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sweetpie23
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there certain types of people you feel will be more likely to cheat?
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oyinda. (f)
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there certain types of people you feel will be more likely to cheat?
yes definitely. -the dudes that reek of testosterone. most athletic built and hairy dudes fall into this category. alpha males basically. - the guys that usually talk about sex. they're horny 80+% of the time and always talk nasty. they're addicted to sex and always crave it. - the more opportunity the guy has with women (money, goodlooks etc) the more likely he is to cheat. -the insecure dude that gets "esteem boost" from having different women. - the dude that has had soo manyyyy partners before you came along. he's used to change and more likely will want some change - the burnt dude who had a bad relationship, hasn't recovered from it and doesn't believe in love or faithfulness anymore. - men that have fallen out of love with their partners but are too chicken to dump/divorce her due to what people will say. kids involved etc some of these are stereotypes although they're my own personal opinion. so seriously, without consulting my list up there, if you feel your partner is cheating, chances are that he is. |
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Waxxy (m)
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@oyinda, unfortunately, you are about 80% wrong. A cheat/player can be anything but all that you have listed. what you have described, is a childish, insecure, sex freak. i actually thot the poster meant "CHEETAH",  |
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oyinda. (f)
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^ of course a cheater can be anything but insecure guys, sex freaks, rich/attractive men ARE MORE LIKELY to cheat. duh we're talking statistics  |
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Waxxy (m)
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@oyinda,
so youre working with statistics? thats why
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oyinda. (f)
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yes that's whyyy |
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rokiatu (f)
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the nicest guys are the ones who turn out to be the
cheaters
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oyinda. (f)
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^ yea 'cause they know how to sweet talk every girl. mtcheww at them
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Waxxy (m)
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@rokiatu, thank you for clearing things up
@oyinda, u confuse me
u were jst saying that i was wrong, now you agree with rokiatu
A nice guy doesnt reek of tetoterone, never talk of sex all the time, and all those things that you alluded to in your first post, the statistics never get it right
What you described earlier are the xteristics of a blatant player (the type that always get caught), not a cheat or a smooth operator
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oyinda. (f)
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i meant something different by "nice guy" u kno those ones that ramsey nouah plays in nollywood. he's nice to all the girls and gets "tempted" to cheat on his gf/ wife. it's all part of the statistics so just believe me |
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follypimpi (m)
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@Oyinda
Wetin i do u,wey my name is always poppin up when is woman related ??
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follypimpi (m)
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yes definitely.
-the dudes that reek of testosterone. most athletic built and hairy dudes fall into this category. alpha males basically.
- the guys that usually talk about sex. they're horny 80+% of the time and always talk nasty. they're addicted to sex and always crave it.
- the more opportunity the guy has with women (money, goodlooks etc) the more likely he is to cheat.
-the insecure dude that gets "esteem boost" (follypimpi's words. not mine) from having different women.
- the burnt dude who had a bad relationship, hasn't recovered from it and doesn't believe in love or faithfulness anymore.
- men that have fallen out of love with their partners but are too chicken to dump/divorce her due to what people will say. kids involved etc
some of these are stereotypes although they're my own personal opinion.
so seriously, without consulting my list up there, if you feel your partner is cheating, chances are that he is.
I never said that,u got it completely wrong,I said the more ladies u be with the more experience you become in dealing with them,how does that signify being insecure ?A cheater could be any1 short,tall,skinny,built,fat so far there's a lady out there flirting & longing to wanna sleep with you,and u urself cant resist the temptation then i supposed you fall under the category of a cheater.How come you didnt make a list of Women who are cheaters ?? |
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oyinda. (f)
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Bro have all the fun u can have now,it builds up your self confidence,shag as many Akatas that u can find I was just messing with u tho. I will remove your name from there. hehe i'm evil |
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rokiatu (f)
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I was just messing with u tho. I can smell love |
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follypimpi (m)
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I was just messing with u tho. I will remove your name from there. hehe i'm evil Oh my so u actually digged that out,Let me break it down 2 u,The fact remains most dudes wanna play around most esp. around there teenage age ,so whether i stated it or not the fact still remains he wants to do it (3spade3),so me advising him to carry on with his intention is not a biggy,it's jst the plain reality.It actually boost up your ego when u deal with quite a few ladies,you are more composed and know what u r doin sexually cos u being there done there so u r not a newbie. |
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oyinda. (f)
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of course he wanted to. lol and just because u do doesn't mean every other guy out there does. and i don't buy into the "teenage age" stuff. it's either you're like that or you're not. messing around doesn't usually stop after a certain age. goes into your 20s 30s 40s even. until u start to need viagra. it's part of u n your character for life and a habit that's more difficult to break than quitting cigarettes. on that your topic about different women leaving their panties in your house, take the advice from the dude who tries to hide the panties from his wife. u will need it couple of yrs from now when u become "tied down" to one woman. the habit never dies i tell ya. It actually boost up your ego when u deal with quite a few ladies,you are more composed and know what u r doin sexually cos u being there done there so u r not a newbie. "quite a few" and you're still not done right? the ego hasn't been fully boosted, and you're still a newbie. no? hahahaha ok. don't want to pick on you too much, so i will stop lol |
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follypimpi (m)
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of course he wanted to. lol and just because u do doesn't mean every other guy out there does. and i don't buy into the "teenage age" stuff. it's either you're like that or you're not. messing around doesn't usually stop after a certain age. goes into your 20s 30s 40s even. until u start to need viagra. it's part of u n your character for life and a habit that's more difficult to break than quitting cigarettes. Again you are wrong,I have had very close friends who used to cheat and out of love they have for there wife they overcome the habit.When you meet the right Lady meant for u,that completes u and u r truly in LOVE with her not infactuation,cheating wont cross your mind,out of respect you will stay faithfull.How come u didnt make a list of women Or is it only dudes that cheat.on that your topic about different women leaving their panties in your house, take the advice from the dude who tries to hide the panties from his wife. u will need it couple of yrs from now when u become "tied down" to one woman. the habit never dies i tell ya. Why r u so quick so jump into conclusion,the topic is not about me and what mkes u think i wld cheat on my wife ? If your man has cheated on u dont come tkin out on moi or thinkin every dude r the same.I know what i want and am not delusional neither am i confused,so when the time is right Love will conquer it all.Stop judgin a Book by it's cover Love "quite a few" and you're still not done right? the ego hasn't been fully boosted, and you're still a newbie. no? hahahaha ok. don't want to pick on you too much, so i will stop lol Pickin on me  Nah i doubt it.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] |
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Secretz (f)
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Unless you witness the person with your 2 eyes cheating, I don't see how you can 'spot' a cheater, but you can most certainly 'spot' a bullSHITTER! |
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iice (f)
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Some people just give off those vibes. However you can not always be certain.
The silent ones can just be as deadly as the alpha males 
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TheSeeker (m)
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Oyinda, your ideas are so 90% spot off! No one can exactly tell who a cheat is until he acts it. BTW, who says only men are cheats? Give some signs of female cheaters too and let's see what's up with that.
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oyinda. (f)
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i'm a lady so i can only give my opinion on male cheats as a male, u give urs on female cheats and leave my posts alone Some people just give off those vibes. However you can not always be certain.
The silent ones can just be as deadly as the alpha males that's soo true!!! |
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TheSeeker (m)
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Unless you witness the person with your 2 eyes cheating, I don't see how you can 'spot' a cheater, but you can most certainly 'spot' a bullSHITTER! |
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Czarskit (m)
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~| Erh, I know 'em when I meet ' em | 'Cheat' stinks all over 'em, no matter the amount of perfume they wear | It's lyk covering excreta with icing, you don't av to take a bite to know that it ain't cake cos it 'STINKS' |~
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Waxxy (m)
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Some people just give off those vibes. However you can not always be certain.
The silent ones can just be as deadly as the alpha males old faithful iice, trust you to hit the nail on the head @oyinda, now you see my sentiments. u can never spot a smooth operator. all those stereotypes and statistics are rubbish And somebody still needs to clarify the fact that there is differnce between a cheat and a player. some of you ladies have got it twisted |
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sweetpie23
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yes definitely.
- the guys that usually talk about sex. they're horny 80+% of the time and always talk nasty. they're addicted to sex and always crave it.
- the dude that has had soo manyyyy partners before you came along. he's used to change and more likely will want some change
- the burnt dude who had a bad relationship, hasn't recovered from it and doesn't believe in love or faithfulness anymore.
- men that have fallen out of love with their partners but are too chicken to dump/divorce her due to what people will say. kids involved etc
agree |
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beingme (f)
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Cheaters tend to be kind and considerate.
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izeek (m)
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there sre no definite signs to notice a cheat! not by size, mannerism or even intelligence.
religion itself is not a yardstick, as its been confirmed that most cheat have actually been active in their respective believes.
what i just feel is that if a guy really does love yuou, he would be able to overcome whatever type of temptation comes his way.
and i must tell you that there are and will be more temptations after he meets u than before he met you.
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pop247 (m)
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there certain types of people you feel will be more likely to cheat?
y the cheating of a thing was centered on men alone. according to the poster, is for both gender. i believe girls do cheat also and they can pretend as along as possible that u can't smell anything much more of finding out. some men cheat - no doubt but virtually all girls are hustlers. no more real girls. (u knw wot i mean). |
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sweetpie23
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some men cheat - no doubt but virtually all girls are hustlers. no more real girls. (u knw wot i mean).
no I don't |
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tunery004 (m)
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why is it all guys ladies do this more i have prove at least 5 ladies on NL av cheated on their BF i av their ID .
its a normal thing
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Mitchelin (m)
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Since unfortunately all men are expected to cheat or most men are expected to cheat ditto the ladies, why all the fuss, Let The Cheating Commence!
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