Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms

of course you aint complaining.. . .  because you don't have kids yet who are vulnerable of getting exposed to stuff like that.



"Some" women who choose to be seen or made as sex objects not "most".

I disagree totally with you. First of all, not all men become agitated at the sight of a sexily young woman. Most men feel disgusted (though they seem to admire it at first glance). The only reason why we (contributors) are complaining about "Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms" is to redress a situation that is rendering our society corrupt. Must we lose our sense of decency all in the name of westernisation/civilisation? Where has morality gone to in our society? I really don't think you, JAKUMO, will appreciate your daughter (if u have one) going about exposing her bossom all in the name of fashion/westernisation/civilisation/appreciation (of God's work) or whatever name u call it.

Goodguy I just love your sense of humor when you try to keep a straight face while proclaiming that sexily dressed women are "disgusting"  to you.  Assuming you are not simply gay, one can only surmise that your derogatory description of the female physique is rooted in a bug-eyed determination NOT to be aroused by the opposite sex for deep-seated psychological reasons best known to you. 

Pray tell, how come you are so adamant that "most" men find female nudity disgusting.  Come on, buddy, let us keep our references relevant to the real world.  You know those statistics of yours could only be tenable if your poll was conducted in a gay bar or sexually repressed church group of stern, bible-thumping Jesus freaks. Which is it ?

When I say men feel disgusted, I don't mean the ladies are the ones that are disgusting. It's just their act of dressing indecently that's disgusting to most men. No nigerian man will happily introduce a "breast flaunter" to his parents as his wife-to-be and expect them to embrace her gladly.

Thank God it's from your own mouth that it's being referred to as NUDITY. There's nothing to discuss here.

Granted there are some women who dress revealingly to compensate for perceived shortcomings in other facets of their personalities, Jummiee, but whether the dress style of "most" women is so motivated remains doubtful.

There are legions of highly educated and very successful career women out there who dress sexy because they feel comfortable doing so, and they probably wouldn't take too kindly to being labelled as shallow-minded eye-candy with "inferiority complexes". 

While it is very true that people in general dress to reflect their inner self, your claim that only "insecure" women would dress skimpily doesn't tally with the reality that confident people are far more likely to be daring and unconventional in their mode of dressing than are modest, self-effacing underachievers.  Just because many bank robbers in Nigeria wear 3-piece business suits to work doesn't mean all or even most Nigerian men in business suits are likely to be bank robbers.

Goodguy, this may come as very distressing news, but absolutely all women are stark naked under their clothes.  Despite this grave offence I have found it in my heart to forgive them and I suggest you do the same.

Most nigerian men would also not have premarital sex with their parents present but they still do it.  Clearly, those same men act differently themselves in the presence of their parents, so we would expect them to cover up the "breast flaunter" when they introduce her to their parents.

Umm, could you point out to me what post you are talking about that I quoted from you?  I just looked back in the past three pagesI don't see any instance of me quoting you.

Allonym my reference to being quoted was intended for Goodguy, and the quote in question appears just 5 posts prior to this one. My writing was a bit convoluted there, and I'D have done better to highlight the quote as opposed to just mentioning it as I did. 

Thanks, Alheri, for untangling my prose.     

Why would the same man hide his premarital affairs from those same parents then?

The answer to that question is the answer to your own goodguy.

Obviously, the man knows that there is a time and place for certain things.  Just like he doesn't drink, party, and have sex indescriminantly when his parents are around (irregardless of his age), he would also make sure that his girlfriend or potential wife or friends behave in a certain manner that would show respect to his parents.

Respect is the key I guess.  There are some things each generation sees differently from the previous.  Out of respect for your parents, you don't let them see that side of you and you behave in a manner they would like.  (For the most part).  It is not because you are ashamed or think what you are doing is wrong, you are just being respectful.

I'D bet there are many people who'D bow and prostrate themselves among "elders" in their village, but will not think of doing any such thing when they are at work in the city even among people who'D can be considered their "elders".  Is it that you are ashamed of bowing and prostrating?  No.  Is it that in some areas, that form of respect is required, Yes.

@allonym, I hear you.

i really don't see anything wrong in it because ITS JUST FASHION for crying out loud
and i also think Nigerian ladies are just imitating what they see Europeans and Americans do
take for instance...its summer in US and its very hot for them i'm telling you they can even
walk about wearing only their Pants and Bra

i find it interesting that guys would go out with women they feel are cheap and cannot marry.

Obviously, they don't have noble purposes, in which case those guys are bastard idiots.

pally,

the thing tire me too,just this morning i saw heavyly endowed showing off her milk factory,can u believe it that the shirt she was wearing was designrd not to have a button on the upper.

Even in church the other day while praying one passed by me and it took the Grace of God for me to close my eyes immediately.you need to see the thing call woman,the chest region was open and the bra she was putting on was designed to push the thing up ahhh it was an eye sore or how else can i descibe this.desecration of a holy place

Bishop you are very right that enormous "milk factory" udders exposed by a fat woman are about as uninspiring as enormous milk factory udders flapping about beneath an over-fed lactating cow, unless of course the beholder happens to be a cattle dairy farmer.   Any man who finds such bovine monstrosities arousing had better take care not to go near any cow pasture in order to resist the temptation to engage in bestiality.   

Girls talking 'bout the heat of the sun, as a reason for the exposure is merely an excuse, The sun has always been; y weren't our fore-parents dressing in a way to expose such delicate parts?