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Question: The Man Or Wife?Who Should Die 1st When A  Couple Is Aged?
Husband - 6 (85.7%)
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KDK (m)
The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« on: November 24, 2006, 08:55 PM »

In your opinion, who should be the first to die when a couple is aged and ripe for eternal rest? Is it the man or the wife?

In my opinion I think the woman should die first 'because the man is stronger and will able to bear the pain of his loss and he'd be able to shower the wife with love as she lies on her death bed ready to "crossover".
Oracle (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #1 on: November 24, 2006, 09:04 PM »

They should die together
mukina2 (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #2 on: November 24, 2006, 09:09 PM »

@oracle thanks dear


@kdk woman die first do you know what that means?
i lost my mum not too long ago and my dad looks like a shadow of his self he's just trying to be strong for me . .but i can see it hurt him so much . .
a woman holds the home together . .she's the lifeline in the home  . .the one the kids are closer to . .so let them die alone . .if one goes before the other thats a problem for the kids you know
4 Play (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #3 on: November 24, 2006, 09:09 PM »

I will prefer to die first. That way I won't have to deal with the trauma of losing my wife .Let her deal with it
feelgood (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #4 on: November 25, 2006, 09:19 AM »

Me first. And that's how hv should be.
harvey (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #5 on: November 25, 2006, 11:38 AM »

let Gods' will be done.
English1 (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #6 on: November 26, 2006, 02:49 PM »

What a strange question Undecided
Eurphoria (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #7 on: November 27, 2006, 03:25 AM »

very strange indeed  Cheesy who should die first? there is no should when it comes to someone's time, when you gotta go , you gotta go.
sammyjl (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #8 on: November 28, 2006, 10:03 AM »

 That is not for you to decide, but God. Keep your opinion to yourself at this point.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #9 on: December 09, 2006, 09:14 PM »

@sammyjl

abeg tell them my sister ohhh  Lips sealed
bluehorizo (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #10 on: April 25, 2008, 03:54 PM »

They should both die at same time. That is why i don't like the film "Titanic".
jennykadry (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #11 on: April 25, 2008, 04:56 PM »

abeg make God call both of them d same day
Emma4u2c (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #12 on: April 25, 2008, 05:29 PM »

Quote
In your opinion, who should be the first to die when a couple is aged and ripe for eternal rest? Is it the man or the wife?

In my opinion I think the woman should die first 'because the man is stronger and will able to bear the pain of his loss and he'd be able to shower the wife with love as she lies on her death bed ready to "crossover".

Dear forget it you have no choice here, talking about strength, women have more strength to survive disaster than men, studies have shown that. Don't let our macho nature deceive you.
Scopium (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #13 on: April 25, 2008, 05:39 PM »

@ poster
No offence, your dad and mum if they are still alive who do you want to die first?
algood (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #14 on: April 25, 2008, 05:49 PM »

what a question!

we all owe death,and we all don't know when we are going to die,

so i don't think that decision of who dies first is ours to chose.
as this yoruba adage says( bo se wu eledumare lo se ise, ko se ni ti o la ba du)

anyone can go first, at there appropriate time.

but if all things being equal, i think its better for men to leave the stage before woman, women holds the house together and can also remain a widower before God call them home,
if it is the other way round, the man after mourning his loss can decide to remarry because of lonliness and by doing that we all know the end result will be a catastophe
Zaria17
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #15 on: April 25, 2008, 09:53 PM »

Good try KDK, you only want her to kick the bucket before you - so you have the opportunity to take a young bride.   
lukrauf (m)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #16 on: April 25, 2008, 11:44 PM »

Who says so?
Zandra1 (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #17 on: April 26, 2008, 01:43 AM »


If men where God. . . . . . .  Undecided
wendymanda
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #18 on: April 26, 2008, 01:53 AM »

What the hell kind of question is this?
~Lady~ (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #19 on: April 26, 2008, 03:35 AM »

na wa o. nothing wey my eye never see for this forum  Shocked Shocked Shocked
elizabetta (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #20 on: May 07, 2008, 04:23 PM »

God's wish.
Spermdrops
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #21 on: May 08, 2008, 12:53 PM »

Why don't we just kill both of them since it is in our power to do so.  That way we do not have to bother who will be "stronger" in the even of loss.

What a topic!

I am sure some spouses are happier with the other dead to celebrate their long desired freedom.

Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh!
vivaladiva (f)
Re: The Man Or Wife?who Should Die 1st When A Couple Is Aged?
« #22 on: May 08, 2008, 06:31 PM »

let the GUN decide
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