How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady

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unitee (f)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #32 on: September 07, 2009, 07:59 PM »

Quote from: GEW on September 07, 2009, 07:44 PM
some people have perfected the fine act of pretence and falsehood

my dear one can pretend but not for long, somehow character has a way of coming out without warning I tell you,
but the best way of telling is having the 6th sense which helps in detecting what the eye misses
unitee (f)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #33 on: September 07, 2009, 08:02 PM »

Quote from: MUZBO on September 07, 2009, 07:48 PM
Even primitive creatures like the male mantis/spiders are never sure if the female wants sex or food until they get eaten up, not to talk of advanced female humans that are so smart that they keep out-smarting themselves! Don't try to understand them.

yoh at times guys make us change who we are, you get in a relationship so innocent they abuse you , cheating at every turn, but when you change they dont take full blame they now start labelling girls and say they hide their character

thats why at times I pray for me to be able to live alone and happy without the hussle of being heartbroken blah blah blah
MUZBO (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #34 on: September 07, 2009, 08:25 PM »

Quote from: unitee on September 07, 2009, 08:02 PM
yoh at times guys make us change who we are, you get in a relationship so innocent they abuse you , cheating at every turn, but when you change they dont take full blame they now start labelling girls and say they hide their character

thats why at times I pray for me to be able to live alone and happy without the hussle of being heartbroken blah blah blah
Oh, you mean cheating guys make girls reveal their hidden character? Thats a new one! What about girls that don't need cheating guys to help them reveal their true character? I believe they out number the former.
MUZBO (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #35 on: September 07, 2009, 08:26 PM »

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ifedy
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #36 on: September 07, 2009, 08:35 PM »

The heart of a lady is deep,  They suprise themselves too.
unitee (f)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #37 on: September 07, 2009, 08:42 PM »

Quote from: MUZBO on September 07, 2009, 08:25 PM
Oh, you mean cheating guys make girls reveal their hidden character? Thats a new one! What about girls that don't need cheating guys to help them reveal their true character? I believe they out number the former.


no I dont mean that I mean men should not do things that changes the character of their women
lannre (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #38 on: September 07, 2009, 08:58 PM »

Its like trying to know where the Atlantic ocean end, just watch the waves enjoy the splashing of the seas,dont deep your feet too much . The storm could be a ruse. Anyway everyman needs to put his partner in suspense ,women enjoys that so much . Dont allow your woman to predict you and you can know little or more of her. Surprise is the secret.
MUZBO (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #39 on: September 07, 2009, 09:04 PM »

Quote from: unitee on September 07, 2009, 08:42 PM
no I dont mean that I mean men should not do things that changes the character of their women
A girl changing her character as a reaction to a perceived injustice is understandable. The question here is: All things being equal, can you know a lady's character? And the answer is NO! Guys have nothing to do with it, the girl in her bid to be smart usually out-smarts herself.
banom (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #40 on: September 07, 2009, 09:09 PM »

@ poster,
Reading the character of a woman or even any man is not difficult at all,
But before you can do it well, you must understand the primary element of human nature, we human respond to greed , self intrest, fear, stimuly , and love to be in control, in most times no matter how a person tries to hide those tendencies, it normaly surface when we have something to gain from it,

To read a woman,

1, dont take her appearance for reality, no matter how she presents herself,
2, look at her past actions,
3, observe her in action,
4, show her some thing to gain in a negative prospect and see what her responce would be,
5, pretend to appreciate the character you are trying to observeve in her,( if she has that character, there is more tendecies she will start expressing the characters since she sees that you appreciate it)
6, Look at how she treats others, ( this will give you a clue on how she can treat you).
7, take not of what she does or says unconciously.
8, Judge her smartly and objectively, Never allow her to blind your judgement with emotions or throw dust in your eyes.
8, Never conclude you have kown every thing about her.( keep room for more knowledge, change is always inevitable)

Make sure , she doesn't know you are reading her.
Avenir (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #41 on: September 07, 2009, 09:15 PM »

Quote
I seems quite difficult trying to know what is inside ladies, how can you tell if a lady has good character and has a wife material/

You'll know her character when you marry her.


On a serious note, the following is a great advice!

Quote from: meine on September 07, 2009, 06:50 PM
I learnt from a wise man

 A long time ago to observe how a lady treats people who dont matter in her life e.g cleaners, drivers, housemaids.

 this will give you a picture of what her true nature is.

 I have tested this severally and it has always worked
rickie4us (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #42 on: September 07, 2009, 09:18 PM »

Quote from: meine on September 07, 2009, 06:50 PM
I learnt from a wise man

 A long time ago  to observe how a lady treats people who dont matter in her life e.g cleaners, drivers, housemaids.

 this will give you a picture of what her true nature is.

 I have tested this severally and it has always worked

this is the best reply yet ,
Da_archer (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #43 on: September 07, 2009, 09:23 PM »

Quote from: Krayola2 on September 07, 2009, 06:53 PM
@ topic. .  . smell her "female orfice"   
  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin wetin dey do una sef ??
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r231 (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #44 on: September 07, 2009, 09:53 PM »

Quote from: meine on September 07, 2009, 06:50 PM
I learnt from a wise man

 A long time ago  to observe how a lady treats people who dont matter in her life e.g cleaners, drivers, housemaids.

 this will give you a picture of what her true nature is.

 I have tested this severally and it has always worked

true
sodconfirm
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #45 on: September 07, 2009, 10:05 PM »

No matter how observant or smart you are, Change is the only constant thing in life so with this you can't predict what's next, Just love her and play along always.
C2H5OH (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #46 on: September 07, 2009, 10:09 PM »

Quote from: sodconfirm on September 07, 2009, 10:05 PM
No matter how observant or smart you are, Change is the only constant thing in life

I like this
eyonigger (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #47 on: September 07, 2009, 11:12 PM »

Dnt get it twisted yall, there are ladies that are forever stuck with their main character. However they are quite few, nonetheless their character is automatically generated, expect the best and the worse at anytime.
na2day? (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #48 on: September 07, 2009, 11:26 PM »

very simple, never go on a date without at least one scenario ready in your mind which u can play out subtly. u will gradually be able to form a good opinion of what her character is from a various reactions  Cool Cool
topup
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #49 on: September 08, 2009, 01:01 AM »

You take the necessary task of waiting for a reasonable amount of time, don't be too eager to jump into any agreement just because on Monday you saw a dazzling smile and a great attitude, remember there is Tuesday - Sunday and January to February.

356 days to surprise you.

Most men and women are too eager to jump into things, we're so used to things coming and going so quickly that we think that all this time taking to know the best and worst of a person is too long.

Of course you won't be able to see the complete character, but if you are very aware and smart, you should be able to see the way she may behave with others, key character traits, like telling little lies to her family and friends, you never know is the real answer.
brein
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #50 on: September 08, 2009, 03:27 AM »

Beat her
kura king (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #51 on: September 08, 2009, 04:35 AM »

with time you will surely tell, but time is not always on our side Undecided
courage89
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #52 on: September 08, 2009, 07:56 AM »

Women are necessary problems. Don't try to figure them out because you cannot, just learn how to deal with their problems.
Carlosein (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #53 on: September 08, 2009, 07:58 AM »

Haven't you heard that there are only TWO times in llife that a man does not understand a woman:
before marriage and after marriage!
izeek (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #54 on: September 08, 2009, 08:35 AM »

nobody ever knows the true nature of a woman, not even the one u slept with barely 5mins ago.
and dats supposed to be their mostvulnerable state.
Kelvinj (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #55 on: September 08, 2009, 08:47 AM »

@izeek
your so rite.
Things concerning a woman ar like d things of d spirit. U hv 2 be in d spirit 2 knw a woman's character
Oluschenco (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #56 on: September 08, 2009, 09:06 AM »

Let her get annoyed and let her suffer money, she will open-up her true character
Agbero1
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #57 on: September 08, 2009, 09:32 AM »

If a lady want to get you,  you can't get her - - -Perfect Practice in Pretence.
If she just want to be herself then you know who she is in a jeffe.
stunatic (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #58 on: September 08, 2009, 09:59 AM »

u can debate it here http://naijaverse.blogspot.com/
rokiatu (f)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #59 on: September 08, 2009, 10:01 AM »

you never really know a lady well till you live with her
Flakky26
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #60 on: September 08, 2009, 10:10 AM »

God created woman didn't he?So why not go ahead and ask God the creator and the maker of women to reveal to you  their ways and character.Surely He will do so.
Nezan (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #61 on: September 08, 2009, 10:13 AM »

Let a woman be in need of money and you can know how far she goes to get the money . . . . this should give you an insight into her character, the same thing goes for men too.
denony (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #62 on: September 08, 2009, 10:21 AM »

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manmustwac (m)
Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
« #63 on: September 08, 2009, 10:38 AM »

1) See what she's like at home with her family

2)See how she treats other people

3)Make her lose her temper and see how she behaves

Well thats my 2 cents  Smiley
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