Who Sang This Song -need To Know?

i need to know who sang this song.
 i know it's a male artist, i heard it back in 1996 -
 lyrics excerpts:

" searching / there are somethings that u'll never find
/there are somethings that (paraphrase) that u'll just keep on searching"
 ,   ,
ends somewhat like this:
 " i need a woman to love me/ hold me " etc ( repeats till fade)
  need to know the artiste name and title of the track and album .
 thank you.

R&B . [must be oldies now]

yo kaydee,

are u a presenter or dj ur name sounds familiar.

 i heard the song first in 93   - was popular on the air waves then.
            it's certainly R&B , [ i imagine a black male singer ] - the voice is like kevin campbell, soft and easy
                                , no rap involved just blues.
                             
            but it has this catch phrase- i'm not sure if it the beginning phrase
             
                      [/b]" Searching , there are some things that you 'll never find "[b]
                               
               it fades with like this;
                 [/b] " i need a woman to love me , hold me , ( repeat till fade)"[b]

               - i heard some body hum it the other day, ( a week or so ago) but he too couldnt remember the name of the artist.
                                           thanks any way.
        i know i'll find the artiste on day.
   " i'll keep searching "