Protection During Lovemaking

My goodness where have i been since all this days,something dey happen for nairaland oh, legrry and love4ever nawo.

Hmm, L², you guys shouldn't seal the deal with pms oh. We want to know what is really going on.

love4ever abeg chill now!!

I'm only trying to do good hooking you guyz up....
Legry is a cool fine dude (info from reliable sources) don't mind his yarns!!!

i do not like what you guys are saying and i would not take it from you all and i would like to repeat myself again

Before state my opinion, i will first of all like to know this virgin seun? its a pleasure meeting you.

Its unfortunate that despite the presence of HIV/aids as well as STD, most Nigerians( men in particular) dint like to protect themselves during sexual intercourse. This equally includes married men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. I know of situations whereby husbands infected their wifes with HIV and also STD. Its a situation that bothers me because even when you use protection during sex when your dating a guy, what happens when you get married? you cant still use protection and we must all note that married men are more randy than the single men?

Concerning abstinence, how long will you abstain?? wont you marry? we dint pray for randy husbands but look around you it seems to be the norm of the day. you can hardly see a faithful husband the closest you can see is a husband who is very discreet so the wife wont be aware. they are very very few men who are faithful to their wifes. so even if you abstain when you are married you stand at risk too cuz definitely you cant use protection with your husband(how do you get pregnant) and if you refuse to have sex with him without protection then get ready for quarrels.

In summary, It is God alone that protects us from HIV/Aids!!!. If you dint believe that how do you explain a situation whereby a girl that sleeps around is tested HIV negative and then a virgin who just decided to have sex for the first time will be positive to HIV. They are girls that abort pregnancy 5times per week yet get married and pregnant almost immediately and then a girl who has never aborted finds it hard to get pregnant. what about girls that travel for RUNS in other states they go and come back, no accident and then some are going for real important reasons yet get involved in an accident???

We are all at the mercy of God Almighty. He all came down with a different report card. Lets pray that God will have mercy on us, we are all at risk.

its not a law,protect when u can and if u not fit.... then enjoy the real thing.after all
we all go die someday.no be only aids di kill.

when u enter club,make u wear iron cloths na.. cuz recently some eveil genuises use needles to pass on the disease.
if i really love and trust u, noshaken, if na love go kill me, noshaken.
there are other ways too, like peels and injections, y are u ladies scared to take them.

i am not against condom, note that.i use it when i use it.
it shouldn't be impose, thats all.

I can never indulge in an unprotected sex. In fact, even the person I will marry will undergo series of tests before anything else can proceed.

I mean seriessssssssssssssssss of tests.

And even when we are married, once in a while she will have to go for more series of tests

pkrix, as your partner di do the series of test, make sure say u too di do same,

life is all about gambling baby,..especially if u want the best.

LOL pkrix....
no comment, except that "u harsh oh.."

While we are still on this safe sex subject, an area over looked by most people is oral sex. How safe is it? What is the risk of contacting STI or the much dreaded HIV/AIDs from it, what are the forms of protection people should use. I know most people engage in it without any form of protection even when a flavored condom can be used but for women what protection can men use?. Is the risk factor that low.

I for one love giving oral sex rather than receiving, nothing pleases and turns me on more than watching a babe writhing, eyes close, moaning, pouting, squeezing your head with her laps or holding your head down (almost suffocating you) while you are at it. But then I used to be very selective if I perceive any strong scent from there while smooching, I skip that chapter of fore play.

So what are the risk factors from oral and what protections are available.

Calabarman there are still risks involved with Oral sex especially if you have any kind of open cut or sore around the mouth.

But most research has shown that the risk of infection "seems" very lower with Oral sex, most of the research seems to think that saliva has a kind of negatory effect on the HIV virus.

The problem with this research is that since most people who have contracted HIV, tend to have had both Oral and Normal unprotected sex and so is hard to know if they would have contracted it just due to Oral Sex.

Have a look on the web, check mostly government health departments for the US, or UK and you'll see enough papers on this. Google is everyone's friend 

Abstinence is the best.

like pinky girl

I hope we also realise that use of "protection" during lovemaking serves other purposes as well..

Like family planning...   

All I'm hearing these days is "HIV, STD, OPP.. etc..." But couples do use them for family planning [spacing], etc...