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mubowa (f)
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@topic, go look for a fresh puszy
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Nite Angel (m)
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Should you marry your big sister? Hell no! In Yorubaland person wey carry 6-months old pass you na sista.
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Douzy (m)
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Hmm. . . women? Having got married to her, one day, one way or the other, she's most likely to remind you that she is older than you are (even with FIVE good years). Now, if you really can deal with that, go ahead and marry her!
As for me, the minimum is FIVE years younger.
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lioness (f)
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5 years plenty sha
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spoilt (f)
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you think marrying a younger woman will guaranty you happiness? i sorry for una!
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Douzy (m)
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Nobody said so.
However, all said and done, it's safer to marry a younger woman.
If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.
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spoilt (f)
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Nobody said so.
However, all said and done, it's safer to marry a younger woman.
If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.
safer? how? please explain what safety has to do with any of this. when you guys think of an older woman you see an old hag. the so called "old women" may look like regina askia. they arent always haggard like people think. besides these days with austerity men have started looking down right haggard before their time.  |
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earthtones (f)
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if she looks good and takes care of herself, I see nothing wrong with it, remember BLACK DON'T CRACK, I have seen a many aged Black women who look beautiful and have fooled many at first glance, thinking she was 10 years younger. It's the melanin BABY!
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Douzy (m)
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Sorry babeslol.  |
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earthtones (f)
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What women are you looking at, most older women appear to take better care of themselves then their husbands, and therefore tend to have a more youthful appearance, in addition to having a longer lifespan!
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trendy (f)
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lol, @ douzy , i was just reacting to this statement
If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.
i don't agree with it
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Douzy (m)
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Well, one doesn't really need to be married to attain real happiness.
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trendy (f)
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I still don't agree with you though
but one thing i agree with is that
getting married is optional
but not that if you want real happiness you don't have to marry
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Douzy (m)
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I didn't say you don't have to, but that you don't need to, as in, marriage not being an essential means to or requisite for true happiness.
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dinner m (f)
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hum,hope she does not look too old so that people would not think she's your sugar mamai,but there's nothing wrong as long as there's love and respect.
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spoilt (f)
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hum,hope she does not look too old so that people would not think she's your sugar mamai,but there's nothing wrong as long as there's love and respect.
even if she looks as old as his mom, its no ones business! |
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opuro (m)
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ol boy look before u leap o
example guys that married older women
RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
LOOK WELL WELL B4 You LEAP
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spoilt (f)
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ol boy look before u leap o
example guys that married older women
RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
LOOK WELL WELL B4 You LEAP
you guys keep mentioning rmd and mee his late wife.look what happened! look what happened ! what is the relevance of that comparism to this matter?  |
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opuro (m)
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MEE senior RMD
DAT IS IT
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spoilt (f)
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we get that she was older. but its the "see what happened" part that we don't get. what happened?
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opuro (m)
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u no de read papers?
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Damabel
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Some issues are not to be remembered after answering.
Marrying a woman with the same age with you is even funny m
ore or less talking about older than In Nigeria you have fall our hand.
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Maleeq (m)
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Like the saying goes, "Never say never". But I don't see myself getting married to someone older than me.Worst case, she'd be thesame age with me. Come o, what pet name would I be calling her?: Aunty? or Honey? @Poster Follow your heart. If you feel good about it, let noone change that. All the best. |
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Wa_do_moi (f)
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whats wrong about it?
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iyken (m)
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ol boy look before u leap o
example guys that married older women
RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
LOOK WELL WELL B4 You LEAP
You forgot to mention Alli Baba and ---------------- Chidi Mokeme -------------- whats wrong about it?
Nothin. |
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osereka (m)
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people that married older women
RMD and--------------------- what happened
bobby brown and-----------------what happened
ALI BABA and---------------------- what happened
chidi mokemeand------------------- what happened
people what really happened osereka want to know. Heard that opuro has been baned from nairaland why
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spoilt (f)
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im still waiting to know what happened. |
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crazyp (f)
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For me oo, marrying someone younger than you is not too nice.
Even when these guys marry someone 10 years younger, they still dey "straph" outside,
its more comfortable to know that your husband is your senior, so that people no go ask you
whether you force am to marry you by pregnancy or otherwise when he starts misbehaving, i don talk finish.
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Creamish (f)
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hmm. . . not ideal in an african society. . . especially when your lookn for respect in that relationship and a happy ever after thingy. . . .I can't date *not to talk of marry* any guy younger than i am!
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Siena (m)
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Depends on why you're marrying her - because you love her. Regardless of whatever anyone else may say, you're going to spend your life with her, so, that's all that counts.
The age thing shouldn't be a barrier. But, if you need to ask folk on a public forum what you should do, then, you've already answered that question for yourself,
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Godsgirl (f)
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I wouldn't marry a man 5 years younger than me. I'm afraid that I will treat him like a child and I do not believe any man (no matter the age) deserves that kind of treatment. I guess it's all in the human psyche but I would prefer to marry an older man. My choice could very well have stemmed from my junior high school experiences. During after school lessons, the boys in class were practically in "heat" every day and wanted to get in every girl's pants; only to write the names of their victims the next day on the wall, with illustrations of their pubic area on display. I'm sure you can imagine how such images could affect a 14 y/o girl at the time. I generally think older men (having already been there and done that) have a better sense of control. My future husband will be at least 10 years older than I am and no more than 12. I've got it all planned out. FYI, I do realise that some older men could act as kids, therefore I do not base my decision on age alone.
Agape!
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