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ruescho (m)
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Met a friend today who introduced his new wife to me. Wondered how he got his divorce so quickly, but he just grined and told me: "This is my second wife!"We had a discussion and he said "I can have as many wives as I like as long as I can satisfy them" (financially and sexually). He says it´s better than cheating and anyway Moslems are allowed to have up to for wives. Hey this is Europe and he is Christian, how can that be?    ?What do you think? I am so confused 
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queen2 (f)
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Why are you confused? and what does being in europe ahve o do with second wifey? so ur telling me christians don't have second wife, moreso he divorced the first one and do u have any idea of why he did?
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ruescho (m)
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No that´s the prob: he did not divorce the first one but went to Nigeria and made traditional marriage to second one. Now he has two wives  Might be OK there, but here it´s unusual, aint it?
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naijacutee (f)
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It's a free world o. Because I'm about to start introductions between my fiancee and my already-existing husband, hopefully they'll get along just fine, as I can please them both! 
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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I don't get it. So he's Christian and he has taken another wife, how exactly does he intend to have this second wife recognized by the Christian martial law?
Unless of course the imbecile of a second wife doesnt mind that her "marriage" will not be recognized.
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feelgood (m)
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If we must go by Bible standards, your friend is no christian but an adulterer. However, what he has done is not strange in our world; using muslims as an example to justify his action is wrong. He did what was in his mind all along.
DId I detect a question in your post about what you should do? If you are a christian, pray for him but don't partake of his wickedness. He should be pitied as do all men who indulge in such acts.
Be cool
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English1 (f)
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As far as Europe is concerned, his 'traditional' marriage is not a legal marriage, that's how he can do it.
Bigamy is illegal in Europe.
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Bolarge (m)
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It's a free world o. Because I'm about to start introductions between my fiancee and my already-existing husband, hopefully they'll get along just fine, as I can please them both!  LOL! Really funny girl. . Only that I see at least one cold-blooded murder in the not-too-distant future.
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tEsLim (m)
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Its even better when you have the wifes in different continents. Its LEGAL!!! Marry legally in naija and marry legally in europe!
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ruescho (m)
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Its even better when you have the wifes in different continents. Its LEGAL!!! Marry legally in naija and marry legally in europe!
Don´t know if it´s legal it´s just: wherever u go u have a wifey waiting for u! lol
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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he is no christian at all cause God stated it clearly in the Bible that a man should have only one wife,so he has comitted adultery  .and i don't know why men are so foolish and stupid at times,you never finish with wahala of one woman you dey go add double portion on top.let me give you a candid advice when the first wife finds out hehehe,you go see wetin i dey talk about. 
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Bolarge (m)
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(.and i don't know why men are so foolish and stupid at times,you never finish with wahala of one woman you dey go add double portion on top Hehehehe,So u sef agree say woman=wahala. 
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