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TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #32 on: September 17, 2009, 12:33 AM »

Quote from: ~Sauron~ on September 17, 2009, 12:29 AM
@ TOPE2000,

What parts of his body?
I hope u don't mean his weapon of mass. . . .


That and his packs will have turn into fat
his skin wud be wrinkly  . . no?
Yumi (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #33 on: September 17, 2009, 12:35 AM »

Quote from: pc guru on September 17, 2009, 12:32 AM
It's hard mehn it's like everybody f:cking everybody.Though i don't cheat.Let me let you on a secret i've never cheated cuz i've never being on a relationship.Got this thing with commitment issue even with friends.

really wow.  You should try to get over it, work on it, really cause its important to develop yourself and work on your issues.
stillwater (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #34 on: September 17, 2009, 12:35 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on September 17, 2009, 12:25 AM
lol never believe all that stuff, its a front women put up to make themselves important. When push comes to shove how many women will just through out a 2-yr relationship over silly excuses?  Grin

How is not having time to get to know each other better a silly excuse?
~Sauron~
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #35 on: September 17, 2009, 12:36 AM »

Quote from: TOPE2000! on September 17, 2009, 12:33 AM
That and his packs will have turn into fat
his skin wud be wrinkly  . . no?

Kanu is 45 and his skin has no wrinkles. Grin Cheesy

Quote from: stillwater on September 17, 2009, 12:30 AM
Is he ready to be fixed?
Text me your pics, she does it.
Wear that sexy dress so I'll show you off to my friends every freaking day? She does it.

I am sure he's ready to be fixed.
Romeo just got carried away. . . . .The OP should sit him down and read the DOs n DON'Ts.
Who breaks up with a man because of such flimsy excuses?

Quote
Ok let's get to know each other better. . .ehn. . . beep. . . .beep
Who won't get pissed if that's the only way he feels he can connect with her?

The OP didn't try enough to change her partner IMO.
Yumi (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #36 on: September 17, 2009, 12:37 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on September 17, 2009, 12:25 AM
its actually not that hard.

It really is, especially one where there is mutual attraction and commitment.  Undecided Undecided
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #37 on: September 17, 2009, 12:38 AM »

Kanu is 10yrs younger than the dude in question. . .  Undecided
davidylan (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #38 on: September 17, 2009, 12:38 AM »

Quote from: Yumi on September 17, 2009, 12:37 AM
It really is, especially one where there is mutual attraction and commitment.  Undecided Undecided

Its not, the problem is most pple dont know what they want until its too late.
~Sauron~
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #39 on: September 17, 2009, 12:40 AM »

Quote from: TOPE2000! on September 17, 2009, 12:38 AM
Kanu is 10yrs younger than the dude in question. . .  Undecided

Tope. . . . .How did you know the dude's age.
whiteroses (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #40 on: September 17, 2009, 12:41 AM »

yumi is right its hard to find a sincere guy, before i met mine i tried and tried with guys they were all the same, they nearly ruined my life and i gave up so i never believe  a word any guy says and stopped dating but one guy toasted me for months lol he dint quit cos he knew i was single i agreed and fell in love head first i thot this one will break me or make me turns out he's 4 real he even wants to get married but i dont know for now lol
stillwater (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #41 on: September 17, 2009, 12:42 AM »

Quote from: ~Sauron~ on September 17, 2009, 12:36 AM

I am sure he's ready to be fixed.
Romeo just got carried away. . . . .The OP should sit him down and read the DOs n DON'Ts.
Who breaks up with a man because of such flimsy excuses?

The OP didn't try enough to change her partner IMO.

Ohhh and you think she has not 'sat him down' to read the dos and don'ts to him times without number?

Yumi (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #42 on: September 17, 2009, 12:43 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on September 17, 2009, 12:38 AM
Its not, the problem is most pple dont know what they want until its too late.

I think people always know what they want.  Its just we can't always have what we want.  
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #43 on: September 17, 2009, 12:44 AM »

Quote from: ~Sauron~ on September 17, 2009, 12:40 AM
Tope. . . . .How did you know the dude's age.

i just assumed the poster is abt 25-30yrs of age
so if she is 25 then the dude is 55 n if 30 then the man is 60yrs old Tongue
chic2pimp (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #44 on: September 17, 2009, 12:44 AM »

Quote from: whiteroses on September 17, 2009, 12:41 AM
yumi is right its hard to find a sincere guy, before i met mine i tried and tried with guys they were all the same, they nearly ruined my life and i gave up so i never believe  a word any guy says and stopped dating but one guy toasted me for months lol he dint quit cos he knew i was single i agreed and fell in love head first i thot this one will break me or make me turns out he's 4 real he even wants to get married but i dont know for now lol
Do ya think it is easy to find a sincere woman? Undecided
Yumi (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #45 on: September 17, 2009, 12:45 AM »

Quote from: whiteroses on September 17, 2009, 12:41 AM
yumi is right its hard to find a sincere guy, before i met mine i tried and tried with guys they were all the same, they nearly ruined my life and i gave up so i never believe  a word any guy says and stopped dating but one guy toasted me for months lol he dint quit cos he knew i was single i agreed and fell in love head first i thot this one will break me or make me turns out he's 4 real he even wants to get married but i dont know for now lol

I know exactly what you are talking about.  I don't believe them anymore at all and I am not going to be giving anymore or trust or believe any guys anymore.  Its so pointless.  Thats good dear that you met a good one now hope it works out.
AmeriGurl (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #46 on: September 17, 2009, 12:46 AM »


OKAY!!!!!!!!!!! I reasoned and reasoned with this guy because I really like him…,  but his immutable desire to seek approval from his big time friends became an obsession in my opinion, mind you this guy has a great career but not as big time as his running buddies, I’m so done with this guy,  Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry….Thanks everyone I’m so grateful to you folks I have peace of mind, a little:-[
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #47 on: September 17, 2009, 12:46 AM »

Quote from: whiteroses on September 17, 2009, 12:41 AM
yumi is right its hard to find a sincere guy, before i met mine i tried and tried with guys they were all the same, they nearly ruined my life and i gave up so i never believe  a word any guy says and stopped dating but one guy toasted me for months lol he dint quit cos he knew i was single i agreed and fell in love head first i thot this one will break me or make me turns out he's 4 real he even wants to get married but i dont know for now lol


so because he talks abt marriage then he is sincere?
i op u have more reasons as to why u concluded that he's sincere apart from that Undecided
~Sauron~
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #48 on: September 17, 2009, 12:47 AM »

Quote from: TOPE2000! on September 17, 2009, 12:44 AM
i just assumed the poster is abt 25-30yrs of age
so if she is 25 then the dude is 55 n if 30 then the man is 60yrs old Tongue

I know enough men of 60 yrs that are fitter than your boy/f. Cheesy Grin


Quote from: stillwater on September 17, 2009, 12:42 AM
Ohhh and you think she has not 'sat him down' to read the dos and don'ts to him times without number?

I doubt it. . . . . .OP just got tired of his old ass.
She's prolly found a younger version of Uncle Romeo.
Women can cook up the flimsiest excuse to opt out of a relationship.

Quote from: whiteroses on September 17, 2009, 12:41 AM
yumi is right its hard to find a sincere guy, before i met mine i tried and tried with guys they were all the same, they nearly ruined my life and i gave up so i never believe  a word any guy says and stopped dating but one guy toasted me for months lol he dint quit cos he knew i was single i agreed and fell in love head first i thot this one will break me or make me turns out he's 4 real he even wants to get married but i dont know for now lol

And to think hundreds of men get married every weekend. . . . . .
Who are really the bad guys out there?
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #49 on: September 17, 2009, 12:48 AM »

Quote from: ~Sauron~ on September 17, 2009, 12:47 AM
I know enough men of 60 yrs that are fitter than your boy/f. Cheesy Grin

i doubt that. . . .no matter how rich a 60yrs old man can be
he cannot be fit as some1 in his 20s Cheesy
davidylan (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #50 on: September 17, 2009, 12:48 AM »

Quote from: Yumi on September 17, 2009, 12:43 AM
I think people always know what they want.  Its just we can't always have what we want.  

Based on my experience, you can have what you want if your clear about it from the word go. Most of the time we have the perfect girl in our hands but we're too busy looking at another and wishing we could have her too. Until we lose them both.
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #51 on: September 17, 2009, 12:50 AM »

Quote from: AmeriGurl on September 17, 2009, 12:46 AM
OKAY!!!!!!!!!!! I reasoned and reasoned with this guy because I really like him…, but his immutable desire to seek approval from his big time friends became an obsession in my opinion, mind you this guy has a great career but not as big time as his running buddies, I’m so done with this guy, Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry….Thanks everyone I’m so grateful to you folks I have peace of mind, a little:-[

So u r done wit him cuz he treat u as trophy? Undecided
Hmmmmmmm some women are dying for their bf to show them off Grin
aint life a bitch Undecided
davidylan (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #52 on: September 17, 2009, 12:50 AM »

Quote from: AmeriGurl on September 17, 2009, 12:46 AM
OKAY!!!!!!!!!!! I reasoned and reasoned with this guy because I really like him…,  but his immutable desire to seek approval from his big time friends became an obsession in my opinion, mind you this guy has a great career but not as big time as his running buddies, I’m so done with this guy,  Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry….Thanks everyone I’m so grateful to you folks I have peace of mind, a little:-[

na so dem dey talk . . . u'll be back so long as he sends you some sweet words.

Wait are you white or mixed?
whiteroses (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #53 on: September 17, 2009, 12:52 AM »

Quote from: chic2pimp on September 17, 2009, 12:44 AM
Do ya think it is easy to find a sincere woman? Undecided
its easy if you do her right
Quote from: Yumi on September 17, 2009, 12:45 AM
I know exactly what you are talking about.  I don't believe them anymore at all and I am not going to be giving anymore or trust or believe any guys anymore.  Its so pointless.  Thats good dear that you met a good one now hope it works out.
i felt like that trust me you'd find one thats for you eventually
Quote from: TOPE2000! on September 17, 2009, 12:46 AM

so because he talks abt marriage then he is sincere?
i op u have more reasons as to why u concluded that he's sincere apart from that Undecided
yeah more reasons not just marriage alone.
now i've realized if you have a partner and you are not their number one break if off they are not for you, you should come first no matter what  
stillwater (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #54 on: September 17, 2009, 12:52 AM »

Quote from: ~Sauron~ on September 17, 2009, 12:47 AM
I doubt it. . . . . .OP just got tired of his old ass.
She's prolly found a younger version of Uncle Romeo.
Women can cook up the flimsiest excuse to opt out of a relationship.


No, she got tired because he's so full of shit, according to her.
She found a new dude and you expect her to come here and whine?
You don't have a say, jare.
~Sauron~
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #55 on: September 17, 2009, 12:53 AM »

Quote from: TOPE2000! on September 17, 2009, 12:48 AM
i doubt that. . . .no matter how rich a 60yrs old man can be
he cannot be fit as some1 in his 20s Cheesy

Doyin13 is fitter than your boy/f and he's 63. Cheesy

Quote from: AmeriGurl on September 17, 2009, 12:46 AM
OKAY!!!!!!!!!!! I reasoned and reasoned with this guy because I really like him…,  but his immutable desire to seek approval from his big time friends became an obsession in my opinion, mind you this guy has a great career BUT NOT AS BIG TIME AS HIS RUNNING BUDDIES, I’m so done with this guy,  Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry….Thanks everyone I’m so grateful to you folks I have peace of mind, a little:-[

It seems you got pissed with this guy cos he is not on the same pedestal with his buddies.
Yumi (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #56 on: September 17, 2009, 12:54 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on September 17, 2009, 12:48 AM
Based on my experience, you can have what you want if your clear about it from the word go. Most of the time we have the perfect girl in our hands but we're too busy looking at another and wishing we could have her too. Until we lose them both.

Thats very true indeed.  Heres to one day us both finding a faithful lover that is focused.  Smiley Smiley Smiley

Well its not something I am going to worry about anymore anyway.  The guy I was waiting for to break silence didn't so am going to have a break and focus on me a bit now.  So I won't date for a while,  I have to perform this weekend so I need to keep my head clear.  I can't be crying on stage whilst I perform and let audience down.   Undecided Undecided Undecided
AmeriGurl (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #57 on: September 17, 2009, 12:54 AM »

So u r done wit him cuz he treat u as trophy?
Hmmmmmmm some women are dying for their bf to show them off
aint life a bitch  
 
 
    


    My friend I really think you are missing my cry-out here, I wanted us to know each other on a more personal level, I wanted some alone time, this is my complaint, that's my point
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #58 on: September 17, 2009, 12:55 AM »

Quote from: ~Sauron~ on September 17, 2009, 12:53 AM
Doyin13 is fitter than your boy/f and he's 63. Cheesy

Lol . . .dnt make me sin abeg

Quote from: whiteroses on September 17, 2009, 12:52 AM
more reasons not just marriage alone.
now i've realized if you have a partner and you are not their number one break if off they are not for you, you should come first no matter what  

True that Cool
~Sauron~
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #59 on: September 17, 2009, 12:56 AM »

Quote from: stillwater on September 17, 2009, 12:52 AM
No, she got tired because he's so full of shit, according to her.
She found a new dude and you expect her to come here and whine?
You don't have a say, jare.

Nah. . . . .I think she got tired because she belatedly realised the dude wasn't as solid as he made out to her initially.
The OP wouldn't mind the dude's buddies that are more LOADED.
chic2pimp (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #60 on: September 17, 2009, 12:56 AM »

Quote from: whiteroses on September 17, 2009, 12:52 AM
its easy if you do her right  
Exactly. It would also be easier for you to find a man if you do him right,
stillwater (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #61 on: September 17, 2009, 12:56 AM »

Quote from: TOPE2000! on September 17, 2009, 12:50 AM
So u r done wit him cuz he treat u as trophy? Undecided
Hmmmmmmm some women are dying for their bf to show them off Grin
aint life a bitch Undecided

Won't you get fed up if every single time he talks about the same material thing?
Haba, Is that what relationship is about?
whiteroses (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #62 on: September 17, 2009, 12:57 AM »

Quote from: AmeriGurl on September 17, 2009, 12:54 AM
So u r done wit him cuz he treat u as trophy?
Hmmmmmmm some women are dying for their bf to show them off
aint life a bitch  
 
 
    


    My friend I really think you are missing my cry-out here, I wanted us to know each other on a more personal level, I wanted some alone time, this is my complaint, that my point
no missy its cos he lies about his age hes freaking old who in their sane mind will go out with an old agbalagbi grandpa lol
TOPE2000! (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #63 on: September 17, 2009, 12:57 AM »

Quote from: AmeriGurl on September 17, 2009, 12:54 AM
   My friend I really think you are missing my cry-out here, I wanted us to know each other on a more personal level, I wanted some alone time, this is my complaint, that my point

I think i am missing your cry out, cuz u said u guys dated for 3mts so are u saying in all those 5mnts all he has ever done with u is take to his friend n show u off? if so why did it take u 5mnts b4 doing something abt it? Undecided
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