Protection During Lovemaking

Jogego keep rolling your eyes to my comments till they fall off their sockets

OK back to this topic. There are times when we feel we know it all and have taken all necessary precautions only for the protective device to fail us. In such instances what do you do?

Let me tell you one instance that happened to me many years ago while I was still very young and working in Warri. There was this seamstress at the beginning of my street whom I had gone to repair some clothes. On this particular visit there was a pretty young babe in the shop making a new dress, while waiting for my job to be completed the babe told me she had been seeing me driving down the street and asked if I stayed in a particular compound (which she described) down the road, I responded yes and from there we started gisting, I discovered that she was a year 1, Biochemistry student at UNIJOS and was currently on vacation. She had learnt sewing after secondary school and was making some dresses for her self. Eventually I collected my clothes and went home. The next evening she visited me at home uninvited, I was really surprised and pleased to see her, I welcomed her in, gisted, she assisted in preparing my evening meal and we watched a movie together. She soon became a regular visitor to my flat and we used to go borrowing movies at the club. She loved dressing like a small girl although she had a boyfriend whom she claimed was a serious womaniser. On a particular day while we were watching a movie I placed my head on her laps, I thought she was going to push me off, but for where, instead she slipped her hand into my shirt and started playing with my nipples, after a while she sighed and whispered softly “ba I would love to f-uck you”, I didn’t believe what I had heard so I asked her to repeat, she said I should stop playing games that I heard her clearly. Since I was no longer a slacker, I stood up went into my room to collect a condom, returned with a duvet and pillows, and told her we would be more comfortable laying down on the rug, to cut a long story short we did it sideways, laying on our side with her facing away from me, I also discovered that she wasn’t wearing any pant, she eventually told me she doesn’t like wearing them.


Now her visit to my place became more frequent and longer, whenever we went to the video club she would always pick a porn movie in addition to others. On this particular day we were busy shinning congo (I first heard the term congo from her), she was on top and not very gentle, moaning and soon screaming, in the midst of the whole action I felt the condom burst, I told her what I suspected must have happened, she said she was almost there and couldn’t stop, I tried pushing her off but for where, she held me down firmly, leaning forward and pinning my arms on the bed. The sensation was fantastic and in a very short while we both came, thereafter she jumped off to inspect the damage. She appeared very worried so I asked her what the problem was, she replied that her period is due in the next few days, to put it mildly the next few days was very stressful for us, no more action, but thank God her period came on schedule. We resumed our action shortly after but I changed to a different brand of condom. No more GOLD CIRCLE. The strange thing in all this was that we weren’t even scared about STI, we were more concerned about her becoming pregnant, but then if I had stopped the action and worn another condom wouldn’t it have been late eh..like medicine after death..What do you think?

{SEUN I hope this is not too graphical, I had to edit, edit and edit removing all the juicy sections, it taste like Cabin Biscuit now}

When a lady is expecting her period, and it delays for a few days and let's say she actually had sex earlier without any form of protection, the torture alone would make her swear never to have sex again.

Some girls are more particular about getting pregnant than contacting any STI.  We all know you can't hide pregnancy now.  You know, the fear of rejection by parents and friends.  At the same time, you cannot expect a lady who is almost reaching ......... to stop abruptly because of a burst condom because that moment is unique at that particular time.

Alright Simon when you are nearing orgasm and your condom bursts, jump off the lady (if only she would allow you to) and end up with blue balls ok?

The thing is when she's almost coming, she might not even think of the burst condom and at the same time she would not allow you to stop.

Sure angelgal, I know blueballs is still better than STIs. What am saying is that, at that moment (maybe it doesn't apply to you) when you are almost coming, my dear you wouldn't even think of any burst condom. Am sure you know how it feels like to come, you know when you are screaming and begging the guy not to stop, when you ....... let me stop here.

Simon??

Legry?

Tayo ....... ha you dey talk like that, you won spoil me?
Calabar Man... I dey feel you ooo, but we still need to be very very carefull (though sometimes we cant help but be careless) About shining Congo --- congo is one word my guy use for ladies toooo

Funny thing is that at this stage in my life if a condom bursts on me I would not be worried about pregnancy at all.

It is HIV that will be worrying me big time.

hmm, CalabarMan! what a post!

that being said, i am not so crazy about this flesh thingy, i'm so used to CD.  So, it's another reason to look forward to marriage, i guess.  Also, the oral aspect begs for an answer.  How risky is it?  Nobody ever mentions that.

About the condom bursting when she is about to come, well.... as long as she arrives within a few seconds, the risks are still negligible.  It is not a 100% transmission thingy.  Now somebody attack..

The best solution is to use a good quality condom, no pinch money for here o! life no get duplicate. Make sure you get one that can withstand the stress you intend to subject it to...

I tend to disagree with u calabarman say best solution nah quality CD. Total abstainance is the key. ZIP UP y'all 

Don't you guys have "CONTROL".... 


As a popular Pirrelli tyre advert goes..

"What is POWER without CONTROL"....

Buddy, don't worry if the baby was yours she would have told you by now.

Two Major things that burst a condom are:
  1. The babe is too tight or the guy is too big
  2. The babe is not wet enough, probably because the foreplay wasn't long enough or good enough.
In rair occassions it might be bacause the action is to rough and hard

After several failures I deviced a simple means of checking the lubrication with my fingers during foreplay before proceeding to the main course.

Make una no forget say:

"Mother's Day is 9 months after Fathers' Day... "   



Saint... 

I don tire.  I am going to create a mailing list for the members of this forum who are adults to listen to CalabarMan's stories and share their own.  I'm going to create it right now.

Goodness!

Fear not Seun I would resist the temptation to post anymore and adopt the Siddon Look strategy.