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Udode (f)
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Hi Everyone
I have really been looking forward to go to nigeria on christmas and to enjoy my stay in the village of my husband.
But lately he is not so sure if he should take me along agian, since there has been a lot of kidnapping and he does not want to risk anything.
I am really upset and I would be very sad if I couldnt go to enjoy chirstmas in nigeria just because of some crazy kidnappers.
What do you think, is it really too dangerous for a white woman to go to anambra state (flying to port harcourt) these days or do you think that what we hear over here in europe is exagerated?
Thank you for your reply, I am curious to see what you say,
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justwise (m)
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Hi Everyone
I have really been looking forward to go to nigeria on christmas and to enjoy my stay in the village of my husband.
But lately he is not so sure if he should take me along agian, since there has been a lot of kidnapping and he does not want to risk anything.
I am really upset and I would be very sad if I couldnt go to enjoy chirstmas in nigeria just because of some crazy kidnappers.
What do you think, is it really too dangerous for a white woman to go to anambra state (flying to port harcourt) these days or do you think that what we hear over here in europe is exagerated?
Thank you for your reply, I am curious to see what you say,
your husband is right, i can understand how u feel but he is concerned. The kidnapping thing is real, but u can still enjoy your stay with careful planing |
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kood
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Anambra state is not a dangerous state to be. You are free to go with your husband to Nigeria expect for other reason he do not want you to visit. But as regard to kidnapping, you would not be kidnap by any person. Eastern Nigeria is a peaceful region. there are many other people from other parts of the world that have visited this region with their husband or wife. It is only in the Nigerdelta region that you have this problem even there it is not too risk as always broadcast on TVs or read on newspapers. Because there are still white people in Nigerdelta that works in most oil companies there and it is only a hand few of this people that are being kidnap.
There are only some few rubbery attacks in different part of Nigeria which I think if your husband is careful that will not happen to both of you.
So you should feel free to go to Nigeria with your husband and I bet you, you will enjoy your visit there. You will experience different culture.
I wish you good luck!
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Udode (f)
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I have been to nigeria this spring (march) and I really loved it. But i have to say that the uncle of my husband had been kidnapped that time and only got released after they payed a big amount of money. So i know that kidnapping is there. And I have to admit that it was not much fun being afraid all the time.
I am just angry because i think that these kidnapping issues will not have an end soon, which means that i will not be able to travel to nigeria?!? NO iw ill def. not accept that,
I know i have to be careful (i hardly went out on the streets this summer and i was always accompanied by several people. But these people are telling my husband that things have got worse, which makes him and myself very unsure!
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justwise (m)
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Anambra state is not a dangerous state to be. You are free to go with your husband to Nigeria expect for other reason he do not want you to visit. But as regard to kidnapping, you would not be kidnap by any person. Eastern Nigeria is a peaceful region. there are many other people from other parts of the world that have visited this region with their husband or wife. It is only in the Nigerdelta region that you have this problem even there it is not too risk as always broadcast on TVs or read on newspapers. Because there are still white people in Nigerdelta that works in most oil companies there and it is only a hand few of this people that are being kidnap.
There are only some few rubbery attacks in different part of Nigeria which I think if your husband is careful that will not happen to both of you.
So you should feel free to go to Nigeria with your husband and I bet you, you will enjoy your visit there. You will experience different culture.
I wish you good luck!
Are u kidding me? This is somebody's life we are talking about here. Do u know how those white in Niger-delta go about their businesses? Do u know how many security personels that go around with them? How can u say that its only hand few of pple? YES we all lov Nigeria but lets be honest here, things are pretty bad, one need to be careful how we go about selling Nigeria |
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K2
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I have been to nigeria this spring (march) and I really loved it. But i have to say that the uncle of my husband had been kidnapped that time and only got released after they payed a big amount of money. So i know that kidnapping is there. And I have to admit that it was not much fun being afraid all the time.
I am just angry because i think that these kidnapping issues will not have an end soon, which means that i will not be able to travel to nigeria?!? NO iw ill def. not accept that,
I know i have to be careful (i hardly went out on the streets this summer and i was always accompanied by several people. But these people are telling my husband that things have got worse, which makes him and myself very unsure!
Women of other culture married to Nigerians and wanting to be a part of their culture like you are a rarity. As much as it'd be much fun to go to the village with your husband during Xmas, I'd suggest that you take your husband's advice. It's just too dangerous. Flying into PH also doesn't help matters. Anambra also has been witnessing increase in armed robberies and kidnapping as well. It's possible you'd be a conspicuos target. Why don't you suggest to your husband you guys spend it in another part of Naija or go somewhere else? Also, I wouldn't trust the scenario whereby the husband would spend Xmas by himself in the village. Village girls aplenty would have other plans and also other girls returing from the big city. |
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justwise (m)
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Women of other culture married to Nigerians and wanting to be a part of their culture like you are a rarity. As much as it'd be much fun to go to the village with your husband during Xmas, I'd suggest that you take your husband's advice. It's just too dangerous. Flying into PH also doesn't help matters. Anambra also has been witnessing increase in armed robberies and kidnapping as well. It's possible you'd be a conspicuos target. Why don't you suggest to your husband you guys spend it in another part of Naija or go somewhere else? Also, I wouldn't trust the scenario whereby the husband would spend Xmas by himself in the village. Village girls aplenty would have other plans and also other girls returing from the big city.
God bless u for saying it as its |
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Udode (f)
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@k2
thanx for your advise, but
i am not going with my husband for controll!!!!!!! i know who i have and even if he goes alone, so what, he has been to naija this summer for 7 weeks without me, that is not the issue, it is just that i want to go too, i love the country and i love the people and i have heard sooo many good things about xmas in nigeria, and yes of course i could stay in lagos throughout, but where is the fun without the family and the palmwine in the village!!!
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morpheus24
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Women of other culture married to Nigerians and wanting to be a part of their culture like you are a rarity. As much as it'd be much fun to go to the village with your husband during Xmas, I'd suggest that you take your husband's advice. It's just too dangerous. Flying into PH also doesn't help matters. Anambra also has been witnessing increase in armed robberies and kidnapping as well. It's possible you'd be a conspicuos target. Why don't you suggest to your husband you guys spend it in another part of Naija or go somewhere else? Also, I wouldn't trust the scenario whereby the husband would spend Xmas by himself in the village. Village girls aplenty would have other plans and also other girls returing from the big city.
AMEBO! na una dey plant bad thing for Oyinbo mind. |
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K2
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AMEBO! na una dey plant bad thing for Oyinbo mind.
Abi that's the kind of person you are? We are talking about marriage here not girl friend runs. We all know what goes on in Xmas escapades. It's a very common practise unless you are a eunuch or gay. I wouldn't play with a match unless I want to start some fire. @Udode. Ok. |
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morpheus24
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We all know what goes on in Xmas escapades.
Matches ko! Fire ni! How do you know, Abi dem don do you Amebo? Stop planting bad seed in the girl head. |
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morpheus24
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@ udode
I have been hearing bad stories coming out of the East from friends,though none has had personal experiencies their reports are alarming and I can only take them at face value as to the details.
You go at your own risk, especially during Xmas time. Most of these crimes are not random and done by close associates who monitor your movement I think other times of the year are relatively safer.
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3doorsdown
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The Kidnapping, unfortunately is REAL. But you can also enjoy Christmas in other places like Lagos and Abuja where you dont have this crisis.
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babaearly (m)
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@ udode
Dont come to Nigeria any time soon. Christmas is on the way and Whites like you are really hot cake for Kidnappers. Even people close to you might conspire on this. Just my opinion. So stay back fo your own good.
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mystikal (m)
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stories coming from the east are not very encourarging, but you could have equal fun in Lagos and Abuja like ppl have said here. You could also visit Calabar during the Xmas, the Carnivals and music festivals makes it a place 2 be @ xmas too.
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totorimi
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Dear Udode,
My candid advise to you if you love your life and that of your hubby is to keep off from that region for now, some strange beings have invaded the land, people who have found passion in kidnapping, robbing and rituals. For now just take the advise of your hubby for real those criminals have strategised on how to make this years Xmas a nightmare especially for those coming from abroad. And the unfortunate thing is that those bastards who call themselves Chief Security officers of the state are engrossed in next years election than to think of your safety. So my dear keep off a word is enough for the wise. Leave the place for those who harbors them in their midst. Whenever God decides to intervene in our situations we shall know. Once again in your own interest KEEP OFF FROM THAT AREA. You can tell anyone that ones to see you when you arrive to meet you in ABUJA or LAGOS for now. That area is a no go zone.
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chosen04 (f)
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Anambra is safe. But be careful
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platinumnk (f)
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I cant belive all this bullsh!t u say about the east!!  If u arent from there shut up! @Topic- Nothing do you. Neyo is from Ananbra State and he came home just fine. I met him. If u mind your own business and keep close to family, you will be fine. SMH |
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babaearly (m)
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@ udode
You are just to pretty for me to risk your safety in 9ja, if i was your husband.
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jkemzy (m)
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Security is a major concern in Nigeria,especially in the south south and south east.As a white woman,you stand the risk of being abducted even from your family house once the perpetrators sence that they can make some money off you. The situation is even worsened by the fact that Anambra state is getting set for the gubernatorial election and it is always associated with a lot of violence. Be wise and listen to your husband as your safety is not guaranteed even if you have to employ the services of body guards. its is as bad as that.
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playah P (m)
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welcome to Nigeria
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platinumnk (f)
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so are u saying ugly ppl should only visit the east
olodo
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platinumnk (f)
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Security is a major concern in Nigeria,especially in the south south and south east.As a white woman,you stand the risk of being abducted even from your family house once the perpetrators sence that they can make some money off you. The situation is even worsened by the fact that Anambra state is getting set for the gubernatorial election and it is always associated with a lot of violence. Be wise and listen to your husband as your safety is not guaranteed even if you have to employ the services of body guards. its is as bad as that.
where are u getting your crap from |
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isiegonwa
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you can end up in abuja,lagos,calabar
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OvieE
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I will not advice my own family member to go to Nigeria during Christmas time nor any other time. Going to Nigeria during Christmas time is a suicidal anywhere in the country. That is where arm robbers are commom and take over all Nigeria roads. But going to Anabra is like going to your early grave. If a popular actor can be kidnapped, what makes you left out especially when you are white. Even your husband is putting himself at risk for going there. Anything can happen just because he is foreigner as well. Nigeria is not even safe to Nigerians that live there.
Listen to you husband. That is why God made him the head of the house to make a decision. Good luck.
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diggler (m)
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Hello Ma,
U can join your husband in said trip back home if u people take the proper security precautions.
And it is very simple
Kidnappings succeed simply because these guys do their homework well and get enough information.
So to thwart any such attempt, your husband & urself should be very stingy about information concerning your trip.
Basically, u guys should sneak in like ghosts and b4 ppl realise u guys r around, u're gone.
Also u might want to be redo your sleeping arrangements.
However, if u r not up to playing such cat & mouse game, then i'd advise y'all to stay back and lets hope the situation improves.
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morpheus24
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I will not advice my own family member to go to Nigeria during Christmas time nor any other time. Going to Nigeria during Christmas time is a suicidal anywhere in the country. That is where arm robbers are commom and take over all Nigeria roads. But going to Anabra is like going to your early grave. If a popular actor can be kidnapped, what makes you left out especially when you are white. Even your husband is putting himself at risk for going there. Anything can happen just because he is foreigner as well. Nigeria is not even safe to Nigerians that live there.
Listen to you husband. That is why God made him the head of the house to make a decision. Good luck.
Thats too much, no be all of Naija bad like that please don't do over kill and scare the lady. |
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semid4lyfe (m)
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Anambra is a big place. I think kidnapping is more rampant in the major cities ( Onitsha, Nnewi, Awka etc) than in the interior villages so I think to a large extent your safety depends on where you'll actually be staying.
IMO, the villages are relatively safer than the cities.
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nwachi2 (m)
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Dont come to Nigeria any time soon. Christmas is on the way and Whites like you are really hot cake for Kidnappers. Even people close to you might conspire on this. Just my opinion. So stay back fo your own go
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OvieE
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Dont come to Nigeria any time soon. Christmas is on the way and Whites like you are really hot cake for Kidnappers. Even people close to you might conspire on this. Just my opinion. So stay back fo your own go
Listen to the warning. Christmas time is not a joke in Nigeria. I used to live there. If you value your life, stay where you are. |
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