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totalfact (m)
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Honestly, I do not agree with all of you. it is easier said than done. Relationship is not easy.
Please, re-unite if you wish, it it is not compulsory!
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Marymos
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I think the age difference is too much.There is this my course mate in my undergraduate days at the university that was very beautiful.Infact if not becos i was very young then to start thinking of marriage,i would have gone for her but unfortunately she was married.Her husband do come to the campus to check on her but she keeps on hiding him.One day unfortunately i accidentally saw her and her husband and i couldn't believe what i saw.The man was far older than her.The age difference should be up to 30yrs or more.Affection can grow and die so be yourself.Although age is not a function of successful marriage.But why did he initially hide his age from you?
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eyonigger (m)
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Poster I think you are right, he is only using you as a trophy chic, the same thing happened to my gf, her exes always want to show her off, they were only in love with hea beauty and not of every other quality she possesses, but she figured out I was not about the beauty only, and thats why she is stuck to me ever since. Free the guy.
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Eaglebabe
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You said he is 30yrs older than u are?Increadible!How old are that u are dating a man 30yrs older than u are?If u are 20 which means he is 50.Are u sureeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?There is something u are not telling us.When u say the truth l will advise u.Nladers are not fools.
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Mis-teeq (f)
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Hmmm let me see he likes taking out only in groups AND is 30 yrs older.should be obvious to even you that you need to dump his ass now.u can do better
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Basildon1
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You said he is 30yrs older than u are?Increadible!How old are that u are dating a man 30yrs older than u are?If u are 20 which means he is 50.Are u sureeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?There is something u are not telling us.When u say the truth l will advise u.Nladers are not fools.
I simply dont undertsand how the thread got this long, the story is simply incredible - 20 yrs to 50 yrs/25 to 55/30 to 60!!There's no point to the advice, this is attention seeking! 30 yrs difference and you didnt notice, your dad has to be in nineties!! |
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justwise (m)
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U refering to me?  |
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koolchicco
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U refering to me? Yes ofcourse,She is. |
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justwise (m)
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Yes ofcourse,She is.
ahaha, how u carry know? |
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koolchicco
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ahaha, how u carry know?
. .Cos Pikin wey talk say em mama no go sleep,himself don wave sleep bye bye.  |
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Nezan (m)
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Thank God you cut off from that sin, never repeat it again!
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Ujujoan (f)
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lol. @ tope wanting to be a trophy chic. hahha well, if you actually liked the guy, u would change your mind. the key point here is that he doesn't care for you. what he cares most about his his friends' opinion of you. i.e you being beautiful to him doesn't matter. as long as you're beautiful to his friends  . imagine u fall in love with that kind of guy who is using you to make himself look like a "big boy" notice some of these girls are foreigners sef. so you get the idea. they're using u to gain respect/ influence among their friends. i mean even if he does like you somewhat, it can be depressing to find out what his other motives are for being with you. you will ask urself the question will he stay with you or love you even if his friends disapproved of you? kinda reminds me of gabby's bf who lets his friends listen to their personal convos over the phone without her consent. http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=316874.msg4450675#msg4450675^ i'm not saying gabby's situation is the same as hers. it just reminded me of it. lol Is Tope the poster ??  |
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darqly (m)
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Ain't nothing bad in being a trophy U get carried EVERYWHERE. |
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opepo (m)
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well if u ar having doubts about him and the relation ship, then it cant be rite, it good u broke it off.
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franctony (m)
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@poster
i dont see anything wrong with showing off with your beauty or whatever. i think what is really important is the love u share, like u said that u love him. also find out very well if he is really lying about his age.i think u should also stop sending him your pic if u have already sent one or two
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AmeriGurl (f)
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OMG!!!!!!  This guy is soo full of shit, after I finally decided to break it off from him I changed my number, I just didn’t want to be lured in by text messages that could possible cause me to give in. Anyway, I received this email yesterday, went Like this Him: How are you doing, I just wanted to say HI has a nice day. ME: I’m doing good thanks for asking have a nice day also, end of that email 2hours later I get a second email Him: Hey Amerigurl (of course he called me by my real name) some of my friends are coming form out of state on the 26th can you and maybe a few of your friends join us for drinks, Me: at this point I went off and let him have a piece of my mind and told him never to email me again, (because i felt like he was missing the point (ALONE TIME ONE ON ONE) What’s more insulting is that In his reply he apologized and pretended he was so shocked at my response…he didn't feel like he said anything wrong……OMG!!!! I feel like such a fool for getting my feelings Involved with such a loser  Anyway thanks everyone for your insight  |
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otukpo (f)
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AmeriGurl
Am sorry your r/ship has happened the way it did. But its good u are seeing things now with clear eyes and taking decisions with your head.
30 yrs gap is too much for u to enjoy that relationship.
Retrace your steps and find someone who loves u and is within your age gap. Reduce emphasis on material things and u'll get someone u will be happy with.
Goodluck.
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hollandis
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OMG!!!!!! This guy is soo full of shit, after I finally decided to break it off from him I changed my number, I just didn’t want to be lured in by text messages that could possible cause me to give in. Anyway, I received this email yesterday, went Like this Him: How are you doing, I just wanted to say HI has a nice day. ME: I’m doing good thanks for asking have a nice day also, end of that email 2hours later I get a second email Him: Hey Amerigurl (of course he called me by my real name) some of my friends are coming form out of state on the 26th can you and maybe a few of your friends join us for drinks, Me: at this point I went off and let him have a piece of my mind and told him never to email me again, (because i felt like he was missing the point (ALONE TIME ONE ON ONE) What’s more insulting is that In his reply he apologized and pretended he was so shocked at my response…he didn't feel like he said anything wrong……OMG!!!! I feel like such a fool for getting my feelings Involved with such a loser Anyway thanks everyone for your insight LIES Anyone with an internet lie detector? |
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platinumnk (f)
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why would she think shes lying?
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koolchicco
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LIES
Anyone with an internet lie detector?
I knew She was lying abinitio. |
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barakah (m)
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Lol I know its hard to find a sincere lover nowadays who is faithful.
@Yumi Yes! who is faithful? That includes you Yumi. |
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iceland (m)
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Obviouly the girl is lying. The story is untrue. She is new in nairaland and she just want to test the ability of the members. I posted a fake story when I first joined nairaland. Am sure we all did at one time or the other. But this her story is so ficticious. 30 years difference no be yam.unless her father is in his nineties as one poster said.
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lawrence83
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Lmao at every comments. LIES
Anyone with an internet lie detector?
Got one here, but dont know how to use it, send me ya yahoo ID,so i cud inbox u! @poster,keep on the Good work |
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lawrence83
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Obviouly the girl is lying. The story is untrue. She is new in nairaland and she just want to test the ability of the members. I posted a fake story when I first joined nairaland. Am sure we all did at one time or the other. But this her story is so ficticious. 30 years difference no be yam.unless her father is in his nineties as one poster said.
May be she is using another ID. Just may b Thanks for the conversion, may be u cud have made it to hell, if u didnt do this,, Just may be  |
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moorkat
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i think this is a theoretical situation. for starters, OP sounds very much 9ja.
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AmeriGurl (f)
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I think some of you people are jealous, wow make up a fucken story such as this, am I going to receive royalties for this? ??oh my gosh some people are so small minded, the only reason I chose to come here is because I felt maybe you people can better help me understand considering that my friend in question is a Nigerian, I felt I would get better insight oppose to going to an American form, this is getting just plan childish,
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AmeriGurl (f)
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@Iceland your reasoning is wacky and very unintelligent take your stupidity some where else your comments are not welcome
You see…. a thief will suspect every one who passes his trail, moral: you are a fucken liar so you suspect everyone is a liar, just because you are a fraudster; don’t mean that every newbie has a fabricated story,
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Princek12
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I think some of you people are jealous, wow make up a fucken story such as this, am I going to receive royalties for this???oh my gosh some people are so small minded, the only reason I chose to come here is because I felt maybe you people can better help me understand considering that my friend in question is a Nigerian, I felt I would get better insight oppose to going to an American form, this is getting just plan childish, AmeriGirl, I don't give a ish if you are lying or speaking the truth. Assuming you are saying the truth, I feel sorry for you because you must be dumb, for you not to sense a 30 yr gap. Assuming you you are lying, you must need attention. Either way you need help, and I strongly recommend that you seek professional help. To prove people wrong, post your pic, even if it is a body pic or use photoshop to blur your face (assuming you don't to show your face). We will use our inferential and imaginative skills to visualize your picture. If I don't see a pic, and based on my experience, then you are more likely one of those ugly b**ches who desire attention. You have the power to prove me and the supposedly jealous people wrong, though. |
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TheSeeker (m)
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I think some of you people are jealous, wow make up a fucken story such as this, am I going to receive royalties for this???oh my gosh some people are so small minded, the only reason I chose to come here is because I felt maybe you people can better help me understand considering that my friend in question is a Nigerian, I felt I would get better insight oppose to going to an American form, this is getting just plan childish, Shut up you filthy liar. I knew from the first statement that you were set out to lie your a$$ off. We on NL aren't fools even though some people have chosen to believe your formulated lies. If you know very well how your stories are leaking like a bad roof you wouldn't have further put yourself to a belittling shame. Don't call anyone small minded or in any way try to insult anyone or you'll be forced not to come back to NL. You can bloody go to your American forum, who the f.uck cares, and of course, they can believe your lies too. You're a trophy chic, yeah right, keep wishing that in your dreams. If you post your pictures like some have requested, it still doesn't change my view that you're constructing lousy and very weak lies. |
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TheSeeker (m)
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American woman do me dirty? I'm far more dignified than settle with an American woman when nothing has gone wrong with my naija women who in my view are the most beautiful. It seems like you're losing comprehension of my comment, I never asked you to post your pic, I only said if you were to grant the request some people made that you post your picture, it'd not sway me to believe your lies. Ugly faces? How myopic you are. Well, just like some of my favorite NL members have often said, internet is where losers find solace to make themselves happy by assuming unfounded fantasies. You can keep deluding yourself and some other people who are subscribing to your story but don't be disappointed I'm not buying it; by the way I'm only concerned because you're not the first 'American' who will come here and blast Nigerian guys.
And all of you will come with some embarrassing but one which borders more on incoherently fabricated fallacies. You must think all of us are fools? By the way, I see keeping your thread on the first page is quite an achievement for you. What more can I say?! You've proven to be another attention seeker, and guess what, you got it. The question is: How long will this attention last for (seeing that it's so important to you)?
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