therefore no need for protection, but na who sabi wetin person dey do when he/she no dey with the supposed "one" lover? 

Again, some people do not believe AIDS is real in spite of all the awareness advertised all over the world.  Agreed, married people should not be bothered about this, but what about philandering husbands who do not believe in prophylactics?

Seun, don't even bother saying a word since you are from Mars and giving us all the impression you are still a virgin!

The best protection is abstinence (I mean zip up).  If you can't [abstain, please] remember to use a condom.  Also, do test [for STDs] regularly; do be afraid.

I can't imagine myself participating in unprotected sex with someone who has been sexually active in the past.  I would require you to be tested for STDs and HIV/AIDS.  In fact, since HIV has been known to remain undetectable for up to 3 months, I would require you to take the test for HIV twice with a 3 month interval in-between during which you must not have sex with anyone else.

This young man isn't taking any chances for five minutes of pleasure.  Oh no, I love my life!

One thing people don't realise is that serial monogamy (when you have several sexual partners over the course of your life and but you don't have sex with more than one person at a time) leaves so much room for infection.  There are many STDs that don't manifest immediately.  There is one that, once you are infected, will most likely remain with you for the rest of your life, in spite of treatment (I think it is herpes).

Flesh to flesh is the best and that's how God intended for it to be done in the first place.
I just can't wait to get married and try flesh for the first time, been using rubber all my life and I'm getting bored with it......

Angelgirl, whaddaya think? Of course I'm a babe! I guess if I'D chosen the name Angelgirl I would have been informed the name's already been taken, but then Angelgal it is for me and that's it. Don't worry.....no one is stealing your identity abeg. Angelgurl fit come too, you go drive am? 

Now to what I wanted your opinions on....meennnn you guys, I beg you in the name of God, if you must "do" (cause you really don't have to you know) please please please use protection.

Mamba please remain rubber man until you find Mrs. Mamba. 

Legry the mighty thought ,or better put fear of AIDS is indeed the beginning of wisdom so please remain wise.

Tayotina I'm glad you know casual sex is deadly, but ....skin to skin or nothing at all? That's just playing Russian roullete with your life. 

If you want to enjoy it do it flesh to flesh, but that will be with your own wife/husband, and if it is causal sex please be careful.

this is out of my thought never to use what they call condom

I think i really have to get someone and get married cause i can't stand this rubber thing anymore, flesh to flesh is just like a dream to me now oooooo

Seun tell me how the hell you a going to know!!!! Face reality boo its either total absinence or use da rubber. Keep flesh to flesh until marriage and be truthful

Honestly Awo (flesh to flesh) is the main thing but you can't help it these days, the girl/guy you want to have it with maybe the waka-about. But with RUBBER you are safe from STDS, and again Unwanted Pregnancy will not be something to worry about.
Sinerely, its good to Hold Body, but BODY NO BE WOOD

love4ever that too much for legry,but legry love4ever is actually saying the truth.

Men! STD/AIDS are true. i think goin back to Gods law shld serve us alot of harm. Abstainance shld be best. Zip guys, Zip ladys. but e no easyooooooooo.

make we try, we go survive the heat we no go DIE!!!!!!

  To abstain from sex is the best way to prevent all these diseases,but its not that easy..its easier said than done.but I think the alternative is to protect yourself by using condom..
  For the first time "majority" of nairalanders are honest with this dicussion even the St Seun....I think things are getting better....

Love4ever i am christian and i just state facts geeeez, and yeah when i come to think of it why pick me to attack all the time have you not heard of Mamba or Allenpowered.  Pinky ,tayo i think i fall into the profile of i can never think of ,talkess of dating this kind of boy cause he is a bad boy or maybe i sound like someone from her past that she don't like  catigory for love4ever, Hold up a minute here , hey love4ever do i sound familiar to ya! and i don't go about hopping onto one bed or the other i hve meaniful relationships capish! but you know its aight, i don't mind never said i was an innocente. Hey PiinkeeEE aint nada going on aight! Peace Love4ever

always use a rubber and if you decide that you want to do flesh to flesh, make sure you take the babe/bobo for an MOT after 3 months of you being together.

PS. MOT= full sexual health test

O'boy... I'll do anything to hook u guys up.....