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AmeriGurl (f)
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Okay I heard you guys could be pretty harsh, but at this point I’m desperate for truthful answers,
Okay I was dating this naja guy that I had grown quit attached to, we dated for a lil over 5mos, I recently broke up with him because he was always wanting to show me off to his friends. (please not being boastful) however , he always suggest that we do things that most of the time included others, well I confronted him and told him I preferred we got to know each other a bit more before we included friends… and he stated that he was proud of me Blah BLaH ….he wanted to show me off….BLAH BLAH, I’m pissed because I don’t mine being social….but I need a little more personal and alone time to get to know him first, well I broke up because I felt like he was only interested in my exterior and not my interior, in addition to this, he would ask me to text him pics of me all the time which was so effen annoying, to add fuel to flame I think he lied about his age which make him about 30yrs older than me where initially I thought the gap was only 10yrs, well NLers I really like this guy but I think he is so full of shit please help…. a friend told me this was the best place in the world to seek counsel, besides its free, hehehehehehehe
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PC busayo (f)
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Okay I heard you guys could be pretty harsh, but at this point I’m desperate for truthful answers,
Okay I was dating this naja guy that I had grown quit attached to, we dated for a lil over 5mos, I recently broke up with him because he was always wanting to show me off to his friends. (please not being boastful) however , he always suggest that we do things that most of the time included others, well I confronted him and told him I preferred we got to know each other a bit more before we included friends… and he stated that he was proud of me Blah BLaH ….he wanted to show me off….BLAH BLAH, I’m pissed because I don’t mine being social….but I need a little more personal and alone time to get to know him first, well I broke up because I felt like he was only interested in my exterior and not my exterior, in addition to this, he would ask me to text him pics of me all the time which was so effen annoying, to add flame to fuel I think he lied about his age which make him about 30yrs older than me where initially I thought the gap was only 10yrs, well NLers I really like this guy but I think he is so full of shit please help…. a friend told me this was the best place in the world to seek counsel, besides its free, hehehehehehehe are you living in the same country ? |
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~Sauron~
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Okay I heard you guys could be pretty harsh, but at this point I’m desperate for truthful answers,
Okay I was dating this naja guy that I had grown quit attached to, we dated for a lil over 5mos, I recently broke up with him because he was always wanting to show me off to his friends. (please not being boastful) however , he always suggest that we do things that most of the time included others, well I confronted him and told him I preferred we got to know each other a bit more before we included friends… and he stated that he was proud of me Blah BLaH ….he wanted to show me off….BLAH BLAH, I’m pissed because I don’t mine being social….but I need a little more personal and alone time to get to know him first, well I broke up because I felt like he was only interested in my exterior and not my interior, in addition to this, he would ask me to text him pics of me all the time which was so effen annoying, to add fuel to flame I think he lied about his age which make him about 30yrs older than me where initially I thought the gap was only 10yrs, well NLers I really like this guy but I think he is so full of shit please help…. a friend told me this was the best place in the world to seek counsel, besides its free, hehehehehehehe
Did u dump him because of the age difference or was it because he sees you as a trophy girl/f? |
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tpia.
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30 years older than you?  |
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whiteroses (f)
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even you sef! i tell my ones dont go out with a guy 10 years older than you its just well wrong, and now you suspect its 30 years older? dint you suspect anything at first dump him, i dont know him but any guy that wants to use his girl to show off must be a very uncool person dump his ass
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viperman (m)
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So you left all the handsome, well mannered, god fearing, fun filled young men in your age group to go and date a man possibly 30yrs older than you.
Some of you girls can be silly at times.
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~Sauron~
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So you left all the handsome, well mannered, god fearing, fun filled young men in your age group to go and date a man possibly 30yrs older than you.
Some of you girls can be silly at times.
Age is an issue of mind over matter. The issue of age is not really important as far as both of them are adults. |
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AmeriGurl (f)
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@viperman
I always like well matured men, but this guy lied not my fault oh!!!! Just that he was sooooooooo handsome and I swear he don’t look a day over 30
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~Sauron~
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@poster You are contemplating wasting your life with someone that's so full of shit? Your own words not mine  Think about it. She likes mature men. . . . .Wetin be your own? |
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stillwater (f)
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She likes mature men. . . . .Wetin be your own?
The man doesn't sound mentally mature. |
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AmeriGurl (f)
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@stillwater  Sorry love knocked me down, but the important thing is I broke it off for time to reflect, most likely it over for good |
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Yumi (f)
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@viperman
I always like well matured men, but this guy lied not my fault oh!!!! Just that he was sooooooooo handsome and I swear he don’t look a day over 30
Sorry dear it looks like he really conned you. I have been conned before too, its hard to deal with and quite painful sometimes. So sorry dear. |
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~Sauron~
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The man doesn't sound mentally mature.
What is immature about the man? The fact that he adores the body of his partner?? That's the attraction. That was what he saw in the OP in the first place(the selling point). I don't see anything wrong in what the dude is demanding. . . . . . . . |
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AmeriGurl (f)
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@sauron
I agree but gosh it became too much what about my desire to spend alone time,
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stillwater (f)
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@stillwater Sorry love knocked me down, but the important thing is I broke it off for time to reflect, most likely it over for good Reflect more, you really don't want to spend your life with someone who doesn't have time for you but his social network.  What is immature about the man? The fact that he adores the body of his partner??
That's the attraction. That was what he saw in the OP in the first place(the selling point).
I don't see anything wrong in what the dude is demanding. . . . . . . .
She expects depth in the relationship and he's not willing to give it. You have a relationship with a guy yet he refuses to connect on a personal level with you? What the heck, move on. |
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pc guru (m)
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The rate at which pple post problems about relationships here.I'm getting paranoid.Your post mostly on infidelity making's me ponder if i ever find love or end up with some schemar.
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pc guru (m)
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@tope trust me it's not written on the face. Pple think i'm a 18 when i'm old enough to father a kid.
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~Sauron~
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I believe the OP exaggerated. 30 yrs older? If she's 25 then it means the dude is 55? How come? @sauron
I agree but gosh it became too much what about my desire to spend alone time,
Then tell him to reduce the number of outings. Communicate with your partner and save yourself the heartache. She expects depth in the relationship and he's not willing to give it. You have a relationship with a guy yet he refuses to connect on a personal level with you? What the heck, move on.
This habit of yours of always disposing stuffs will get you into trouble one day too soon. A is faulty(dump A). . . . .B snores(bin B). . . . . .C is a workaholic(break up with C) What happened to fixing instead of replacing? |
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Yumi (f)
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The rate at which pple post problems about relationships here.I'm getting paranoid.Your post mostly on infidelity making's me ponder if i ever find love or end up with some schemar.
Lol I know its hard to find a sincere lover nowadays who is faithful. |
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davidylan (m)
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This habit of yours of always disposing stuffs will get you into trouble one day too soon.
A is faulty(dump A). . . . .B snores(bin B). . . . . .C is a workaholic(break up with C)
What happened to fixing instead of replacing?
lol never believe all that stuff, its a front women put up to make themselves important. When push comes to shove how many women will just through out a 2-yr relationship over silly excuses?  |
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davidylan (m)
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Lol I know its hard to find a sincere lover nowadays who is faithful.
its actually not that hard. |
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TOPE2000! (f)
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@tope trust me it's not written on the face. Pple think i'm a 18 when i'm old enough to father a kid.
Errrrrrr if some1 is older than u by 30yrs u'd know, no matter how babyface his face might be, the other parts of his body will tell  na today I believe the OP exaggerated.
30 yrs older? If she's 25 then it means the dude is 55?
How come?
Maybe the poster overlooked at the fact he might be older cuz the guy rich shes just complaining now cuz she tired of his ass |
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~Sauron~
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lol never believe all that stuff, its a front women put up to make themselves important. When push comes to shove how many women will just through out a 2-yr relationship over silly excuses? I tire for Naija sisters. @ TOPE2000, What parts of his body? I hope u don't mean his weapon of mass. . . . |
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stillwater (f)
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This habit of yours of always disposing stuffs will get you into trouble one day too soon.
A is faulty(dump A). . . . .B snores(bin B). . . . . .C is a workaholic(break up with C)
What happened to fixing instead of replacing?
Is he ready to be fixed? Text me your pics, she does it. Wear that sexy dress so I'll show you off to my friends every freaking day? She does it. Ok let's get to know each other better. . .ehn. . . beep. . . .beep Who won't get pissed if that's the only way he feels he can connect with her? |
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chic2pimp (m)
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I tire for Naija sisters. @ TOPE2000, What parts of his body? I hope u don't mean his weapon of mass. . . . Na you talk am oooo . My naija babes sharon offers his apologies to y'all. |
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pc guru (m)
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It's hard mehn it's like everybody f:cking everybody.Though i don't cheat.Let me let you on a secret i've never cheated cuz i've never being on a relationship.Got this thing with commitment issue even with friends.But 30 years mehn ameri i think you should honestly look for someone around your age.Even my grand-dad is just 18 years older than his daughter that's just 3 much.
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