After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?

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fyneboi
After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« on: September 10, 2009, 05:03 AM »

When a guy break up an engagement, is the girl suppose to return the engagement ring or keep it?
rokiatu (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #1 on: September 10, 2009, 07:36 AM »

for me I would throw it in the ocean
sexyLeamon (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #2 on: September 10, 2009, 07:41 AM »

Quote from: rokiatu on September 10, 2009, 07:36 AM
for me I would throw it in the ocean
Grin Grin Grin Grin ditto
whitelexi (m)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #3 on: September 10, 2009, 07:46 AM »

Quote from: fyneboi on September 10, 2009, 05:03 AM
When a guy break up an engagement, is the girl suppose to return the engagement ring or keep it?

Act the bigger person, dont even ask. . .  She can keep it for memory's sake, or she can derive some joy [or think she does] from throwing it in anywhere she like. . .  At the end of the day, she was the one wearing it so. . .  Tongue Grin Tongue Grin
iice (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #4 on: September 10, 2009, 02:53 PM »

Whatever jare.  .  .if he wants it, he can have it.
If he wants me to keep it, i'll add it to my outfit.  .  .make a charm for bracelet or something. 
madlady (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #5 on: September 10, 2009, 02:55 PM »

Sell it and split the money Grin Grin Grin.
iice (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #6 on: September 10, 2009, 03:05 PM »

^^Haha good one! Cheesy
candyshore
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #7 on: September 10, 2009, 03:13 PM »

i think u should return it
angola_g (m)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #8 on: September 10, 2009, 03:50 PM »

Returning the ring is a good Option. Can some one really tell me how I could engage this particular chick that rocks ma world. How would she know I am seroiuse??
izeek (m)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #9 on: September 10, 2009, 03:54 PM »

u mean that very expensive ring i had to forgo 2months pay to buy,
return my thing jare!
Caspery (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #10 on: September 10, 2009, 07:58 PM »

Well i think the girl is supposed to return it to the ex-fiancee cos that ring was a sign of commitment for marriage and since that's no longer going to hold, i guess the girl should give it back to the guy. period
chinesedoll (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #11 on: September 10, 2009, 08:18 PM »

I am not returning jack
I dey go the nearest Aboki to pawn it Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
y me (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #12 on: September 10, 2009, 08:21 PM »

if it is gold or diamond that worth alot of money
i am returning NADA
he can go but the ring stays Grin
chinesedoll (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #13 on: September 10, 2009, 09:12 PM »

Quote from: y me on September 10, 2009, 08:21 PM
if it is gold or diamond that worth alot of money
i am returning NADA
he can go but the ring stays Grin

I have always known that we have some thing in common Grin Grin Grin Grin
y me (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #14 on: September 10, 2009, 09:18 PM »

Quote from: chinesedoll on September 10, 2009, 09:12 PM
I have always known that we have some thing in common Grin Grin Grin Grin
we nor dey slack at all
we always hold our side well Grin Grin
Secretz (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #15 on: September 10, 2009, 09:47 PM »

Reminisce and admire the ring on my way to the Pawn brokers  Grin   Tongue
fyneboi
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #16 on: September 11, 2009, 04:23 AM »


I seriously think the ring should be returned
tpia.
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #17 on: September 11, 2009, 04:28 AM »

depends.

if he's a jerk, keep the ring.

If there are no hard feelings, you may or may not return it.

But generally, if he doesnt ask, then why bother imo.

What does he need it for anyway.
fyneboi
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #18 on: September 11, 2009, 04:32 AM »


So he can sell it and make some of the money he purchased the ring back.  The ring could

cost from $2,000 - $10,000. Before he gave the ring to the girl, he asked "will you marry me?"

She said yes, then he gave her the ring upon saying yes, but since it didnt happen anymore,

he should give back the ring simple
tpia.
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #19 on: September 11, 2009, 02:22 PM »

well, he gave her the ring, not loaned her.

Returning it is a matter of choice, I should think.
CrazyMan (m)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #20 on: September 11, 2009, 03:09 PM »

If I break up an engagement, I won't collect back the ring I gave; I'll let her keep it because collecting a ring from your ex and presenting it to the girl you wish to marry would be classified as an act of stupidity.

The saying goes thus. . get a new ring for the new girl, and let the old ring go with the old girl
katy80
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #21 on: September 11, 2009, 11:15 PM »

I I broke up depends maybe the action happened in his house and  know I'm done, I will trow it on him,
katy80
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #22 on: September 11, 2009, 11:17 PM »

If I broke up depends maybe the action happened in his house and  know I'm done, I will trow it on him,
Yumi (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #23 on: September 11, 2009, 11:34 PM »

I would give it back to him, he paid for it.  Why would I want to keep it?  If he gives it to another girl that would be a bit funny tho cause he is meant to buy her a new one.
katy80
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #24 on: September 11, 2009, 11:44 PM »

Using my Sister's id to respond to this Grin

Wetin u won tell me,  if na those 5 cent's worth of rings, Carry am go but if na even from $$$$200 to 100k Nnaa she go vomitam out even if na inside belle we engageput the ring,   Abi make em next guy sellam? carry smoke crack or weed, 

but come oo,  why the break-up self>>>>?
kwibus7
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #25 on: September 12, 2009, 12:00 AM »

ring??? MY PRECCCCCIOUSSSSSSS,  you mussssst bbeeee KIDDINNGGGG!!!!!!


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CrazyMan (m)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #26 on: September 12, 2009, 05:22 PM »

Oh! my dear gollum; I really love that guy  Smiley
tRoOE (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #27 on: September 15, 2009, 04:15 AM »

Will pawn the damn ring
gifty99200 (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #28 on: September 15, 2009, 12:34 PM »

ring ? Back to sender to aviod hinderance abeg.
sayso (m)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #29 on: September 15, 2009, 12:43 PM »

pls give it back
foyeks2001 (f)
Re: Who Gets The Engagement Ring
« #30 on: September 15, 2009, 12:54 PM »

return wetin? keep for useless memory?i dey mad? nah to go wuse market go sell am sharp sharp to my customer and take buy a nice pendant for my lovely neck(i go add money if the money no do) be dat oo
foyeks2001 (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #31 on: September 15, 2009, 12:57 PM »

the ring don enter voicemail be dat oo, na reward for heartbreak i collect and besides for the  do do wey e don do me
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