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Kashif (m)
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Greetings Nairalanders.
I discovered this girs has an interest in me and happens to be a nice girl too but, I can't afford to have a relationship with her because I am in one already. We call each other on phone but when it became obvious what she wanted, I told her my mind and asked her that we be just friends. She refused and told me that she has been devastated. She went as far as deleting my phone numbers vowing never to call me again.
I felt her pain and after three weeks gave her a call just to say hi. She has been calling since then and has even visited me. She is helplessly in love and I sincerely don't want to hurt her because of her innocence. She is the type that deserve real love which, I am not currently able to give her. I've told her I don't want to take advantage of her; and I mean it. I believe in one thing at a time so, what do I do?
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Dvampire (m)
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continue being friends with her. show her care but not suggestive ones sha. like you said, she is going through a traumatic time; maybe she is trying to get over the pains of a failed relationship and she sees starting another one is the fastest way out of it. just be good to her, with time she'll understand.
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naijacutee (f)
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You are a wise guy, Kashif. You need to speak to her and let her know you are standing your grounds and with you, it's either friendship or she'll lose you as a friend altogether. You're the 'man'.
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osegwu (m)
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continue being friends with her. show her care but not suggestive ones sha. like you said, she is going through a traumatic time; maybe she is trying to get over the pains of a failed relationship and she sees starting another one is the fastest way out of it. just be good to her, with time she'll understand.
I agree with you. In due time she will get to understand what wonderful guy you are and you guys will continue to be friends if you did not compromise and take advantage of her. |
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Busta (f)
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well then, since u pity her innocence, u might as well not do the unthinkable. U stood ur ground not to nothing but friends to her, so be it.
why the topic then? maybe people will advice u to shag her?
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Gridlock (m)
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Since she doesn't respect the fact that you are in a relationship already, then be nasty to her. Do something irritating or hateful, because it looks like she's trying to latch onto you. Believe me, if you ever get into a situation where its only the two of you around, shit's going to happen. Send her away.
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niyooo (m)
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@ topic,
I'll advice you to drop it, you can only be soo nice before you start getting other thoughts n by the way who made you Jesus Christ? You can't solve all the problems in the world. She knows what she wants and will try all in her power to get it. Though if you feel you are strong enough not to fall then no s**t ride the wave.
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Kashif (m)
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@Busta, Sorry, free your mind  |
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