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ruescho (m)
Second Wife
« on: November 27, 2006, 10:31 PM »

Met a friend today who introduced his new wife to me.
Wondered how he got his divorce so quickly, but he just grined and told me:
"This is my second wife!"


We had a discussion and he said "I can have as many wives as I like as long as I can satisfy them" (financially and sexually).
He says it´s better than cheating and anyway Moslems are allowed to have up to for wives.

Hey this is Europe and he is Christian, how can that be?HuhHuhHuhHuhHuh?


What do you think?
I am so confused  Huh
queen2 (f)
Re: Second Wife
« #1 on: November 27, 2006, 10:48 PM »

Why are you confused?
and what does being in europe ahve o do with second wifey?
so ur telling me christians don't have second wife, moreso he divorced the first one and do u have any idea of why he did?
ruescho (m)
Re: Second Wife
« #2 on: November 27, 2006, 11:18 PM »

No that´s the prob: he did not divorce the first one but went to Nigeria and made traditional marriage to second one.
Now he has two wives  Shocked
Might be OK there, but here it´s unusual, aint it?
naijacutee (f)
Re: Second Wife
« #3 on: November 28, 2006, 12:39 AM »

It's a free world o. Because I'm about to start introductions between my fiancee and my already-existing husband, hopefully they'll get along just fine, as I can please them both! Grin
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Second Wife
« #4 on: November 28, 2006, 06:09 AM »

I don't get it. So he's Christian and he has taken another wife, how exactly does he intend to have this second wife recognized by the Christian martial law?

Unless of course the imbecile of a second wife doesnt mind that her "marriage" will not be recognized.
feelgood (m)
Re: Second Wife
« #5 on: November 28, 2006, 04:23 PM »

If we must go by Bible standards, your friend is no christian but an adulterer.
However, what he has done is not strange in our world; using muslims as an example to
justify his action is wrong. He did what was in his mind all along.

DId I detect a question in your post about what you should do? If you are a christian, pray for him but
don't partake of his wickedness. He should be pitied as do all men who indulge in such acts.

Be cool
English1 (f)
Re: Second Wife
« #6 on: November 28, 2006, 06:03 PM »

As far as Europe is concerned, his 'traditional' marriage is not a legal marriage, that's how he can do it.

Bigamy is illegal in Europe.
Bolarge (m)
Re: Second Wife
« #7 on: November 29, 2006, 11:06 AM »

Quote from: naijacutee on November 28, 2006, 12:39 AM
It's a free world o. Because I'm about to start introductions between my fiancee and my already-existing husband, hopefully they'll get along just fine, as I can please them both! Grin
LOL!
 Really funny girl. .
  Only that I see at least one cold-blooded murder in the not-too-distant future.Grin                       
tEsLim (m)
Re: Second Wife
« #8 on: January 01, 2007, 09:42 AM »

Its even better when you have the wifes in different continents. Its LEGAL!!! Marry legally in naija and marry legally in europe!
ruescho (m)
Re: Second Wife
« #9 on: January 01, 2007, 10:52 AM »

Quote from: tEsLim on January 01, 2007, 09:42 AM
Its even better when you have the wifes in different continents. Its LEGAL!!! Marry legally in naija and marry legally in europe!


Don´t know if it´s  legal it´s just: wherever u go u have a wifey waiting for u! lol
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Second Wife
« #10 on: January 03, 2007, 04:46 PM »

he is no christian at all cause God stated it clearly in the Bible that a man should have only one wife,so he has comitted adultery Angry.and i don't know why men are so foolish and stupid at times,you never finish with wahala of one woman you dey go add double portion on top.let me give you a candid advice when the first wife finds out hehehe,you go see wetin i dey talk about. Grin
Bolarge (m)
Re: Second Wife
« #11 on: March 26, 2007, 12:59 PM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on January 03, 2007, 04:46 PM
(.and i don't know why men are so foolish and stupid at times,you never finish with wahala of one woman you dey go add double portion on top

 Hehehehe,So u sef agree say woman=wahala. Grin Grin
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