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DEwiseman (m)
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Originally: Can someone tell me why our ladies are exposing their breast?
Everywhere you go today, men, you need an extra measure of self-control because of the kind of blouse our ladies wear this days. Is that the whether is too hot that they can no longer wear blouses that can cover their breast properly or what?
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Na mi o (f)
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The tin taya mi o my brother. Even as a woman, i get so irritated when i see such sights for sore eyes. I just wish everywoman cld become old fashioned.
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Aidy (f)
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Well, it's unfortunate to see our ladies expose their bodies. To me any woman who exposes her self that way simply lacks self confident and moral. You see the reason they do that is because they want to attract a man. The forget that the man will only get attracted to them just for sexual reason and will be on his heels once the booty has been collected. Our women should not look up to the westernied women who have no culture about decency. We should know better. It's very irritating seeing such, especially the very sagged breasts that some of them flaunt around!
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4evah (f)
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What I also think is that some just do follow follow (they want to 'belong!)!
Gosh, I feel so bad when I see them around, and I just wonder, "Am I not a lady as well?" but I know we are no equals ...
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demmy (m)
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LOL @ everybody 'feeling bad' because Nigerian ladies are 'exposing' themselves. I'm sure you'll all get use to it.  |
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hotpikin (f)
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well, 2 me sha oh...it depends on how much of d boobs r exposed besides it gets disgustin' when u see girls or ladies wit slipper-like boobs feelin' like they can expose their boobs..i be like "worahell were u thinkin'  ?...  |
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Seun (m)
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I don't object to it. Ladies, please feel free to wear as little clothing as you like! Please feel free to display your tummy/navel, cleavage, thigh, armpits, and everything.
But on one condition ... since you are displaying your body for the whole world to see, you must not object to public discussion of those body parts that are exposed. If you have chosen to display a part of your body for men to see, then men must be allowed to talk about it. Thank you!
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kazey (m)
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Nigerian Ladies are exposing their breast, because thats the fashion this days." SHOW ME YOUR BODY AND I WOULD KNOW HOW COOL YOU ARE". But i taught we love freedom of everything ?
Give them the freedom. Freedom of dressing !!
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legry (m)
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What do you want them dressed in wrapper, trend and civilization its bound to happen, trust me 15 years from now they wont even wear tops or bra exposed breast would be the fashion we just hope undies would be allowed then |
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drwhopl (m)
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You really want to know why Nigerian women expose their breasts? It's a thing they see in foreign movies or musical videos, so our women want to feel 'among'.
Let me put it this way: they want to show their sexuality because they know they can attract any man to get what they want.
All, in short, is for the dough[money]; you've got to believe me. I'm out.
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slimprisi (m)
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Hey man, you shouldn't blame them. They are just trying to be sexy and set the man out of control and at the same time trying to be attractive to the man.
There was this short amn (Ruky) who was telling me how girls seduce men by wearing all manners of clithing to get the men aroused. You know, and most of our men can't resist such a thing and they tend to fall.
Remember, Eve made Adam eat the devil'D fruit and that tells you women are the source of life and death. But I love them (girls). Sometimes they are like God's children and sometimes like the devil angels.
I'm sorry, girls, don't get mad at me. That's how to show the world how it's supposed to go.
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legry (m)
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oga you be rapper abi MC i for like know o
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whizkid (f)
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If you've got it flaunt it. . It is not easy you know, people pay thousands for breast enlargement and the likes. So guys, you can look but can't touch .
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KING GUZU
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Its a real pity that all sense of decency seems to have been lost but i feel that these are depraved people not deprived.They worsen the already tense environment and turn back to shout sexual harassment.I will not hesitate to take a good look if i see one and feel no qualms about it |
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donssignour
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You really want to know why Nigerian women expose their breasts? It's a thing they see in foreign movies or musical videos, so our women want to feel 'among'.
Let me put it this way: they want to show their sexuality because they know they can attract any man to get what they want.
All, in short, is for the dough[money]; you've got to believe me. I'm out.
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abrakson (f)
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hi all
i be woman to oo but i agree with 4evah na follow follow dey do them
i think its an indecent thing to do revaeling your most treasured possession to all is not worth it
what then will they look forward to seeing when u have reveled all so i think thats why guys just use them and dump them well its an opinion don't fuss
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mamba (m)
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They are not exposing their breasts, they are only exposing their cleavage.....
This is called fashion, it makes them more attractive....
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Seun (m)
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Yeah. 'Cleavage' - space between the breasts.
Thanks but no thanks, ladies, please keep your cleavage tucked away if you don't want us to talk about it openly like we would talk about your face!
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jogego (m)
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LOL  if you all think Naija girls expose themselves, then you need to see the average jamo girl during summer in London, then you would agree with me that Naija girls dress like Nuns....he he heee |
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Seun (m)
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I will not hesitate to take a good look if I see one and feel no qualms about it Thank you my brother. I made the same decision some time ago. If you don't want me to stare at it or talk about it, please don't display it. So guys, you can look but can't touch.  Is that so? Would you like to see a man staring at your cleavage while you're displaying it publicly? |
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dablessed (f)
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Jogego,
You don't want to start the Jamo girls issue do you?
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jogego (m)
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Jogego,
You don't want to start the Jamo girls issue do you?
emmmm!!! dablessed, what am I starting? |
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olaide07 (f)
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Well, it's unfortunate to see our ladies expose their bodies. To me any woman who exposes her self that way simply lacks self confident and moral. You see the reason they do that is because they want to attract a man. The forget that the man will only get attracted to them just for sexual reason and will be on his heels once the booty has been collected. Our women should not look up to the westernied women who have no culture about decency. We should know better. It's very irritating seeing such, especially the very sagged breasts that some of them flaunt around!
This is a new trend in fashion: clothes that reveal part of the breast (cleavage and sometimes the bossom). What you wear does not say who you are. Me wearing such does not make me morally debased. I wear it to suit my taste and weather. You don't expect me to wear wool from up to my ankle in a harch weather. Talk about guys that plait their hair. |
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mosiate (f)
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This topic looks somehow raw  , Anyway everybody knows why. All the ladies that dress that way want to be sexy because of you guys. To say the truth, it is actually what you want. I mean the whole world would have being boring if all the ladies go on wearing long skirt and blouses all about. It's the latest in town. But mind you I don't dress that way shaaaaa ... |
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mamba (m)
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Lagos is not a sharia state so no yawa!
I personally like the low neckline tops because it reveals the package the lady has under the top.
It's simply chic and trendy.
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paulibling (m)
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This is unbelievable brethren. This issue has been giving me headache. They do expose themselves because they are irresponsible. Decent girls don't do that nonsense. I'm using this opportunity to tell them that that's not the way to get gentlemen like us. Let them all go away!
[severe editing applied]
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dominobaby (f)
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It seems a shame that girls have been reduced to an object of lust.
R E S P E C T - that's the way guys got to look at girls. You don't have to expose all to look trendy, attractive or "in vogue" mind you. I'D rather you don't display your physical, use your mind!
Guys act like all a girl's to be is a sexy sexy thing.
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demmy (m)
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What is wrong with everybody? I can't believe what I'm reading! Now whats wrong with women being sexy? We will rather women start dressing like "ELEHA" in veils?
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Seun (m)
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I do not like seeing what I cannot touch or talk about.
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femade05 (m)
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 It's because the family values of old has broken down completely. Worse still, we don't have god role models now. Anyone that has seen the First Lady, Stella Obasanjo, in recent times shuld not be suprised if young Nigerian girls who are looking up to such people go really nude. I don't know whom she wants to impress by exposing her breasts. I was embarrased and shocked to my bones when I saw Mrs. Obasanjo clapping and smiling at a fashion show where one of the contestants had one of her breasts completely uncovered, and the program was aired on NTA Channel 5, Abuja. Its a shame!!!. Why would such girls not be raped? I think Sharia proponents realy have a point here! God, pplease give us good mothers and role models!!!!
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benmike (m)
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What is wrong with everybody? I can't believe what I'm reading! Now whats wrong with women being sexy? We will rather women start dressing like "ELEHA" in veils? Hi, demmy, I am new here and I was going through the chat and read your reaction to the topic of discussion. Well, I want to say that you are not getting the gist clearly. it is not that women should not look sexy, but that they should be as decent as decent in their outfits. There are many other ways by which a woman can look sexy and still attract the attention of men but what is the essence of a married woman trying to look sexy? Is she looking for another husband? In the case of our youths, with I presume you are part of, why in the world should a "lady" considering her african traditional values and culture go to the extent of showing all her valuables to the public just to get a boyfriend? It's uncalled for. Africans naturally are beautiful; we only need to come to appreciate our colour and natural endowments. If at the end of the day a girl gets a boy who only admires her "burst" and her "buttocks" as she presented it to him and doesnt even love her as a person, she would surely live to regret it. Because the love that is supposed to be for her personality is going to be just for her physical attributes and these are not what makes a human being. We should learn to present our characters or personalities and see who will appreciate us with them and love us because of them. There are lots to be said about this issue but let me side step for now. Thank you.  |
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