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DatNiggaAk (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #96 on: September 17, 2009, 06:44 PM »

30 years older??!!!
wat da f@#k.
dude must have all white pubic hair.
or does he wax it??? Grin Grin
MUZBO (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #97 on: September 17, 2009, 06:53 PM »

What is this poster saying sef? Is the guy Superman with X-ray vision to see your interior? A girl is only 'exterior' until she shows off her 'interior'. Key words here are: 'shows off'. If he isn't patient enough to see you show off your interior but wants to show people your exterior then maybe you aint trying hard enough or he feels you are a potential gold digger. So he who pays the piper dictates the tune! Most beautiful girls want their 'exterior' to speak for them anyway. If you over-played your hand then you are 'trophy girl' once you're in the bag!
MUZBO (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #98 on: September 17, 2009, 06:58 PM »

What is this poster saying sef? Is the guy Superman with X-ray vision to see your interior? A girl is only 'exterior' until she shows off her 'interior'. Key words here are: 'shows off'. If he isn't patient enough to see you show off your interior but wants to show people your exterior then maybe you aint trying hard enough or he feels you are a potential gold digger. So he who pays the piper dictates the tune! Most beautiful girls want their 'exterior' to speak for them anyway. If you over-played your hand then you are 'trophy girl' once you're in the bag!
waooo
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #99 on: September 17, 2009, 07:20 PM »

dump his ash gal frien.
big-ben
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #100 on: September 17, 2009, 07:26 PM »

the poster is not giving us all the details,am sure there is more to it than said Lips sealed
Princek12
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #101 on: September 17, 2009, 07:42 PM »

Can you post your pic so that we can see how much of a "trophy chic" you really are?
Princek12
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #102 on: September 17, 2009, 07:53 PM »

And how can you not know when a guy who is 30 years older lies about being 10 years older? Were you senses blighted by offerings of material things that you could not make the right judgment about his age? Something is not adding up, my dear!
TheSeeker (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #103 on: September 17, 2009, 08:15 PM »

She can lie all she wants. And people on Nairaland will believe anything. Her stories are so perforated.
hollandis
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #104 on: September 17, 2009, 08:27 PM »

All this stupid,gold digging,good for nothing,shameless girls who think their facial attraction and protuberances is all there is to life.I can't believe this sh*t made front page.
AmeriGurl (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #105 on: September 17, 2009, 08:54 PM »

A lot of you folks that had very negative and insulting comments,  Why waste your time…,  If you don’t like the topic then for god sake ignore and use your energy else where,  (The seeker I bet your face look like a baboon’s ass Wink Wink Wink Grin Grin), anyway for all that think I fabricated anything?Huh Huh Huh ???Tell me, WTF will I profit here by lying, am I going to become a millionaire for this topic????give me a freaking break, anyway I choose to suspend my comments on this topic because I received all the clarification I felt necessary to take my decision, ( Grin Grin Grin ;the seeker don’t let me be the reason you loose sleep ooooooo)
touchmeder
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #106 on: September 17, 2009, 09:42 PM »

I laugh trophy chic indeed. Wetin i nor go read. lol
funkky3
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #107 on: September 17, 2009, 09:51 PM »

how old are you ?
koolchicco
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #108 on: September 17, 2009, 10:13 PM »

@OP

I need to see your pic(s) b4 commenting. Undecided
kweenchi
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #109 on: September 17, 2009, 10:24 PM »

sounds like a old fashioned immature igbo man. they're known for such behavior.
koolchicco
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #110 on: September 17, 2009, 10:28 PM »

Quote from: kweenchi on September 17, 2009, 10:24 PM
sounds like a old fashioned immature igbo man. they're known for such behavior.

Are u a new fashioned mature calabar man? Huh
oyinda. (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #111 on: September 17, 2009, 10:44 PM »

lol. @ tope wanting to be a trophy chic. hahha well, if you actually liked the guy, u would change your mind. the key point here is that he doesn't care for you. what he cares most about his his friends' opinion of you.
i.e  you being beautiful to him doesn't matter. as long as you're beautiful to his friends  Cheesy. imagine u fall in love with that kind of guy who is using you to make himself look like a "big boy"
notice some of these girls are foreigners sef. so you get the idea. they're using u to gain respect/ influence among their friends.

i mean even if he does like you somewhat, it can be depressing to find out what his other motives are for being with you.
you will ask urself the question will he stay with you or love you even if his friends disapproved of you?



kinda reminds me of gabby's bf who lets his friends listen to their personal convos over the phone without her consent. 
http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=316874.msg4450675#msg4450675
^ i'm not saying gabby's situation is the same as hers. it just reminded me of it. lol
Feexo
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #112 on: September 17, 2009, 10:51 PM »

Do you really love him?

Do you think he love you?

How come you can tell he is 30 yrs older than you in the first place?

I think you guy could still sit down and discuss everything even if the relationship has to be discontinued.
TheSeeker (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #113 on: September 17, 2009, 10:56 PM »

Quote from: AmeriGurl on September 17, 2009, 08:54 PM
A lot of you folks that had very negative and insulting comments,  Why waste your time…,  If you don’t like the topic then for god sake ignore and use your energy else where,  (The seeker I bet your face look like a baboon’s ass Wink Wink Wink Grin Grin), anyway for all that think I fabricated anything?Huh Huh Huh ???Tell me, WTF will I profit here by lying, am I going to become a millionaire for this topic????give me a freaking break, anyway I choose to suspend my comments on this topic because I received all the clarification I felt necessary to take my decision, ( Grin Grin Grin ;the seeker don’t let me be the reason you loose sleep ooooooo)
Who cares what you think by fabricating your lies?! One thing for sure is I don't believe your story unless you rock a better perspective to it. I want to take those insults as a joke otherwise I'd have just said you crossed a line where I doubt you can climb the mountain afterwards. Me loose sleep? You are really new here. Just don't start with me and let the sleeping dog sleep, not lie ooo. Don't wake me! Wink
dacool1 (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #114 on: September 17, 2009, 11:03 PM »

hmm so funny u kinda dating your dad Shocked think twice its u decision
Yumi (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #115 on: September 17, 2009, 11:32 PM »

Quote from: kweenchi on September 17, 2009, 10:24 PM
sounds like a old fashioned immature igbo man. they're known for such behavior.

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked aren't a lot of men known for this behaviour?  Nothing wrong with Igbo men lol sI have seen some really sexy and buff Igbo men. 
Spicyboy01
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #116 on: September 18, 2009, 12:53 AM »

Amerigirl, here are some of the truth u shy away from,

1,  Selfishness,  your problem is selfishness, u allowed him to use u without knowing him fulllywell, he took u out in his ride and u enjoyed it his AC without knowing him fully well, he spent his money on you without knowing him fully well and now tht he has got wht he wanted from you, u are claiming to be ignorant of the truth.

2,  Even if the Man or Papa was serious at the initial stage, your interest in his position and money to the extent tht u forgot to ask more abt him will pissed him off.

3, Right now i can tell u tht u are doing the right thing at the wrong time.

4,  There are so many young guy, matured and can treat a lady better than going for SUDAR DADDY.

5, i think u are one of those materialistic girls,  u got wht u deserved.
bilqiss (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #117 on: September 18, 2009, 03:47 AM »

Huh! Trophy chic indeed. Obviously he doesn't like you but only shows you off as he would a flashy car or a new house. But is that enuff to leave a guy Huh. Unless apart from "showing you off", he doesn't show any other feelings of love or regard. In that case, you're better off without the lying sugar grandaddy.
Dfash (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #118 on: September 18, 2009, 05:22 AM »




  MY ''BIG'' 6TER, WHY THE WASTEFUL CAMPAIGN AFTER ELECTION, YOU HAVE DROPPED THIS YOUR ''SHIT'' OF A GUY FOR CRYING OUT LOUD, SO WHY SEEKING ADVICE? OR YOU THINK YOU AV THROWN THE BABY AWAY WITH THE BATHWATER.  LOOK B4 YOU LEAP NEXT TYME!   


good luck baby.

I WANNA SIGN OUT NOW!

CATCH U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Skyloloprince (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #119 on: September 18, 2009, 05:32 AM »

He doesnt my sister run 4ur ther life
chidyke77 (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #120 on: September 18, 2009, 06:12 AM »

Actualy 30yrs older is too much and shuld've bn noticed by her. If she's talkin of 20yrs older, i wl say its likely that she might nt knw cos som people looks quite younger than their age.
@poster just end d relationship and move on wt your life.
SmashingM (f)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #121 on: September 18, 2009, 08:12 AM »

It's good you ditched him. It's good to know a guy and he knows you instead of jumping from one social occasion to the other. That's what mine used to do. He will introduce me to his friends as his wife and everything. He will sit beside me in the church as my husband and will be making faces at whoever cares to look his way so that he'll seen with a woman. I got so pissed off and said my goodbyes. Most men are like that, they'll smile at you and show affection only when you are in public and then will turn to something else in the house. God help us.
popin5 (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #122 on: September 18, 2009, 08:45 AM »

a man @that age should have made a fortune. is it the security of comfort that is appealing or ,  i dont want to  impose my opinion on u, the best thing that could happen to a person in a relationship/marriage is to have a friend as d partner which could be frd before or while in d commitment. if luv and physical attraction are d ruling attributes of your relationship without becoming frds, when d storms in relationships strikes i 4see a hrtbrk. u can endure more with a frd. wsh ya wel in your decision and relationship
FBS
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #123 on: September 18, 2009, 09:11 AM »

Another Mills & Boon story?
TheSeeker (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #124 on: September 18, 2009, 09:30 AM »

Quote from: oyinda. on September 17, 2009, 10:44 PM
lol. @ tope wanting to be a trophy chic. hahha well, if you actually liked the guy, u would change your mind. the key point here is that he doesn't care for you. what he cares most about his his friends' opinion of you.
i.e  you being beautiful to him doesn't matter. as long as you're beautiful to his friends  Cheesy. imagine u fall in love with that kind of guy who is using you to make himself look like a "big boy"
notice some of these girls are foreigners sef. so you get the idea. they're using u to gain respect/ influence among their friends.

i mean even if he does like you somewhat, it can be depressing to find out what his other motives are for being with you.
you will ask urself the question will he stay with you or love you even if his friends disapproved of you?



kinda reminds me of gabby's bf who lets his friends listen to their personal convos over the phone without her consent. 
http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=316874.msg4450675#msg4450675
^ i'm not saying gabby's situation is the same as hers. it just reminded me of it. lol
Oyin!!!!!!!! You like confrontation oooo. Na you dey mention her name now
Oluschenco (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #125 on: September 18, 2009, 10:10 AM »

30 years? Gbam !!!
mayrho (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #126 on: September 18, 2009, 10:19 AM »

Move on with your life girl why should any1 use you trophy girl or not
Michael 13 (m)
Re: Help!do This Guy Really Like Me Or Am I Just A Trophy Chic =(((((
« #127 on: September 18, 2009, 10:20 AM »

30 years goddam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shocked Shocked Shocked

dis u have the 's' word with him Grin
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