After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?

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denony (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #64 on: September 15, 2009, 04:46 PM »

But in case i decide to give
and we decided a breakup.  Shocked

well she can keep it, cos u have to let the dead bury the dead  Grin
jay bee (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #65 on: September 15, 2009, 04:49 PM »

I am asking for the dam thing back not when i had to use 3* my monthly salary to buy it.  Grin Grin

Jokes  Cool
foyeks2001 (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #66 on: September 15, 2009, 04:52 PM »

Quote from: denony on September 15, 2009, 04:46 PM
But in case i decide to give
and we decided a breakup. Shocked

well she can keep it, cos u have to let the dead bury the dead Grin

How do u mean?(the brain u are dialling is incorrect, pls check the brain and dial again)
hbabe (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #67 on: September 15, 2009, 04:55 PM »

Whoever has the ring on their finger should keep it.  Cheesy
foyeks2001 (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #68 on: September 15, 2009, 04:57 PM »

Quote from: hbabe on September 15, 2009, 04:55 PM
Whoever has the ring on their finger should keep it. Cheesy

Good talk, I love this
brein
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #69 on: September 15, 2009, 05:02 PM »

Throw it to ma wardrobe
nwachi2 (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #70 on: September 15, 2009, 05:04 PM »


Well i think the girl is supposed to return it to the ex-fiancee cos that ring was a sign of commitment for marriage and since that's no longer going to hold, i guess the girl should give it back to the guy. period
foyeks2001 (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #71 on: September 15, 2009, 05:08 PM »

Quote from: nwachi2 on September 15, 2009, 05:04 PM
Well i think the girl is supposed to return it to the ex-fiancee cos that ring was a sign of commitment for marriage and since that's no longer going to hold, i guess the girl should give it back to the guy. period


the brain u are dialling is switched off, pls try again later
okeey (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #72 on: September 15, 2009, 05:12 PM »

ha,d girl shd still keep it with her
naylove (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #73 on: September 15, 2009, 05:19 PM »

is it that they agree to break up at a later time even b4 marriage.na wa oh. n
u people think the darndest thing.  men.
thirdi (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #74 on: September 15, 2009, 05:37 PM »

Well for me i always buy very cheap rings for as much gals as i can and make them believe that they are originals

by the time we break up they must have paid for the ring in full with profit ,  Grin

they can keep it
denony (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #75 on: September 15, 2009, 05:38 PM »

@foyeks2001
Maybe you are sick and needs medical attention  Grin
are dialed adict?  Shocked
denony (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #76 on: September 15, 2009, 05:41 PM »

maybe u are brainwashed and dialed adicted
waooo
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #77 on: September 15, 2009, 05:50 PM »

give me my ring jare.
Eaglebabe
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #78 on: September 15, 2009, 06:13 PM »

What type of ring are u all taking about.How many guys can afford good rings for engagement these days.So get to know the quality of the ring without saying what to do with the ring when the game is off.
Positivity (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #79 on: September 15, 2009, 06:29 PM »

I pray it never happens to me. . . .  Amen. Wink But come to think of it why would any rational guy want that kind of ring back? For one, it'll bring back too many sad memories and the idea is to move on not hold on! IMHO.
big-ben
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #80 on: September 15, 2009, 06:41 PM »

back to sender giver;D
MrNice_Guy
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #81 on: September 15, 2009, 07:20 PM »

well let her keep the ring, cos you are meant to buy another one for your woman
George_D (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #82 on: September 15, 2009, 07:38 PM »

@foyeks2001,
do you have to be so mad at everybody? you're beginning to sound like a jilted lover to me, or are you one? Grin
busygirl (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #83 on: September 15, 2009, 07:48 PM »

I am definately sure that anger will make me throw the ring back at him. I think it's not healthy to keep such memories. The best thing is to do is throw the ring away Wink
Theblessed (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #84 on: September 15, 2009, 07:58 PM »

Well, after a break-up, it's usually traditional for the lady to hand back the engagement ring to the guy, simple!.  He can do whatever he likes with it e.g sell it, pawn it to the pawn-brokers or BIN IT - these are things he could do with it so, you can see the giver is never at a loss with his ring.  In fact, if there's any loss from the relationship, it's actually the lady that has lost a bit of her DIGNITY in terms of her HONOUR and RESPECT, ok! Not the man because, this is a man's world and women knows that hence our battle with them - the BATTLE OF THE SEXES.lol!!!!!!!!!!!!
J.Kramer (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #85 on: September 15, 2009, 08:03 PM »

that ring is effing solemn, Immediately after the break-up d guy doesnt even have to ask for it, d girl's brain for don tell am say she gas return am! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

okay chill, families dat the sons use their moms or grandmoms engagement ring for their own intended(and it seriously happens), will dey now say that because d wedding wont be again,they'lol leave d ring to d girl. Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh
DISTINCT89 (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #86 on: September 15, 2009, 08:39 PM »

Quote from: Positivity on September 15, 2009, 06:29 PM
I pray it never happens to me. . . .  Amen. Wink But come to think of it why would any rational guy want that kind of ring back? For one, it'll bring back too many sad memories and the idea is to move on not hold on! IMHO.
But if the guy threaten you about the ring won't you give it to him.

As for me, if I am a lady I think I will throw it into the river.
Yumi (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #87 on: September 15, 2009, 08:42 PM »

Give to Ceasar what is Ceasar's - the bible Smiley  Wink Smiley
Positivity (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #88 on: September 15, 2009, 08:43 PM »

Quote from: DISTINCT89 on September 15, 2009, 08:39 PM
But if the guy threaten you about the ring won't you give it to him.

Dude, I'm a guy. Just asking my fellow guys why they'd want to hold on to such unpleasant memories is all. Wink
Missy B (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #89 on: September 15, 2009, 08:54 PM »

Quote from: DISTINCT89 on September 15, 2009, 08:39 PM
As for me, if I am a lady I think I will throw it into the river.
Wait till You become a Lady then You'D come up wiff sum'N' berra to do with the Ring.

Throw it into the river  . . . .For Y? For whales to swallow?
chi-baby (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #90 on: September 15, 2009, 08:56 PM »

@topic

wud pass da ring bk 2 him  Cool
Anabel (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #91 on: September 15, 2009, 09:25 PM »

I no go sell am at alll, i go throw am for him face right there,  if i keep am, e go dey give me nightmare. Aboki sef go reject that type of thing.
ceasyc (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #92 on: September 15, 2009, 11:07 PM »

@topic
according 2 Judge Judy (u.s.a) d lady has 2 return d ring 2 d guy
dat is if he paid for it. if he takes u 2 court re d ring, u will have 2return it or pay him bk 4 it
that's d law over there n i think it applies everywhere
Sprumbaba
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #93 on: September 15, 2009, 11:24 PM »

Being there, done that. The engagement ring was $1,800. I demanded for it, got it, sold it and used the money to register for a nice course to improve my career. I will never be happy with myself if i did not get it back(She does not need it anymore).I wont form big boy at all.
lexibaba (m)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #94 on: September 15, 2009, 11:45 PM »

Quote from: Sprumbaba on September 15, 2009, 11:24 PM
Being there, done that. The engagement ring was $1,800. I demanded for it, got it, sold it and used the money to register for a nice course to improve my career. I will never be happy with myself if i did not get it back(She does not need it anymore).I wont form big boy at all.


gbabe!
big boy ke loju thousands of £$
if its possible sef i'll collect it b4 breaking up if i kno she might destroy or throw it away.
kellorah (f)
Re: After Breakup: Who Gets The Engagement Ring?
« #95 on: September 16, 2009, 12:23 AM »

The decent thing to do is to return it, unless he asks u to keep it.

But if u feel like punishing him, u can throw it in the ocean lol. . . .or carry on rocking it.
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