My Boyfriend Has Turned Me To A Cook: Could This Be Love?

run ke?  ... I aint seen any punch or deadly kicks yet 

Anyway, back to the topic. If you babes really want me, you have to promise to take care of my tommy first. That means PLENTY PLENTY COOOKING...

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Maclee,

Welcome to Nairaland.

what!..u guys!
he wants u to be a good wife that doesnt mean he should turn her into a cook, gosh..a woman cooks at her will and de fact she loves her boyfriend not de boyfriends telling her to

        Tayotina; u said its your friend, as far as i'm concern, u are the person involved. My opinion will be channelled to u. You guys are not married not even living together. Now, how is it possible that this man demand breakfast, lunch and dinner from u all day? If he gets the knowledge that u are not happy over his demand and decide not to eat whatever u prepared with your hands, how will u feel? You may probably feel better.
       When men says ''she is not homely'' do u know what they really meant? You may not know because u don't want to be homely.
       My dear, u should be happy that your guy likes your food. Maybe because I like good food too.

Well, i guess mine is different because i enjoy cooking alot . So, i sometimes find myself cuttin onions with tears in my eyes while my girl picks the veg. Its really fun and u knw d truth.....we sometimes end up doing it there

abeggooooooooooooooooooo this is real using. i no gree ooooh  Ladies don't let this happen to u.  Let's get the point clear. Just the mere fact that the girl is omplaining or confused crystal clear obviously no LUV ya... u can tell if a boy loves u or not going head over hills for u . You know deep in your heart, just that some girls just don't want to see the truth. They want to force it and that's not right. Let go another will come your way.

The things he does to u, i mean little things not necessarily material things, the way he talks to u, his conserns about u, the way he treats u  abi u go know  ooooooooh

Looks like this situation is one sided, Not reciprocal Ladies watch out for men take u for granted and take adv of your vulnerabilty. 

  MUST?

i think if a girl works, she shouldn't carry all the  resposibility of a housewife.
why shoud a girl go to work, the husband also goes to work and when they both come back, the wife has to do everything in the house including taking care of the kids. i think that responsibility should be shared 50-50 between the wife and the husband.

husbands, if you know your wife works, you should be able to at least take the vaccum cleaner and sweep once in a while . + do the dishes too sometimes.if your wife doesn't have a job, then you can hold her respnsible as a full time housewife.

are you trying to say men have 75 percent rights and women only 25 percent rights? oh please were not in the olden days of the old ruled by misogyny. it's 50-50 okay!!! it used to be 100-0 back then when there was the bible when there was sexism when the woman was the devil and the men were God's favorites. were not talking religion here okay?... now the condition is improving and women are gaining more rights. remember the time women weren't allowed to vote. yeah..sooner or later there will be female presidents and we'll see what you'll do about it. it's 50-50 okay?get over  it..

are you muslim? some muslims make their wives cover their faces in public and treat them like their property/slaves.


and by the way, no rib was taken out of nowhere to create women. the bible is just plains sexist because it was written by those authors who wrote the book based on what they believed. sexism existed largely then so they had to write the book based on that....

It's as easy as 'A' Quit if she's tired of it all but like the saying goes think before you leap but if i were to be your friend then i would have to sit the guy down n ask him what he thinks of the relationship,with his answers you can tell if he's for real or not.......

To be cooking all the time in the relationship-he has turned her to a housewife role,whatever i want to eat,just cook it for me.

Me i would not have time for that rubbish.
My daughters Boyfriend wants her to cook for him but once in a rare while .
He will phone and ask her if she has time and even buy the things needed.
he will sit in the kitchen with her while she is cooking.
Sometimes his mum will ask her to come and show her how she cooked a dish because he is always talking about it.
But apart from that , we treat him like every other person if he comes when we are eating he eats with us.
I don't entertain men in my place. I go to their place.

hmmmmm

It is 100% not love.

geeeeeeeeeeee. I think your friend has become a door mat to his boo. The best thing she can do is first of all ask herself why she is putting up with that, then choose wether she wants to keep on being a cook, after she has made up her mind she can now go ahead and tell her man the way she feels about it and if he is ready to change well that says a lot about him, if not well he knows where the door is.lol