Trying To Conceive A Child? Ttc

hi ladies, to be frank wit you all, i dont believe in any china/japanese product. i'ld advice that you go for either forever living products or GNLD if u must. i know of someone who used tianshi and ended up having internal bleeding. pls be careful. in my own case, i only used pregnacare for a couple of months, BELIEVED GOD for a gift and visited a GOOD O&G doc. If you reside  in lagos, I'm willing to give you the addy of the hospital on phone/email as am not willing to advertise their services.

Una don de scare me o. But sha let me b prepared 2 die.aladunni  i tink u can here dis.it wil not b our portion.

Nobody is going to die ohhh!
I believe she just said it out of concern and i was just a bit worried that was why i stated what i felt.
but true as venuss said we all react differently our prayer is that  it reacts in a positive way,when you take it .

MY PEACE THE DAY HAS COME FRIDAY THE 30TH BY THE TIME YOU SEE THIS I AM STILL SLEEPING BECAUSE OF THE TIME DIFFERENCE OYA DROP MY GOOD NEWS
( i am sure my peace go start to wonder which kind aproko person be this)

Mypeace : wats up nw

my people l am very sorry for disappointing.  l go for lecturers Saturdays and Sundays.  Couldnt find time for the scan.  but I PROMISE i must create chance this Saturday to do it pls.  l am equally so eager to know whats up.

I have been foolowing this thread for some time and i must confess it has helped me somehow.
let me share with u girls my experience:

I got pregnant last year in april, it was not a planned act but it just happened, i was kind of scared since i was not yet married (u know how parents take such issues) but i was certain i was going to have that baby. during the first four weeks i had serious cramps around my left lower abdomen, this made me to go and see the doctor coz i was scared of having an ectopic pregnancy. The doc confirmes that everything was ok after a scan and even said there was a heart beat. he gave me iron and vitamines to take each day.
At 11 week 4 days, i discovered a dark clot of blood while cleaning myself after urinating (but i had no cramps) the next day i went to see the doctor who sent me to do a scan, when i got the result, the doc said i was going to have a miscarriage but he was also surprised to see dat it was only an empty sac on it's way out. That nite i started bleeding and went back the the hospital, i was taken to the labour room and that was all about that pregnancy.
Till date i can't really tell what happened to the pregnancy.
Now am married and i've tried for 2 months now but not yet pregnant. it's true dat it's too early to start getting worried but am concerned. I just trust in God who gives children that the time would come.
Please i need some one to tell me more about ovulation kits coz am planning on using it this month.

Hello stages,
First i am so sorry about your loss, the amazing part about it is  that nobody can really say what causes them they just happen.
i have experienced 2 my self with no explanation, i am happy that this topic can help you in any little way, i found that most time we never talk about it or have anyone who knows exactly what we are going through.
 Yes 2 months is still a little early but i totally understand where you are coming from after one misscarriage you almost live in constant fear or panic mode. But don't let that steal your joy and happiness try and just relax a little bit and enjoy your new marriage .

As for ovulation kits normally you ovulate 14 days after your first period but not every woman ovulates on the 14th day. so i usually start testing from day 8 so i am sure i don't miss it.Glad you came here i pray your journey to motherhood will be a short one see you around.

A little info i found for you stages.


COLLECTION
Collect urine once per day, at about the same time between 10:00 A.M. and 8:00 P.M. Do not use first morning urine as a sample. Collect urine in a clean, dry cup or container.

TEST PROCEDURE
STEP 1: WHEN TO START TESTING: Determine the length of the menstrual cycle. The length of the menstrual cycle is the number of days from the first day of menstrual bleeding to the day before bleeding begins on the next period.

Determine the usual length of the menstrual cycle over the last few months. Then, refer to the Ovulation Calendar Cycle Chart below to determine on which day of the menstrual cycle to begin testing. If your cycle is less than twenty-one days or greater than forty days, consult a physician.

Cycle Chart

Your Cycle Length
Day to Begin Testing

21 days Day 5
22 days Day 6
23 days Day 7
24 days Day 8
25 days Day 9
26 days Day 10
27 days Day 11
28 days Day 12
29 days Day 13
30 days Day 14
31 days Day 15
32 days Day 16
33 days Day 17
34 days Day 18
35 days Day 19
36 days Day 20
37 days Day 21
38 days Day 22
39 days Day 23
Source(s):
http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/ino

Hi all.@arlington, dis my peace needs flogin o!

@stages sorry i did not reply sooner your period is between 27 days to 32 i would say to be safe  i would say day 9 i know it is a bit early but since everyone body does things diffrent you don't want to miss the window of opportunity.

Sorry i had to laugh a bit when you said you could make your hubby come when you are ovulating  , when you want a baby we women do some crazy things. i remember once the doctor told me i had to bring a sample from my husband to be tested and it had to be there under one hour if not all the sperm might die. The way i was driving you would think i just stole serious cash from Central bank. i was running up the stairs panting and sweating saying i am here i am here

@Venuss let us just leave her this time , let us not flog her plenty.

@Mypeace  First i am sending you lots of hugs and as i told veuss we will not flog you anymore. I know it is disappointing but you are in the right frame of mind all we have to do is keep believing and trusting God .(AND GOING TO THE HOSPITAL TO CHECK ONCE IN A WHILE EVEN IF WE DON'T WANT TOO)
I am not saying go right now just give your self some time , i am surprised i thought your period has regulated it's self .
 just take it easy ok and let's hope it comes soon but if it does not come soon will you go and check?

I am suppose to make an appointment with a diffrent doctor this week i just collected all my past medical records from my doctor i am looking for a second opinion let them just go over the tests i have done etc. I was a bit sad last week when i saw the result showing that the last baby i lost was a girl,i wish i never knew .
This baby matter sometimes dey taya me when i was younger i use to think that all my husband would do is just look at me and belle go shoot come out ,but i am seeing that it is not that easy blessed are the women who just get pregnant without anyworry for they do not know what God has done for them. i don't wish this constant state of anxiety on my enemy sef.,Anyway ahead ahead.

@My Peace, ???Oh Dear!!!    


Take heart, friend.  Bible says in the book of Job, that you shall forget your misery, and remember it as water that passed away. Your age shall be clearer than  the noonday. You shall shine forth; you shall be as the morning. You shall be secure because there is hope for you  and you shall take your rest in safety.  I feel your pain, but not to worry Dearie, God who made me a mother after several miscarriages will give you  a testimony SOON. He will even give you multiple for all the delay. I admire your spirit,  :-*Keep trusting, and am sure He won’t fail you.

@my peace
i feel your pain my dear
i was as anxious as u are for the good news
u can't imagine how many times i checked this thread a day
just to find out if u had the good news yet
but after reading your reply i was kind of sad this morning
please just as u have always trusted God just keep praying
and He will do it
i have a feeling it's there (am not trying to give u false hope)

@ Arlington
 lol u just made me laugh too with that your experience oooo
I have just realised that my worst time is that between my supposed ovulation and my next period
that is when u start thinking of "am i already pregnant"

amen

Tanks, we are good i hope.

Yes it wil. How r u doing shushu

Shushu, welcome to our little group ,  hope you come in and talk once in a while . if you dont mind me asking  have you tried anything other than waiting? Gone to the  doctor for any extensive test or anything?

@shushu ok that is good to hear, i have suffered 2 misscarriages and they have not been able to tell me why, so i keep hoping and praying and finger crossing .

I just collected my medical records from my fertility doctor and i am going to see another one just for a second opinion, i keep seeing i have high numbers for a particular blood test that is connected to blood cloths  that can also lead to miscarriages and my doctor keeps saying it is normal.  i just hope i am not driving my self crazy by looking for what does not exist.

 @my peace where are you? i hope you are ok you have been quiet for a while .