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olapo
I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« on: September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM »

this girl was at my boyfriends house like around 9am apparently she slept over, wearing his boxers and t-shirt lying on his chest in another room in the house and he told me that they are just friends gisting on eachothers chest and she had no other place to sleep that night and she called him and said no whala and she came and tha they dcidnt sleep in the same room. how the hell im  i supposed to believe that. the idiot was even swearing in Gods name. trust me now as confirm O.S.U girl i scatter ground but im heart broken, he asked for anoda chance but dont know wat to do, im afraid he is playing me
biola44 (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #1 on: September 09, 2009, 10:08 AM »

of course he is playing u n will always do.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #2 on: September 09, 2009, 10:10 AM »

Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM
this girl was at my boyfriends house like around 9am apparently she slept over, wearing his boxers and t-shirt lying on his chest in another room in the house and he told me that they are just friends gisting on eachothers chest and she had no other place to sleep that night and she called him and said no whala and she came and tha they dcidnt sleep in the same room. how the hell im  i supposed to believe that. the idiot was even swearing in Gods name. trust me now as confirm O.S.U girl i scatter ground but im heart broken, he asked for anoda chance but dont know wat to do, im afraid he is playing me

No need to be afraid dear cus his playing you!

Pls what do you mean by you scatter ground?  Undecided
baybbootz (f)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #3 on: September 09, 2009, 10:15 AM »

anoda case ov d ex.

u dnt even need any1 2 tell u dat hs doing n playing u big tym. btw were u in dt same hse dat nyt?? or u jus hapend 2 burst in on em??
truphie (f)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #4 on: September 09, 2009, 10:17 AM »

Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM
this girl was at my boyfriends house like around 9am 1. apparently she slept over,
Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM
2. wearing his boxers and t-shirt
Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM

3. lying on his chest  
Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM

4. he told me that they are just friends gisting on eachothers chest
Do you gist with your male friends while lying in bed, early in the morning?
Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM
5. how the hell im i supposed to believe that.
Dont believe it!
He is playing you, it's up to you now. If you want to stay stay, if you want to go go.
whitelexi (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #5 on: September 09, 2009, 10:22 AM »

You know. . .  Look on the flip side, what if there's a perfectly good explanation for all that? Suppose she slept over, but nothing happened? Suppose they are close, maybe family friends and are used to lying on each other while lying in bed nko? Tongue  I just dont see any fuss in any of her wearing his boxers and shirt if he's used to that happening, and u scattering ground didnt help. Its not like u caught him shagging or kissing her. . .  and besides u r not married to him either!
Why would someone swear in God's name for any reason at all?
olapo
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #6 on: September 09, 2009, 10:26 AM »

i scatter gound means, i showed him madness but i couldnt beat the girl she was too dumb and innocent and i told her all the tins the guy told me about her cursed the guy called her names and she couldnt talk she was so embarrased cos she got issues in her life, this guy knows me as" miss understanding" and thinks he can always say sorry and have me back, the worst aspect is my parents already know him and im also known in his house, i just doont know wat to do, he vowed never to do dat again that he should have told me the girl was around.
he didnt pick my calls so i went to check on him since we dont live very far apart, and i saw my worst nitemare. tank God they were not shagging, i would have collapsed, i even bought the boxers the girl was wearing iwanted to remove it from her ass but she was not wearing a pant underneath and im not that bad as well im just too cool for shit like dat
Basildon1
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #7 on: September 09, 2009, 10:28 AM »

I think you should take him back if he said he did nothing afterall you didnt catch him thrusting inside her, moreover you didnt expect him to abandon her when she had no place to sleep.

I luv blondes,  Kiss
faakay (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mo
« #8 on: September 09, 2009, 10:35 AM »

Quote from: Basildon1 on September 09, 2009, 10:28 AM
I think you should take him back if he said he did nothing afterall you didnt catch him thrusting inside her, moreover you didnt expect him to abandon her when she had no place to sleep.

I luv blondes,  Kiss
Grin    Cheesy


@Poster, 

I know you still love this guy, 

Kindly accept him back,

Cheers  Wink
CrazyMan (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #9 on: September 09, 2009, 10:44 AM »

Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM
this girl was at my boyfriends house like around 9am apparently she slept over, wearing his boxers and t-shirt lying on his chest in another room in the house and he told me that they are just friends gisting on eachothers chest and she had no other place to sleep that night and she called him and said no whala and she came and tha they dcidnt sleep in the same room. how the hell im i supposed to believe that. the idiot was even swearing in Gods name. trust me now as confirm O.S.U girl i scatter ground but im heart broken, he asked for anoda chance but dont know wat to do, im afraid he is playing me
This is where you have to make a choice; are you prepared to waste your time and date a womanizer who would keep playing you until your biological clock reaches its peak, or would you look for an honest person who would love and respect you.

And finally, please don’t scatter ground next time such an incident repeats it self.

You’re not married to him neither are you both engaged;  so whoever he wishes to date is up to him; you have no right to make trouble whenever you see him with another girl.

The only thing I would advice is that just have to be very careful when next you give your heart to someone.
pc guru (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #10 on: September 09, 2009, 11:04 AM »

Don't be fooled.If you didn't show they could ave had sex forget not being married to him.It shows lack of commitment.Also don't kill your urself you can get back with him if you want or find a responsible type.But we all know you'll stick with him.Cuz it's proven that women like cheaters/bad boys/jerks.
Valo29
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #11 on: September 09, 2009, 11:08 AM »

Hi my name is sarah, Val's pal,just saw this so my stance is, i know u ll most likely go back to him, we babes re silly like dat so if u can live with the cheat, well try, just know that he ll continue cheating, u just might not catch him ever again but my advice, WALK.
Boko Haram
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #12 on: September 09, 2009, 11:39 AM »

It really is quite simple.You know what happened and just dont want to face it.Why would my "ex" girlfriend strip,wear my boxers with no panties underneath,put on my tee-shirt and sleep over on my chest and i would just sleep off???it make sense?? HaBa! what would your ex do if you happen to go ever to his place and do the exact same thing?read you a bedtime story?You are ready to put up with it.so just do and quit whining.Men would always cheat.its in our genes.At least he respected you enough to lie to you even after all the "incriminating evidence".
olapo
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #13 on: September 09, 2009, 11:46 AM »

THANK U ALL, i already placed him on probation to prove himselfy worthy, i cant lie about dis im still in love with him and i cant stand losing him to another girl. i know we girls can be stupid atimes,but how long will i continue to WALK, I AV  walked away 3times and im tired, i want to see if i can fight dis and win it, time will tell, only that iv started giving guys attention again, b4 i don lock up 4 my guy but it seems he doesnt deserve me, im very pretty,reserved nice and submissive and i dont think theres more i can give to him  than all these, he gets my attention when he needs it, he has promised heaven and earth he wakes me up with promises, i need to forgive him and move on, shit happens everywhere, but shit dont happen unless  u allow it to happen anyway, thank u once again.
boladonas (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #14 on: September 09, 2009, 11:54 AM »

Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 11:46 AM
THANK U ALL, i already placed him on probation to prove himselfy worthy, i cant lie about dis im still in love with him and i cant stand losing him to another girl. i know we girls can be stupid atimes,but how long will i continue to WALK, I AV  walked away 3times and im tired, i want to see if i can fight dis and win it, time will tell, only that iv started giving guys attention again, b4 i don lock up 4 my guy but it seems he doesnt deserve me, im very pretty,reserved nice and submissive and i dont think theres more i can give to him  than all these, he gets my attention when he needs it, he has promised heaven and earth he wakes me up with promises, i need to forgive him and move on, shit happens everywhere, but shit dont happen unless  u allow it to happen anyway, thank u once again.

Great Osuite
Carry go jo!
U re in control
She just borrowed your guy 4 one nite
No long thing!!!
r231 (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mo
« #15 on: September 09, 2009, 12:00 PM »

Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 11:46 AM
THANK U ALL, i already placed him on probation to prove himselfy worthy, i cant lie about dis im still in love with him and i cant stand losing him to another girl. i know we girls can be stupid atimes,but how long will i continue to WALK, I AV  walked away 3times and im tired, i want to see if i can fight dis and win it, time will tell, only that iv started giving guys attention again, b4 i don lock up 4 my guy but it seems he doesnt deserve me, im very pretty,reserved nice and submissive and i dont think theres more i can give to him  than all these, he gets my attention when he needs it, he has promised heaven and earth he wakes me up with promises, i need to forgive him and move on, shit happens everywhere, but shit dont happen unless  u allow it to happen anyway, thank u once again.

Miss probation officer you better be on d lookout dis time and pay more attention this time but then again the guy is very very good at he talked his way out of dis
omar22 (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #16 on: September 09, 2009, 12:07 PM »

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trust me now as confirm O.S.U girl i scatter ground



ha ha ha ha,


hmmm interesting (why) My ex has slept in my flat for a whole week before her parents accepted her apology and her coming back home,  This girl was my first love, but we broke up,  she slept on my bed whilst i slept in the living room,  well Girlfriend then (who is my wife now) didnt find out, but nothing happened between me and her A lot went through my mind but I couldn’t make the move…on my ex who would have loved it if we get back together.

Now

(1) “trust me now as confirm O.S.U girl i scatter ground” as you mentioned earlier means you still care about this guy

(2) Telling his ex everything he said to you, means he should have left his past in the past, but he told you because he trusted you

(3) Now “different doesn’t mean better” you don’t know the truth but you don’t want to give him another chance, what guarantee that the next man won’t do it again? Because in the presence of both ladies he still chose you!!!

IGBORO TI DARU!!!
tush bobo (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #17 on: September 09, 2009, 12:21 PM »

who cares??
IYA NGBALI
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #18 on: September 09, 2009, 02:29 PM »

abeg leave matter stop crying over split milk there are lots of available guys and vacant beds go to the nearest one
shooze
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #19 on: September 09, 2009, 02:44 PM »

They actually didnt shag . what you saw can be explained by the following

1.the girl had cockroaches in her room hence her being in your guys room
2. Nepa carry light and she hot so she commot cloth wear boxers and tshirt
3. She was only giving him CPR as the boy get asthma attack

wales (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #20 on: September 09, 2009, 02:58 PM »

You better look for someone that will be more source than that your guy and you will also need to wake up from your sleep. A word is okay for the wise.  Grin Grin Grin
Aprilmay (f)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #21 on: September 09, 2009, 03:03 PM »

 Give him another chance,shit happens  Cool
pres-elect (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #22 on: September 09, 2009, 03:03 PM »

Quote from: shooze on September 09, 2009, 02:44 PM
They actually didnt shag . what you saw can be explained by the following

1.the girl had cockroaches in her room hence her being in your guys room


lie, it was rats that made her leave her room

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2. Nepa carry light and she hot so she commot cloth wear boxers and tshirt


another lie, her generator which your boyfriend bought for her stopped working, so she came for talks on a new generator

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3. She was only giving him CPR as the boy get asthma attack

3rd lie, haba Angry  it was a cardiac arrest that the guy had. he is not asthmatic. he had cardiac arrest and didnt want to die like his grandfather who died of heart attack. and the girl is an expert on CPR so wtf

say-d-fact (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mo
« #23 on: September 09, 2009, 03:10 PM »

Quote from: olapo on September 09, 2009, 10:04 AM
l i scatter ground but im heart broken, he asked for anoda chance but dont know wat to do, im afraid he is playing me

Take it easy, all we have this days are boy-friends / girlfriends material not husband / wife ones,  if u think he's your husband material, talk it over,
their no guarantee the next guy (yet unknown) wld be better,   Lips sealed Kiss Lips sealed
Dalby (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #24 on: September 09, 2009, 03:13 PM »

Try all means possible to get over him.
You will NEVER get over this issue even when you say you have forgiven him. When you see any girl around him this will flash back with all the emotions.
You will in the relationship be no longer free with him and always on guard. Even when he is not cheating you will cry foul.
It has gotten to the family level I know, those are excuses you are giving yourself because of the love you have for him!!! If you find out today that he is an armed robber, will you still say that Undecided
Thank your lucky stars it happened now and move on. It hurts but it will ultimately be for the best.
Na give another chance to the same old breed Nigeria take dey where she dey Lips sealed
Best of luck Cry
qkman
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #25 on: September 09, 2009, 03:13 PM »

@As confirm O S U gal!!!!!!
I c d reason why he's up for grabs, u self don talk am finish, we all know wat confirm O S U gals can do and wat dey r into.
Omoge,may be next time try to portray a better image for your self,how did u meet him? guess not on one of those O S U runs trip.
bawomolo (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #26 on: September 09, 2009, 03:15 PM »

why is a "friend" wearing his boxers and t-shirt.

Is that a new form of guest pajamas?
comp.geek (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #27 on: September 09, 2009, 03:22 PM »

Really its not for me to judge cause I dnt knw your boyfriend neither do I know U or his ex.

But what I do know is that our happiness lies in our hands. Some choices are hard to make and it seems the whole world could come to an end if we made those choices but in the long run run it makes a big difference.

Its up to U to decide. do whatever U think will make U happy on the long run and hope things go on well, 

Cheers
georgee (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #28 on: September 09, 2009, 03:33 PM »

and who's still dating all these OSU girls?
omar22 (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #29 on: September 09, 2009, 03:37 PM »

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You will NEVER get over this issue even when you say you have forgiven him. When you see any girl around him this will flash back with all the emotions.


Excuse me, then its not the guy that has the problem, but the lady who is not free, by letting outside events determine how she feels
y me (f)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #30 on: September 09, 2009, 03:38 PM »

@poster
use his head to play ball to confirm that u are really a O.S.U babe Grin
you need to get over him babe
i dont think he is worth it
omar22 (m)
Re: I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex-girlfriend On The Bed Very Early In The Mornin
« #31 on: September 09, 2009, 03:39 PM »

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and who's still dating all these OSU girls?

Why?

are they 2 for the price of one
are they buy now pay later
or are they buy one and get the next one FREE
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